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 Mar 15 2006, 07:53 PM
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crumpled up old piece of paper scribble on me  Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,366  |
okay so there is this guy that i used to have a crush on and he is still a good friend and my chick friend likes him but i just cant let her date him! what the hell do i do>??
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Mar 15 2006, 08:07 PM
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Well if he likes your "chick friend" back, the wisest thing to do is let him date her. You're not dating the guy so don't control who dates him and what not.
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Mar 15 2006, 08:15 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
if they like each other..than you'll just have to give in..plus he's not yours so you really can't control that...sorry..
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Mar 15 2006, 09:50 PM
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crumpled up old piece of paper scribble on me Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,366 |
but the thing is he is in love with me which he told me yet i love my boyfriend and he does kinda like her but he said he couldnt date her how can i let her down easy
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Mar 15 2006, 09:53 PM
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QUOTE(scratchthisdown @ Mar 15 2006, 9:50 PM)  but the thing is he is in love with me which he told me yet i love my boyfriend and he does kinda like her but he said he couldnt date her how can i let her down easy Oh he loves YOU now? love love love love god damn talk about infactuation! Do whatever you feel is best for your friend. Make a decision that you're sure your friend won't end up getting hurt a bit too much. |
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Mar 15 2006, 09:54 PM
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crumpled up old piece of paper scribble on me Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,366 |
thanks i guess! not much help but whatever i cant really decide how to tell her! so whatever i guess ill just have to hurt her
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Mar 15 2006, 09:57 PM
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You want to help her but you'll hurt her? Sure be honest to her but I hope you don't say it so bluntly...
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Mar 15 2006, 10:33 PM
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you have a boyfriend... why not let that guy decide what he wants to do
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Mar 16 2006, 12:15 AM
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crumpled up old piece of paper scribble on me Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,366 |
he already has and wont give up on me!
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Mar 16 2006, 01:43 AM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
QUOTE(scratchthisdown @ Mar 15 2006, 8:54 PM) thanks i guess! not much help but whatever i cant really decide how to tell her! so whatever i guess ill just have to hurt her why would you do that for a guy? |
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Mar 16 2006, 08:31 AM
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crumpled up old piece of paper scribble on me Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,366 |
i wouldnt but no ones advices tell me anything else! they are both my best friends
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Mar 16 2006, 03:22 PM
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QUOTE(scratchthisdown @ Mar 16 2006, 12:15 AM) he already has and wont give up on me! how immoral this guy is. How old are you guys again? If both of your ages range from 11-15 I will laugh at that whole love thing. Surely if he just stopped being so desperate for you and moved on this situation could be avoided. |
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Mar 16 2006, 03:49 PM
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crumpled up old piece of paper scribble on me Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,366 |
he is 21 and im 18 i live on my own and dont tell me i dont know wat love is cause i could explain if youd like! i dont take this situation lightly because of the emotional asspect here! any real advice id like to here not just jokes about the situation! THANX
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Mar 16 2006, 04:01 PM
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Oh wow from how you sound you seem like an infactuated and naiive girl. If you actually cared for the guy and your friend, you would be honest.
Tell the guy that you're taken and he should get over you, good friends don't keep secrets and the girl, gosh if it's a crush she can get over this. |
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Mar 16 2006, 06:00 PM
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crumpled up old piece of paper scribble on me Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,366 |
he knows i have a guy and my boyfriend knows about him!
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Mar 16 2006, 08:07 PM
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yeah...so tell him to get over himself!
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Mar 16 2006, 08:36 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
umm if he likes your friend then maybe you should let them go out? i mean you're not really making an effort into stopping it are you? i mean if you really liked him then you should talk to him first and tell your friend that you like him...i don't know..maybe you BOTH should back out of it...
 \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\ oh crap wait a second...i just read above..ha..you have a boyfriend? umm...do me a favor...stay out of your friend's business then...that other boy can't be "in love" with you because you even said he didn't say it...are you just making things up? X___X!!! umm....just stay out of it..you have a boyfriend. who he goes out with is none of your business... 
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Mar 16 2006, 09:12 PM
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tell her how you ALSO feel
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Mar 17 2006, 09:14 AM
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why won't you let your friend and the guy you USED to like date? besides, you have a boyfriend. it sounds like you still have feelings for that guy. just have a big meeting, talk everything out and hopefully it'll end up as a good result.
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Mar 17 2006, 11:35 AM
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crumpled up old piece of paper scribble on me Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,366 |
QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Mar 16 2006, 8:36 PM) umm if he likes your friend then maybe you should let them go out? i mean you're not really making an effort into stopping it are you? i mean if you really liked him then you should talk to him first and tell your friend that you like him...i don't know..maybe you BOTH should back out of it... \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\ oh crap wait a second...i just read above..ha..you have a boyfriend? umm...do me a favor...stay out of your friend's business then...that other boy can't be "in love" with you because you even said he didn't say it...are you just making things up? X___X!!! umm....just stay out of it..you have a boyfriend. who he goes out with is none of your business... well first i dont know what ur reading but he did tell me he loves me he tells me everyday when he talks to me and i cant really stay out of the situation because they are my friends and he likes me and she likes him! They are my bestfriends since forever! i cant just say hey casey he doesnt like u he likes me sorry sweetie cause guess what she knows he likes me!!! and she doesnt care but matt wont give it up that i have a b/f and wants me to dump my b/f for him!!  it makes me crazy cause matts been my friend forever and i love him like a friend and hes not a bad guy at all and me and my b/f are having problems but we live together he took me in when i got kicked out! so theres your really story not have of it ... anything else u need to know to actually know the situation ask!
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Mar 17 2006, 12:05 PM
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QUOTE(scratchthisdown @ Mar 15 2006, 11:15 PM) he already has and wont give up on me! Alright, at this point it just seems like you're bragging.  This has never been about your friend, it's clearly all about you. You already know what you want to do it. So do it. Use him to raise your self-esteem while sucking your boyfriend dry of his money, emotions, and time. VAMPIRE! |
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Mar 17 2006, 02:39 PM
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crumpled up old piece of paper scribble on me Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,366 |
it has nothing to do with it me it has everything to do with matt i want him to realize that i dont want to leave my boyfriend but matt wants me to! but wat ever
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Mar 17 2006, 02:48 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
VAMPIRE! AWFUL VAMPIRE!
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Mar 18 2006, 08:08 AM
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QUOTE(scratchthisdown @ Mar 17 2006, 2:39 PM) it has nothing to do with it me it has everything to do with matt i want him to realize that i dont want to leave my boyfriend but matt wants me to! but wat ever you guys need pillls. And if your friend is as imoral as a...whatever...and wants to persue you even though you're taken. He really needs pills. . |
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Mar 18 2006, 01:25 PM
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crumpled up old piece of paper scribble on me Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,366 |
well i dont have to worry about it anymore i broke up with my boyfriend and dont want to be with anyone because im 18 and need a life and have some problems to take care of!!!!! so drop it and peace!
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