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 Mar 7 2006, 10:41 AM
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Okay so me and this guy (we'll call him A to protect his ID) A have been getting really close lately hanging out everynight for the past week!! I even spent the night with him on Thursday at our friend(we'll call him T) T's house!! So he was like telling me to call him every night when i left and I did.....So then last night I called up my friend (we'll call him C) C to ask him what was up and he gave the phone to T and T told me that A had gone to Florida!! Now why wouldn't he tell me he was leaving the state!! Isn't that something you usually tell someone you are seeing!! It is just so wierd!! What is your opinion on this should I just shrug it off and say F you then or what!! Or should I just not tell him when I leave and go up to New York!! Or am I being to petty!!
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| *mipadi* |
Mar 7 2006, 10:49 AM
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Shrug it off. How serious are you? Evidently you haven't been going out for a long time. I don't always tell everyone I know when I leave on a trip.
Furthermore, before you jump to conclusions, maybe there is more to the story. Maybe he tried to contact you but couldn't. Maybe he doesn't have a phone with him. I'd just wait until he gets back to talk to him about it and find out what's up. Out of curiosity, if you don't mind my asking—how old are you two? |
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Mar 7 2006, 10:49 AM
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hm......that's weird. how long have u known this guy? and yeah, if he cared he would have told u he was leaving. but i dk.
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Mar 7 2006, 10:51 AM
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I am 17 and he is 19(I think)
I have known him for about 4 or 5 months but we just recently started seeing each other on a relationship level and not as just friends like a week ago! |
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| *mipadi* |
Mar 7 2006, 10:55 AM
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It's possible he's just an inconsiderate bastard, but I'd get the full story before you jump to conclusions.
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Mar 7 2006, 10:57 AM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Mar 7 2006, 9:55 AM)  It's possible he's just an inconsiderate bastard, but I'd get the full story before you jump to conclusions. true, true. |
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Mar 7 2006, 11:00 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 374,707 |
So mostly you think I should just wait til he gets back and talk to him!!
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Mar 7 2006, 11:05 AM
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yes
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Mar 7 2006, 11:05 AM
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Yeah. Maybe he has a damn good reason for his disappearance.
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Mar 7 2006, 12:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
mustve been an emergency.
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Mar 7 2006, 12:29 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i don't get it...why would he just tell your mutual friend instead of you, the girl he's seeing? it doesn't really matter what the situation is, if it was something big why didn't he tell you but tell T?
you should definately ask him about it as soon as possible before he can make up an excuse. if you gave me enough time, i could come up with an ironclad excuse. |
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Mar 7 2006, 05:39 PM
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i agree with everyone else, ask him when he gets back.
maybe he had a reason why he didn't tell you he was leaving for Florida. |
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Mar 7 2006, 06:27 PM
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I talked to him today I called him and was like I heard you went to Florida!! And he said "yeah I'm helping Adam move back to Birmingham!" And then he told me about how the cops were trying to pin some crime on him and T and how he left town just before the cops came and talked to T!! I was like okay that sucks!! But I am pretty sure he wouldn't lie to me and believe me I know what gigantic assholes cops can be!! I absolutely hate them!! But anyways I still don't know when he is coming back but at least I now know what he is doing there.
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Mar 7 2006, 06:38 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
he obviously doesnt care that much about you. just forget about him.
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Mar 7 2006, 07:08 PM
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I think he's probably bullshiting you.
I can't imagine how "leaving town" would be a viable option to escape the cops, when you're 19(?) and plan on arriving home soon. If they are "looking for him," they'll find him And, he said he went to help a friend move? So, was that just a coincidence that his friend was moving, and he had to split town to get away from the cops? And, why is he running from the cops in the first place? Cops have to come to town? You like... don't have cops in town? Sounds like a bunch of bullshit to me. |
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Mar 7 2006, 07:17 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
you guys weren't officially going out or anything right? i mean all you said is that you guys were "getting really close lately" but if you two aren't together i don't see any reason why he SHOULD have told you..i mean he COULD have told you if he really cared about you...but yeah...i don't think he's really worth your time....you shouldn't be dealing with some guy that's getting involved with the police anyways....i would try to move on if i were you.
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| *mipadi* |
Mar 7 2006, 08:39 PM
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QUOTE(Jackieice @ Mar 7 2006, 6:27 PM) I talked to him today I called him and was like I heard you went to Florida!! And he said "yeah I'm helping Adam move back to Birmingham!" And then he told me about how the cops were trying to pin some crime on him and T and how he left town just before the cops came and talked to T!! I was like okay that sucks!! But I am pretty sure he wouldn't lie to me and believe me I know what gigantic assholes cops can be!! I absolutely hate them!! But anyways I still don't know when he is coming back but at least I now know what he is doing there. So…you're worried about the fact that he left town without telling you, but the fact that he or his friend might be in trouble with the law is acceptable? |
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Mar 7 2006, 09:35 PM
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Why!! Do!! You!! Type!! Like!! This!!
Sorry, grammar just bothers me sometimes. Well, if he's involved with the cops... why are you even wasting your time on him? He doesn't sound like somebody you'd want to be with if he's in a situation like that. This guy sounds like someone who might make you do something or get involved with that you'll really regret later. |
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Mar 7 2006, 11:04 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Mar 7 2006, 7:08 PM) I think he's probably bullshiting you. I can't imagine how "leaving town" would be a viable option to escape the cops, when you're 19(?) and plan on arriving home soon. If they are "looking for him," they'll find him And, he said he went to help a friend move? So, was that just a coincidence that his friend was moving, and he had to split town to get away from the cops? And, why is he running from the cops in the first place? Cops have to come to town? You like... don't have cops in town? Sounds like a bunch of bullshit to me. i agree! he is so full of sh*t i don't believe any damn detail of his crock of an excuse. if it really involved the cops, T would have said something when he told you that A went to florida, especially since it involves him as well. if A really didn't do the crime, why is he afraid to talk to the cops? as shady as some cops may be, they can't pin something on you if you didn't do it, unless they really have it out for you. |
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Mar 8 2006, 01:03 PM
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Well I really don't know about the whole situation with the cops and shit but I don't know why he would lie to me about that. I mean he knows how much I hate cops and he might just be playing on my hate for them but I dun know. And further more I happen to know that the cops can pin something on you that you didn't do b/c of my cousins and shit that I don't really wish to discuss...but he called me last night at like midnight which either tells me that he is helping Adam b/c if he wasn't then he'd be out partying or it tells me that he just couldn't find a good party to go to...or i could just be being stupid about the whole situation. Further more since we really aren't an exclusive couple it makes the situation seem to matter less and makes him not telling me not as important as I may have made it seem earlier. I know it probably sounds like I'm just making up excuses for him but I don't know. Like I said he called me last night and told me that he is probably coming home today or tomorrow. And I asked him if he was gonna get in trouble with the cops and he said probably not b/c T didn't end up getting in trouble. But I don't know.
And Some of you are saying stuff about how him possibly being in trouble with the law should bother me and stuff but I don't know I really don't care about that kind of stuff so long as he didn't actually do what they say he did. Two of my most favorite people in the world have been to Juvenile Jails for about a year of their lives and I still love them and they have both never made me do anything that I didn't want to do either legal or illegal. okay I don't know if this entire comment makes any sense at all but this is just how I feel about the situation right now as in at 12:03 PM Wednesday March 8, 2006!! |
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Mar 8 2006, 01:07 PM
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i'd be offended myself; but you sound pretty infatuated with him.
maybe it was just a short thing and he felt like there was no point in telling you; or maybe he just didn't want you to know? ask him what's up when he gets back |
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Mar 8 2006, 03:50 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
I don't even get why she is here or asking for anyones help. She seems to have already made her decision a long time ago. Is she looking for reassurance or is she fishing for excuses?
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Mar 8 2006, 05:50 PM
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^ I'd say she's breaking out the tackle. /snark
Seriously though - problems with cops are bad mmk? He didn't give you the courtesy of telling you was leaving, he's telling conflicting stories (or at least, there's a lot of coincidence if he's helping someone move AND bailing from the cops - what a multi tasker. /sarcasm) Just move on. |
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Mar 23 2006, 09:30 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
QUOTE(chococat15 @ Mar 7 2006, 7:49 AM) hm......that's weird. how long have u known this guy? and yeah, if he cared he would have told u he was leaving. but i dk. ^^agreed && yeah... |
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Mar 23 2006, 09:34 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Eh. Just see what happens.
That is a little weird though. |
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