i hate drama., dont you? Options

[loljuliana]

So basically, this is how everything is.

Well, it started way back when I liked this guy. Lets call him Fred. Soon I stopped liking him, and then one of my really close friends, lets call her, Grace, starts liking him. A couple months later, I start liking him again. We were both alright with the fact that we both liked him. Soon enough, I told a friend of mine, lets call her Vicky, to tell him that I liked him, just to see what he would say.

Time went on. Me&Fred would talk often. I asked him who he liked, and he refused to tell me unless I told him who I liked. Feeling awkward, I didnt tell him.

So Vicky asks him who he liked, and he told her that he liked me.
And then later on, I was able to tell him that I liked him. He told me that he liked me too.
But then now, I cant be in a relationship with him because Grace liked him too. I wouldnt do that to her.
I felt as if I would be going behind her back by not telling her that I told him that I liked him and that he liked me back. And so I told her, and she said she didnt care anymore. Of course, I didnt believe her. But no matter how many times I asked her, she would tell me she was alright. And I told Fred what happened, and he seemed to believe that she was really okay with it.

And now, Grace spends alot of time with one of my other best friends, lets call her Julie. And now I feel as if I just had one of my best friends stolen. Cause now they are always together, and I would always just be lagging behind in the back. They would sometimes just leave me alone somewhere and go somewhere else by themselves.

So basically, I dont know what to do with Fred, and I feel abandoned by my friends.

If you were me, what would you do?

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

If I were you, I would talk to this "Grace". It's unfair of her to just think you can't be with someone you like just because she likes the same person. He doesn't like her, she should let that sink in...

BUT

I don't know, it could be that you're spending a lot of time with Fred and Grace feels she needs another friend.

Just talk.

[loljuliana]

But the thing is, the only reason I spend a lot of time with Fred, is because they leave me behind and I dont have anyone else to walk/talk with.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^Then why won't you tell them that's the exact reason? You gotta divide your time up evenly alright? And confront them about it. Don't have secrets.

[alphanumeric]

You should talk to "Grace". Im sure it's all a misunderstanding, or maybe she just feels like she can't talk to you about her true feelings because she doesn't want it to affect the relationship you have with "Fred", therefore, she talks to "Julie" about it.

[*ranniel*]

^ you should do that. that's just about what i was going to say.

[pinacoolada]

if she really is your friend she would understand..talk.talk.talk

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Well all these names are confusing me, I can't believe after all this time I haven't seen this topic. Well, Juliana, I'm going to talk to you like we never met before and merely knew each other as cBers. I should stop rambling and get to my advice.

Quite frankly, I'd agree with the others but then again I don't know. If she says she's okay with it, then maybe she really is okay with it. I agree with Yen. (Blow_dontSUCK) If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you alright? I mean, if you feel left out. I'll be here for you to talk to.

[Mikael]

if i were you, i would get an author to publish what you just wrote because i find the she said he she this that thing is hilarious. anyway, talk to grace, work it out. dont date fred. freds getting a one or another deal and he sees it like "sweeeeetness", and one of you is gonna go home crying. so stop the matrix now and dont date him. if she starts to date him, its ok. cause you still have your best friend. the end. publish that yeah.

[jue]

=T i already said everything i had to say to you online.
and sorry if you feel that like "Julie's" leaving you. i guess grace just like cant find it in her to talk to you. do what you think is best for you fred and grace. leave julie outta it xD >_>

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I agree with Jue. I don't know really how to say it but, what do YOU think is best? Not what anyone else thinks is best. I really don't know how to explain this right here and now. But IM me if you ever need to talk, mmkay?

WAHOO 3,000 posts BABYYYY! [/end spam]

[NgocQuyen]

to be honest with you, if i were in your shoes, i would say the eff with grace and i would go try things out with fred. i mean apparently grace isn't a very good friend to you by not being able to understand your feelings. i mean she should know that "crushes" for guys can come and go, but you never throw away your friendship just because the guy you like likes your friend...that's just stupid..so yeahh....grace isn't a good friend and you should just talk to fred and hang out with him more...that's just what i would do...i mean you like him and he likes you...sooo why the not?

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

^ Well that wouldn't be fair to Grace, would it? I mean, I agree with you that friendship comes before guys, so why should she just throw away Grace's feelings like that, when clearly they happen to be the best of friends. Her and Grace share the same feelings for this one guy, and I think that's the problem here.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Well your the one who wanted to go out with him.. bhind your friends back don't get mad when she wants to hang out with someone else.. I mean you're prolly going to spend alott of time with your new beau && she prolly wants someone to be there for her.. like you used to be.. before you started liking him.. && she doesn't want to be that friend that has to wait by the phone every friday night for you to call her && tell her how your night was while she could be hanging out with Julie.. getting over Fred so she can find someone to be with.. I mean I think it's only fair for her to do the same... but if she's only doin this to get you jealous of her && julies friendship then thats honestly childish.. && if she has a problemw with you.. she needs to tell you now.. so she doesn't bring it up ages later.. using it as blackmail.. but yeahh good luck with that.. && the best to ya!!..

[jue]

yeah i agree with xXMomoBubbleTeaXx. I think "Grace" is just hanging out with "Julie" to help herself get over "Fred" I doubt "Grace" is doing this to get you jealous or anything about her hanging out with "Julie"

and to lilxl0ser; i dont think it would be quite fair to Grace if Juliana just went ahead and dated fred forgetting grace's feelings after everything they've been through. I mean, i think they only reason Grace is parting away from you is because she wants to part away from seeing you two together. not in the bad way tough, not like she doesnt want you two to be together kinda way.

[subway]

well its her problem he doesnt like you. why take it out on you? its like you forced him to like you..
and shes pretty messed up if she's just leaving like that.
go out with the guy and then make her jealous
muahahahaha

[Syar]

After all, she IS your friend, but you should still talk to her about it.

[*ranniel*]

Life goes on, of course its great to do what everyone here says. But it'll come to pass, try to talk to them or make new friends. Friendships should end like this, but a lot of it does. Talking of course is the only way to make relationships worse or better.

[Flavored Condom]

nice month it's been.

[*My Cinderella.*]

The decision has been made.

[jue]

yeah, congrats