have you ever? Options

[AMBERLY07]

has someone ever whent out with u just so they won't hurt u're felllings someone has done tat to me i wish he would not have because we were really good friends.i had none him 4 a really long time.**runs away**

[pinayprincess]

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!?

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edit: ummmm... no b/c i wouldnt fall for any tricks of a stupid person in the first place; if that DID happen [or would of] i would of beaten the life out of the boy; no f**king idiot gets away with hurting my feelings

[Comptine]

first, way over board on the smilies and turn the caps lock key off please.

second, no. while i would've done it to someone else at one point, it really is an awful thing to do. cause then you get the person's hopes up and then later on, you break their hearts. i don't think the guy deserves to die though...

[AMBERLY07]

HE DIDN'T MAKE IT OUT ALVIE BELIVE ME

[Chii]

i would be very pissed if someone dated me out of pity but i highly doubt that it has happened. i pick and choose from many different suitors

however i wouldn't be as mad as you are because eventually, i'd understand that the guy was just trying to be nice but kind of did it in the wrong way... he didn't want to hurt you and he kind of gave you a chance, at least he didn't just ignore you and make you feel awkward.

[silver-rain]

Hmm, I don't think I've ever done that, and I don't think that has ever happened to me.
But yeah, I wouldn't like it if it was done out of pity.

[Anielka]

I've come close to doing that. But I didn't. It's wrong. Like lying.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

I've done that because I didn't know what else to say and I didn't want to hurt their feelings, but I always end it soon because I don't want to lead them on.

And nobody has ever done that to me, and if they did, they sure didn't pity all the things they said to me and all the things they did with me.

[NoSex]

...been out some place, recognizing everybody's face, until you realize that there was no one there you knew?!



AWFUL!

[_sarcastic_]

i wouldn't do that, it's like lying and leading that person on.
no one has ever done that to me either

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

no I would never do that, but it has been done to me numerous times. I was really hurt, but oh well, that's life.

[AnnahhbeL]

no one has ever done that to me before, but if they did, i would be very upset...

[NgocQuyen]

hmm, i think some guy did..like in 5th grade...but i don't consider him my bf or anything...because my friend asked him out for me and he said yes but he called it off at the end of the DAY...hahaa kids..so funny =]] hehe but now he's kind of starting to regret it now huh? hahahaa

[benedictkenny]

...been out some place, recognizing everybody's face, until you realize that there was no one there you knew?!



AWFUL!

I dunno if anyone knows...even sadder, I'm LOOKING at that album RIGHT NOW. It's less than 3 feet away.
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Anyway, you guys seem very concerned with morals, and things being wrong, morals being subjective. Someone dated you, and you're assuming that what you see as right and wrong in dating is necessarily right and wrong in dating. I'm sure you woulda loved him so much more if he dated you for completely superficial reasons (which is what guys around your age are capable of anyway. nothing more, but a whole lot less, truuust me). Dating is experience, and will rarely, if ever, go completely right. Just look at it from the best point of view possible, that is, learning what you can and not holding people personally responsible (since most people don't actively love, but just impersonate what they have been taught as love from society and the media).


Assuming your personality is as awesome and original as your username, this is something you should he happy about. Although it might work in my case (mostly because I'm me, and not you). I like the sound of "Workplace21". It reminds me of Showplace 16.
Unless, of course, your intened username uses 1337, and is actually middleschoolB, short for middleschoolBeta, in which case I love you very much!

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

You mean, has somoene ever gone out with me through pity? Nah. I don't think so. Please don't type in CAPS. ITS HARD TO READ AND PLEASE CUT DOWN ON THE SMILIES.

[richc]

nope

but i went out with a girl that just used me for attention...

stupid attention freak

[misoshiru]

learn how to spell damnit.


no, and if i knew that someone was asking me out, out of pity, i would say no.

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

wo0ow way over bored on the smileys. Ha and the caps lock has to go.. It makes me think that your sreaming it every one.

Back to the subject. Dont let it get to you its not worth your time to be stressed out over nothing. just say thanks for taking you out and go along with your day. No big deal?

[Trumpetman4eva]

no. i think it's more harmful to the other person if you do that.

[*ranniel*]

no. i was the other person, but i was forgiven, because im that kind of person. a forgiving one.

[ecargnmyst]

no guys done that to me...but i think ive come close to doing that..i notice when someone likes me and when their friends tell me that theyre gonna ask me out..i kinda feel bad for saying no..b/c ive turned down guys before and then we just stop talking =\ ..but ive been tempted a couple of times to say yes even tho i didnt like them..but didnt mind going out w/ them either..only b/c i wanted a bf ..but that woulve been wrong to do

i keep turning down guys b/c i dont feel the same for them..so i havent had an actual bf yet..but the guys i said no to..w/ some we remain friends..and some we havent talked in ages

but one of my guy friends told me that i should just say yes and give it a try even if i dont feel anything..that i should just "go with a guy who likes me rather than a guy i like" but that IS going out w/ someone out of pity..hes a guy and hes telling me to do that..O.o i dunno if i should.. eh..im thinking theres something wrong w/ me

[SimplicityGirl]

My first real bf did that to me...so you can imagine the hurt I felt when he broke it off with me one month after he asked me out. He knew that I liked him a lot, and thought it was the right thing to do by asking me out. Unfortunately, the "right" thing was the wrong thing...because for a whole month I had believed that he truly liked me back in the same way that I liked him. But in the end when he told me...it was very heartbreaking. But I'm over that jerk now =P

It's the worst thing anybody can do to somebody else's heart. I have always believed that if you don't like them, if you never even pictured that there could a possibility between the two of you, just turn them down. That way, feelings don't get hurt as much.

[Bridget_rules_4e...]

I kinda did that once but only because my friends told him i liked him after he said he liked me....but then i started to like him...but we only lasted 2 weeks lol

[FoxBandCutie08]

Well, kind of. For me, my boyfriend was stuck with picking between my friend and I, to go out with. He never mentioned it or anything, but my sister answered the phone when he called before we were going out, and my sister asked if he was going to ask me out, he said maybe, and my sister flipped and told me that he was going to ask me out. I didn't believe him, but the boy felt obligated to ask me out. I didn't know all this until we broke up, and I felt very stupid, we went out for like 6 months.

[VintagexCore]

I don't understand.
Sorry.