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 Feb 22 2006, 09:10 AM
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my friend,oliver joined a competition---string essemble
he got third,but he wanted the first price. i just said"perhaps just because of stress,u guys cant elaborate their strengths,just dun be too stress and thats ok=)" he though i was INCHING/INSULTING HIM LOL.  and he said"i hate you"to me what should i do?say sorry to him or...?but i didnt say any wrong things and I MUST ADMIT THAT IM NOT INCHING HIM. help me please
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Feb 22 2006, 05:30 PM
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 "lal! laugh a little!" Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 364,863 |
Hey, I'm sorry but, I don't know what that is :|
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Feb 22 2006, 05:41 PM
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he's just not in a very good mood at the moment probably. just tell him "sorry if i got you mad".
talk to him |
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Feb 22 2006, 09:36 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
awwh winnie ! i don't think you said the wrong thing...you were just giving your input and he just got mad...i think that he was just upset that he got third...perhaps he was looking for the words "oh my gosh i soo think you should have gotten first!" but i don't think you needed to give him that...just tell him that what you said wasn't meant as an insult or anything of that nature, and tell him that you're sorry if you "offended" him in anyway
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Feb 23 2006, 02:05 AM
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Yeah, I don't think non-Cantonese createBlog members know what "inching" means. =p "Inching" basically means like, being sarcastic or critical, and throwing a rude comment at someone.
So...you didn't say any wrong things but you DO admit you were inching him? Well, then, really, you DID say some wrong things. Apologize. If he THINKS you inched him, he probably has good reason to. Talk to him and explain yourself. If you didn't mean it like that, make it clear to him. Good luck. |
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Feb 23 2006, 02:08 AM
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Aw, the best thing you can do is discuss it with him, tell him what you really meant.
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Feb 24 2006, 08:11 AM
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QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Feb 23 2006, 12:05 AM)  Yeah, I don't think non-Cantonese createBlog members know what "inching" means. =p "Inching" basically means like, being sarcastic or critical, and throwing a rude comment at someone. So...you didn't say any wrong things but you DO admit you were inching him? Well, then, really, you DID say some wrong things. Apologize. If he THINKS you inched him, he probably has good reason to. Talk to him and explain yourself. If you didn't mean it like that, make it clear to him. Good luck. sorri typing mistake=[ |
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