mono!! tell him?! HHELP!! |
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 Feb 21 2006, 04:07 PM
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SOOO this guy i rly like FINALLY kissed me...we went as far as frenching.
abt 3 days later my throat started hurting...i went to the doctor today (11 days after the kiss) and he said hes 70% sure i have mono!!! he did a blood test and ill find out tomorrow if i have it for sure or not. should i tell my guy that the dr thinks i have it? if i dont tell him yet...and the test comes out positive...do i hafta tell him? will that make him not wanna kiss me agen? plz help! |
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Feb 21 2006, 04:29 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it depends if you want to or not
but i think you should, i mean better tell him than let him find out somewhere else right? but maybe he was the one that has mono to start out with, isn't it usually transmitted by kissing? |
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Feb 21 2006, 06:15 PM
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yeahh..i think u got mono from him..so maybe he doesnt know he has it..so u should prolly tell him before it gets transmitted to more ppl..
2 ppl got mono at my school..but i have no idea what happened afterwards..=\ sry wish i could help more |
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Feb 21 2006, 07:06 PM
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i had this whole mono epidemic at my school not a long time ago... this one group of friends basically gave it to each other. you should just tell the guy cuz if he has it, then he needs to take care of it [and anyone else that potentially has it]. mono can make you extremely tired and have other not so great side-effects. dont share any drinks or chapstick or anything like that for a while too. as for the whole "not wanting to kiss you again" - dont worry about it... that whole group of friends i was talking about still kiss people.. just didnt while they had mono lol. so, he wont wanna kiss you now, but if he really likes you he might in the future. get better soon!
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Feb 21 2006, 09:10 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
wait..what is mono? ive heard of it before but i was never sure what it was.
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Feb 21 2006, 09:40 PM
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 Oh Goddamnit. Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884 |
Tell him. "Hey I might have mono so I'm looking out for you and telling you you should watch out for it and treat it."
Or something. |
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| *mipadi* |
Feb 21 2006, 10:00 PM
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Yes, you should definitely tell him. It's the most responsible thing to do.
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Feb 21 2006, 11:24 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Feb 21 2006, 9:10 PM)  wait..what is mono? ive heard of it before but i was never sure what it was. mono is known as the "kissing disease." the symptoms are: QUOTE Fever - this varies from mild to severe, but is seen in nearly all cases. you can learn more about it hereEnlarged and tender lymph nodes - particularly the posterior cervical lymph nodes, on both sides of the neck. Sore throat (throat infection) - nearly all patients with EBV-mononucleosis have symptoms similar to tonsillitis. Fatigue (sometimes extreme fatigue) i think you should definately tell him. he might not know that he has it if he does have it. you can pass it to people through coughing and sneezing, not just kissing. |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Feb 21 2006, 11:28 PM
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It's selfish if you don't tell them.
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Feb 22 2006, 07:15 PM
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 =] Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
you should tell..
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Feb 22 2006, 07:25 PM
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You should tell him; he has the right to know.
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Feb 22 2006, 07:29 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
Honesty is the best policy. Cue him in.
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| *ainami* |
Feb 22 2006, 07:31 PM
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You certainly must tell him, or he'll be really weirded out by finding it out from someone else. Seriously, it's better if you just tell him so you don't spread it to him. You don't want to be giving this to people; it lasts for on average 6 weeks and you feel crappy the whole time.
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Feb 22 2006, 08:40 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i think you should tell him, but you never know..he might be the one who GAVE it to you in the first place. so, maybe you should suggest that he go get tested too
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| *Zatanna* |
Feb 22 2006, 08:42 PM
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Mono is miserable.
 You're going to have to tell him.
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Feb 22 2006, 08:42 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
2 words.
tell him. |
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