A little help with..., my family and friend drama |
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 Feb 16 2006, 08:13 PM
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 Souper smrt  Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,638  |
Ok, so I really need help with thinking about who to choose. It is the typical friends or family problem.
Ok, my cousin has been going to my school for a bout two months now and as soon as she came to my school she started drama with my good friend popple because she like this boy that popple was crushing on and popple got really upset because my cousin was taking away the boy from her and popple just broke down in tears over it and I told my cousin to back off of chris and leave him alone. And so she did. But now like a month later my cousin has found a new target. My friend Cassy. My cousin is trying to get with toasty and Toasty is Cassy's now boyfriend! And so I told my cousin to stay away from Toasty because he will only cause all of us drama and I don't want to lose my friend cassy just because of my cousin. And so today at school cassy came up to my cousin and told her that she needed to stop trying to get with toasty. And when I came my cousin was all talking about cassy and calling her a bunch of rude names and I told my cousin that she needed to stop getting so butt hurt that Cassy told her to stay away from Toasty because she had no business trying to get the two to break up and get with him and I told her that from the first day that I knew she was starting to like him. And the my cousin just turned away from me and my friends(she hangs out with me at school) and I was like WTF where is she going? I wasn't mad at her or anything. And then Ray tells me in English class that she went with them to Burger King crying and all that. And so after school I went to burger king and talked to her (she works there) and she said that she was mad because I stuck up for cassy and not her. That she was my cousin and I should be there for her. So I'm torn between backing up my cousin against one of my friends when I know what my cousin is doing is wrong. Or telling my cousin that she is wrong and she needs to stop her drama now, because this is the second time that she is putting me through this. But I need to know if what I am doing is right because she is after all family. |
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Feb 16 2006, 09:06 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
stick up for what you believ is right. i would stick up for cassy, your friend.
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Feb 16 2006, 09:06 PM
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What is up wit the nick names?
Anyways telling your cousin what she's doing wrong is the right thing. Be mature about it and tell her in a nice manner that she needs to stop all this drama. |
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Feb 16 2006, 09:41 PM
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Yeh you should have told her off for Toasty, Cassy's bf, as he is already TAKEN. But then, IMO, I don't think you should/need to tell her to back off over Chris, or Popple's crush.
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Feb 16 2006, 10:03 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well you know cassy is wrong, talk to her.
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Feb 20 2006, 12:43 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
It doesn't matter if she's related to you, you always let someone know if they're doing the wrong thing, which she is. Tell her she needs to find a guy who isn't taken and isn't liked by anyone else in your guys' group, because guys are not worth losing your friends.
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Feb 20 2006, 12:58 PM
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wow; you cousin's a bitch [sorry sorry] but you should tell her to stop.. in ANY WAY/ANY FORM... she needs to know what she's doing is wrong! as her how'd she feel if somebody did that to her?
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Feb 20 2006, 01:33 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
What.. interesting names.
 No offense, but your cousin is a freaking bitch. She needs to back off. Just talk to both of them and sort things out.
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