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 Feb 7 2006, 04:51 PM
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 DING DONG.  Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,900  |
 Okay. I'm dating my best best best friends brother and i feel uncomfortable being with him when shes around, its like when i want to go to the movies SHE has to come when im online and i want to talk to him she wont let me or im to scared to ask. So i made up a screen name to pretend im my friend so the i can i be like "can siena talk to oumar" its going ok but its getting confusing sometimes i write what i want to say on her thing and hes like what? i dont want it like that anymore. i know he liked me too because when i pretending to be the girl hes like i want to kiss her, shes so pretty, and when im pretending to be the girl and im talking to my best freind shes like its weerd cuz hes my brother and he talks about her all the time. and it is weerd. i really like him and i dont know what to do. plz help me 
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Feb 7 2006, 05:06 PM
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Have you tried talking to your friend about it? She might just be worried that you'll forget about her. Just assure her that you still want to hang out with her, too, and then make sure to follow through on those reassurances. And if you're over hanging out with your boyfriend, don't feel like you can't talk to her at all if she happens to be around.
The best policy is just to talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel, and reassure her. |
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Feb 7 2006, 05:37 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^agreed, talk to your friend about it..after all she is your best best best friend. assure her that everything's gonna be fine. i dated my good friend's brother it was weird for awhile...then we got used to it
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Feb 7 2006, 08:08 PM
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 Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
u no im in one of these situations but not directly my ex is goin out with his sisteres best frend i dunno what to say cus wen i went out with him his sister was like wtf jus tell her how u feel and if she desnt understand tell her that she shu;d accept it if shes a real frend u no she shuld accept it over time thou
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Feb 8 2006, 07:28 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Sounds like your friend is worried about losing you to her brother, and might be uncomfortable with the situation. Let her know that you're going to keep your priorities straight and she will not be kicked out of your life. Let her be involved sometimes when you and her brother are hanging out but also let her know that he is in fact your boyfriend and you do need some alone time.
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Feb 10 2006, 10:18 PM
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DING DONG. Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,900 |
Well i just from a dance tonight and it seemed like she wanted me to be with him. but i still dont know how to hey rama i dont want to go to the movies with you i want to go with oumar. she just wont take that
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Feb 10 2006, 10:51 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
maybe she's afraid that her brother is going to replace her. and that you're going to replace her with her brother. does that make sense? i think she's scared that you're going to stop hanging out with her to hang out with him and she's going to feel alone and what not. just assure her that she's your best friend and that no guy would ever take her place. give her some assurance. and just tell her you would want to spend a little time alone with your bf. promise her a day for you two to spend time together, like just you and your best friend. that's all i would do...lols
 oh and the three of you spending time together isnt that bad either...maybe you guys can even double date 
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