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Do you feel awkward, if the guy is younger?
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post Dec 20 2005, 12:05 AM
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um i tried searching and i dont see a topic on this one but yea.. I know everyone says age doesnt matter in love but honestly if the guy is younger then you.. do you ever feel a little weird?? i just want to know everyones opinion.. cuz i kinda feel weird.. well i guess it wouldnt matter if i really liked the guy.. rolleyes.gif
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 08:22 PM
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When he was in his forties, Hugh Hefner asked out a girl in her early twenties. The girl said, "But I've never been with anyone older than twenty-four!" To which Hugh answered, "That's okay... neither have I."

An inspiring anecdote and one that is very applicable to this situation.
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 08:26 PM
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if i was like..40 and he was 20..then yes. very akward.

but if im 18, and hes 17, sure, why not?
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 09:33 PM
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I don't care the age; the only thing is the maturity level, passion, love, all that jazz.

That's just me.. everyone dislikes being with someone younger, sigh. I feel like crying. fallen.gif

And really.. if you really cared for the person you were with (or planning to be with), you wouldn't leave (or deny) them for a number. cry.gif
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 09:53 PM
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i think that would be weird.... way. even ppl a yr younger than me seems like they r little.
 
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post Jan 4 2006, 01:37 PM
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if it's only by like a couple of months then i don't think i'd feel weird but if it was like by years then that'd be strange i think..although i've never been in that situation
 
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post Jan 4 2006, 02:57 PM
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just a little..I dont wanna become a pedaphyle
 
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post Jan 4 2006, 09:00 PM
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IT DEPENDS WHAT YOU LIKE. GUYS MATURE ALOT SLOWER THAN GIRLS. SO A YOUNGER GUY IS MORE LIKELY TO BE LESS MATURE THAN YOU, BUT IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHERE HIS HEAD IS AT AND WHERE YOURS IS,WHAT YOU BOTH WANT AND HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT EACHOTHER. IF HE IS ABLE TO SATISFY YOU AND MAKE YOU HAPPY THEN DO WHATEVER FEELS BEST.
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post Jan 5 2006, 07:06 AM
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no..
my boyfriends younger then me - but thats by about 2 months.. so like that would have a noticable difference..
but if its a significant age difference - well i dont know. Because guys mature at different ages, depending on what they've been through.. i mean you might not be wanting a serious thing, just a bit of fun - so you go for a younger guy who will want that to. depends what you want, and where your at. also where they are too..
this is a weird but good question..

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its so weird.. cause the way I see it, couples feel weird if they're a couple years apart, when they're in school. But, once they're in their 20s and 30s, age doesn't really matter =/


yea i see that too.. my friends been going out with this 20 year old guy for almost 2 years, and shes 16.. almost 17.. the age wont matter when shes out of school, but everyone looks at her differently coz shes young and hes a little bit older.. and yea..
 
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post Jan 5 2006, 04:41 PM
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i just think it's a little weird.
there's this really really cute guy at school who likes me, but he's a YEAR younger. grrr.
and i do feel a little bit awkward. especially when i think about my best friend, whose brother is exactly a year younger than her. =x
 
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post Jan 5 2006, 10:25 PM
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Well. It depends on how much younger. I'd say more than two years is too much younger, it probably would be a bit weird. But if it's only one year, I'd say it's fine, as long as you both love each other. happy.gif
 
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post Jan 5 2006, 11:53 PM
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well, i don't think so as long as you connect on a good level. (no pun intended)
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 10:14 AM
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i was 7 months older than my ex-boyfriend... it didn't really bother me. I won't date a guy thats a year or more younger though
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 01:08 PM
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My bf is about 10 months younger then me as long as the guy I'm dating isn’t 2 years younger then me I'm ok.
 
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post Jan 7 2006, 05:41 PM
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Well, I went out with a guy in the grade under me, and it was OK. Sometimes you may seem a little superior as far as experience or intelligence may go, but it really shouldn't be too akward.
 
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post Jan 7 2006, 10:17 PM
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it depends on the age difference...
for example, i'm 16 and wouldn't date a guy that's 14 or below.

age isn't really anything but a number, but at the same time, from what i've read, guys mature (emotionally) slower than girls. so yea.

for some reason i usually end up liking 15 year olds though...

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post Jan 8 2006, 10:42 AM
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I feel extremely awkward.


Older guys pwn younger guys.
 
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post Jan 25 2006, 08:49 PM
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i dunno, i've never liked a guy younger than me.

i have a 14-year-old friend who likes a 12-year-old, and she doesn't seem to care at all. everyone else doesn't approve, but i don't really care much. now, if it was a 10-year-old, then i'd raise an eyebrow, of course.

my ex-b/f's best friend's parents were 20 yrs. apart. kind of creepy, if you think about it. when the husband was 20, the wife wasn't even born yet. mellow.gif


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My boyfriend is six months younger than me, and it's fine.
 
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post Jan 25 2006, 10:00 PM
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not unless its 2 or more years younger . but like if its ` a few months , i`m coo widdit.
 
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post Jan 26 2006, 01:48 PM
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If he was YOUNGER YOUNGER yeah... Depends on age. If I was 22 and he was 17 yeah.. I would feel weird.. If I was 30 and he was 25 I would feel awesome.. haha :) But I've always dated older.. so I've never delt with this first hand/
 
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post Jan 26 2006, 06:11 PM
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This may be a bit off topic but not really. I feel a bit awkward when they are skinnier.

Younger too, yes.
 
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post Jan 27 2006, 06:06 PM
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too young is too much.
i think i would only go a year younger.
 
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post Feb 10 2006, 12:20 PM
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Lmao. I think it just depends on the person. Personally, I wouldn't date younger guys because I see them more as.. "Aww, cute." Not "HEY BABY!" lmao.

I just wouldn't date younger guys. But, that's just me.

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post Feb 10 2006, 05:50 PM
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i would prefer if the guy wasn't younger than me. i do feel weird if the guy is younger...so i just don't date younger guys lols wink.gif
 
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post Feb 10 2006, 06:13 PM
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Well, yeah. >.>
I mean, if he was a few months younger, yes. But anything beyond a year kind of scares me. I don't know why. But height matters to me too. I wouldn't care if I really really REALLY liked the guy though.
 
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post Feb 10 2006, 07:09 PM
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no. unless he's super younger.
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