Do you feel awkward, if the guy is younger? |
Do you feel awkward, if the guy is younger? |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 310,648 ![]() |
um i tried searching and i dont see a topic on this one but yea.. I know everyone says age doesnt matter in love but honestly if the guy is younger then you.. do you ever feel a little weird?? i just want to know everyones opinion.. cuz i kinda feel weird.. well i guess it wouldnt matter if i really liked the guy..
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#26
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![]() Dark Lord of McCandless ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 ![]() |
When he was in his forties, Hugh Hefner asked out a girl in her early twenties. The girl said, "But I've never been with anyone older than twenty-four!" To which Hugh answered, "That's okay... neither have I."
An inspiring anecdote and one that is very applicable to this situation. |
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#27
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![]() YEA? ILL EAT YOUR FACE OFF =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,087 ![]() |
if i was like..40 and he was 20..then yes. very akward.
but if im 18, and hes 17, sure, why not? |
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#28
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![]() Food. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 667 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,545 ![]() |
I don't care the age; the only thing is the maturity level, passion, love, all that jazz.
That's just me.. everyone dislikes being with someone younger, sigh. I feel like crying. ![]() And really.. if you really cared for the person you were with (or planning to be with), you wouldn't leave (or deny) them for a number. ![]() |
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#29
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![]() ^ignore. read> Maria. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 710 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,799 ![]() |
i think that would be weird.... way. even ppl a yr younger than me seems like they r little.
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#30
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![]() your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 ![]() |
if it's only by like a couple of months then i don't think i'd feel weird but if it was like by years then that'd be strange i think..although i've never been in that situation
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#31
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 ![]() |
just a little..I dont wanna become a pedaphyle
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#32
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 41 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,270 ![]() |
IT DEPENDS WHAT YOU LIKE. GUYS MATURE ALOT SLOWER THAN GIRLS. SO A YOUNGER GUY IS MORE LIKELY TO BE LESS MATURE THAN YOU, BUT IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHERE HIS HEAD IS AT AND WHERE YOURS IS,WHAT YOU BOTH WANT AND HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT EACHOTHER. IF HE IS ABLE TO SATISFY YOU AND MAKE YOU HAPPY THEN DO WHATEVER FEELS BEST.
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#33
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![]() Jasmin. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 311,076 ![]() |
no..
my boyfriends younger then me - but thats by about 2 months.. so like that would have a noticable difference.. but if its a significant age difference - well i dont know. Because guys mature at different ages, depending on what they've been through.. i mean you might not be wanting a serious thing, just a bit of fun - so you go for a younger guy who will want that to. depends what you want, and where your at. also where they are too.. this is a weird but good question.. QUOTE its so weird.. cause the way I see it, couples feel weird if they're a couple years apart, when they're in school. But, once they're in their 20s and 30s, age doesn't really matter =/ yea i see that too.. my friends been going out with this 20 year old guy for almost 2 years, and shes 16.. almost 17.. the age wont matter when shes out of school, but everyone looks at her differently coz shes young and hes a little bit older.. and yea.. |
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#34
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![]() i'm 11,386. back off BITCHES!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,596 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,386 ![]() |
i just think it's a little weird.
there's this really really cute guy at school who likes me, but he's a YEAR younger. grrr. and i do feel a little bit awkward. especially when i think about my best friend, whose brother is exactly a year younger than her. =x |
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#35
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Well. It depends on how much younger. I'd say more than two years is too much younger, it probably would be a bit weird. But if it's only one year, I'd say it's fine, as long as you both love each other.
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#36
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![]() sweet abandon ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 194 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,225 ![]() |
well, i don't think so as long as you connect on a good level. (no pun intended)
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#37
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![]() *aSh* =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 ![]() |
i was 7 months older than my ex-boyfriend... it didn't really bother me. I won't date a guy thats a year or more younger though
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#38
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![]() </3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 ![]() |
My bf is about 10 months younger then me as long as the guy I'm dating isn’t 2 years younger then me I'm ok.
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#39
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![]() Band Geek. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 ![]() |
Well, I went out with a guy in the grade under me, and it was OK. Sometimes you may seem a little superior as far as experience or intelligence may go, but it really shouldn't be too akward.
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#40
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![]() Break My Heart Again. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 480 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,983 ![]() |
it depends on the age difference...
for example, i'm 16 and wouldn't date a guy that's 14 or below. age isn't really anything but a number, but at the same time, from what i've read, guys mature (emotionally) slower than girls. so yea. for some reason i usually end up liking 15 year olds though... lol |
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#41
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![]() Milo Kamalani ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 954 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 274,798 ![]() |
I feel extremely awkward.
Older guys pwn younger guys. |
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#42
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![]() portami via ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 ![]() |
i dunno, i've never liked a guy younger than me.
i have a 14-year-old friend who likes a 12-year-old, and she doesn't seem to care at all. everyone else doesn't approve, but i don't really care much. now, if it was a 10-year-old, then i'd raise an eyebrow, of course. my ex-b/f's best friend's parents were 20 yrs. apart. kind of creepy, if you think about it. when the husband was 20, the wife wasn't even born yet. ![]() (EDIT) My boyfriend is six months younger than me, and it's fine. |
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#43
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,602 ![]() |
not unless its 2 or more years younger . but like if its ` a few months , i`m coo widdit.
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#44
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,923 ![]() |
If he was YOUNGER YOUNGER yeah... Depends on age. If I was 22 and he was 17 yeah.. I would feel weird.. If I was 30 and he was 25 I would feel awesome.. haha :) But I've always dated older.. so I've never delt with this first hand/
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#45
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![]() My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 ![]() |
This may be a bit off topic but not really. I feel a bit awkward when they are skinnier.
Younger too, yes. |
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#46
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![]() ♥ ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 364,025 ![]() |
too young is too much.
i think i would only go a year younger. |
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#47
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Lmao. I think it just depends on the person. Personally, I wouldn't date younger guys because I see them more as.. "Aww, cute." Not "HEY BABY!" lmao.
I just wouldn't date younger guys. But, that's just me. <3 |
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#48
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c[: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 ![]() |
i would prefer if the guy wasn't younger than me. i do feel weird if the guy is younger...so i just don't date younger guys lols
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#49
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![]() define our lives for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 ![]() |
Well, yeah. >.>
I mean, if he was a few months younger, yes. But anything beyond a year kind of scares me. I don't know why. But height matters to me too. I wouldn't care if I really really REALLY liked the guy though. |
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#50
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![]() cameraman swing the focus! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 ![]() |
no. unless he's super younger.
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