your best guy friend passes away, please be honest!! |
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 Jan 22 2006, 01:40 AM
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 @.::.::.im x3 the new guy n he doesnt even knoe.::.::.@  Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 358,979  |
please answer the poll honestly because i really need to knoe if wat im feelin is right. i feel like all of these thingz except 4 the deep depression n hatin him.
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Jan 22 2006, 02:44 AM
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When my best friend passed away, I just cried and cried and was sad to the max for the first week. After getting all of those negative emotions out of my body, I was able to look up and realise, "Hey, so-and-so's not coming back...you just have to move on and just hope he's in heaven." Yeah...
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Jan 22 2006, 05:33 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
i'll hope he's in a better place, and probably fall into a deep depression for a while. i'll probably even wish I was dead myself, rather than him. Yep. just imagining him passing away.. just... makes me wanna cry.
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Jan 22 2006, 09:15 AM
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i'd miss him so much probably fall into sadness for abit, and realize that he's not going to come back, and i guess life will go on, but of course i'll always remember him
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| *Mintyfresh977* |
Jan 22 2006, 11:54 AM
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This has never happened to me, but I know I'd be heartbroken for a long time. I also know that I would try to move on with my life, but I would never forget him. This is hard to think about.
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Jan 22 2006, 01:09 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
I would hope that he is in a better place and move on. I would always keep him in my heart but realize that tears won't bring him back.
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Jan 22 2006, 01:15 PM
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my friend's friend just passed away in an accident...
everyone that knew the kid is very very upset, and my friend especially. she told me what a great guy he was, how sad she was and how many different things she was feeling. i dont think there is really one way to feel on the subject... but i would feel sad, and get that feeling inside like someone is wrapping a rope tightly around my heart. my friend's dad was saying how there was a huge line outside where the wake was being held even after the wake was supposed to be over... people loved him. so i give you my best wishes and to think: people loved ur friend right? you did atleast...as long as ur friend knew that. my advice is to move on. be closer to your friends that you have, and enjoy the beauty of life as ur friend would have. always remember him. |
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| *mipadi* |
Jan 22 2006, 01:17 PM
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Death is as natural as living. I think it's important to remember a person for his life, not his death. If you cherish the good memories you had with him, he's never really going to leave.
A few years ago, a friend of mine who I had known since I was in third grade died, rather suddenly, of a brain tumor. It was sad, yes, but when I think of him, I don't focus on the fact that he died; I remember his clowning around in class, or how he and I worked on the lighting crew for musicals together and he always brought food and soda in for the crew, or how we used to talk and joke around in band or class. I don't worry about his death because I have plenty of good memories of him to keep with me. |
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Jan 22 2006, 05:53 PM
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@.::.::.im x3 the new guy n he doesnt even knoe.::.::.@ Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 358,979 |
QUOTE(raenbow* @ Jan 22 2006, 1:15 PM) my friend's friend just passed away in an accident... everyone that knew the kid is very very upset, and my friend especially. she told me what a great guy he was, how sad she was and how many different things she was feeling. i dont think there is really one way to feel on the subject... but i would feel sad, and get that feeling inside like someone is wrapping a rope tightly around my heart. my friend's dad was saying how there was a huge line outside where the wake was being held even after the wake was supposed to be over... people loved him. so i give you my best wishes and to think: people loved ur friend right? you did atleast...as long as ur friend knew that. my advice is to move on. be closer to your friends that you have, and enjoy the beauty of life as ur friend would have. always remember him.  thank u soOoOoOoOoOoOoOoOoOo much i just feel really bad be cause he died durin the summer n on the last day of 7th grade last year i was givin hugs 2 my other frendz n when i turned around, he was gone. i only knew him 4 a whole skewl year. his death is so0o hard 2 deal with. but like otherppl say, i do look @ the good times we had, but i just cant help but go 2 that 1 dark place in my mind n just think about how he just left. gosh i feel really bad still.
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Jan 22 2006, 09:39 PM
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you move on...but if he a type of guy friend that you "liked liked"..it would be SO MUCH harder
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Jan 23 2006, 05:12 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
my friend's best friend passed away two months ago, and it's been really hard for her. but there's nothing you can do, you can grieve for her, but eventually you'll accept it and move on.
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Jan 23 2006, 05:37 AM
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i will cry at least for a week and blame myself why not always be with him/her before he/her lifettime.do u feel too?
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Jan 28 2006, 04:25 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
i would cry so much. i dunno who i would trust next. it would mos def suck. since all my guy friends are like a big brother to me.. they shouw me right from wrong..
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Jan 28 2006, 04:28 PM
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It takes awhile for a loss to hit me,but when it does it hit's me hard.
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Jan 28 2006, 05:48 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
wow i'm so sorry
  i don't know what i'd do without my best guy friend...
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| *Programmer* |
Jan 29 2006, 10:40 AM
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wow i'd be sorry to hear that...
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| *disco infiltrator* |
Jan 30 2006, 06:26 PM
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I'd probably be pretty sad for a while, but I'd get through it.
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Feb 6 2006, 08:34 PM
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Just recently, a 14-year-old boy in my town was run over by a car while skateboaring and was killed. I personally didn't know him, but I know of the agony and hurt that his family, friends, and classmates had to suffer through.
I personally haven't really lost anyone dearly close to me except for one. And you know, while you may be sad for awhile, and even feel angry (like I hadn't been very close to her in the couple years before she passed), you can't let it bring you down. Do you think that the person who passed would want you to be depressed because of them? Of course not. And while you should never forget them, you just need to move on and live the life that you still have. "Better by far you should forget and smile Than that you should remember and be sad." |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Feb 6 2006, 09:56 PM
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I would be confused. I would wonder if the measure of my sadness is enough to represent my devastation over his loss. Then I would wonder if I would survive without a friend like him. He's like a boyfriend to me. I practically do everything with him, and he's so supportive. What's sad is I feel that I've never been there for him so I'd feel quite guilty.
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Feb 7 2006, 07:51 PM
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my best guy friend passed away a year ago, i was sad, but i decided to move on cause i know i'm stronger than that.
life is life, you just have to deal with it. |
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Feb 7 2006, 09:44 PM
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 ^ignore. read> Maria. Group: Member Posts: 710 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,799 |
i probably would cry over it for some time then just move on with my life.... his life might be over, but mine isnt.
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