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 Feb 7 2006, 07:03 PM
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i dont wanna flat out tell him...cuz for me that embarrasing...but lately, this girl that were both friends with keeps saying infront of both of us that we should hook up cuz we clearly like each other. she also says it to him in private...n to me in private. he's done a few small things when no one else is around (like putting his arm around me when we were lieing on a bed together watching a movie, and slipping in an 'i love u' in our phone conversation [it was wierd cuz he NEVER jokes like that])....and we spend alot of alone time together...so my point is that i dunno how to get him to know that i like him..i dont want him to think im not interested n move on
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Feb 7 2006, 07:15 PM
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just do it and stop making a deal deal over it....
you'll always have that what if? question if you don't... 
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Feb 7 2006, 07:17 PM
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 It eats you, starting with your bottom. Group: Member Posts: 1,999 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,674 |
Slip an "I love you too" back to him everyonce in awhile.
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Feb 7 2006, 07:41 PM
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 Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
giv him sum hints too and try to make small moves and eventually jus tell him how u feel im sure if he likes u he will b glad and hopefully hook up with u derr
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Feb 7 2006, 08:11 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
drop hints too. but really, the best thing to do is to tell him flat out
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Feb 7 2006, 08:21 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
This is my usual response. Get a rock and a sharpie. Write I like you in big block letters, and then throw it at him. He should get a clue.
Just tell him. I know youre shy, I know youre afraid of the outcome, but you have to swallow your fears and just ask him out, or tell him you like him. If hes slipping I love you into your conversation then I think its time to tell him how you feel, No ? |
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Feb 7 2006, 08:29 PM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
Oh gosh i know how hard it could be to tell a guy you like him. I mean, it's so obvious i like my friend, i know he knows it. And yet when he jokingly asks me who i like or asks me questions about who i like I just say "umm idk", or "im not telling". I think he's just seeing if i would actually say it's him. And i sooo would if he didn't have a gf lol.
But hey, since the guy you like is hopefully single then i dont see why your so scared to tell him. I mean think of the outcome... he's either gonna say he likes you back or nicely tell you he's not interested (which i doubt since it sounds like he is interested). Come on, take a risk. You know you want to 
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Feb 7 2006, 09:06 PM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
"HEY, i think i like you."
Plain, simple. As easy as it gets, darling. |
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Feb 7 2006, 09:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 |
he obviously likes you. i think you should just be brave and tell him. it'll benefit you more :]
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Feb 8 2006, 07:24 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Sounds like he's really into you. Just tell him, it doesn't sound like you ill be rejected. Since he does it, just slip in an occasional "I love you" in your conversation.
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Feb 8 2006, 11:07 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Why not tell him in a note on Valentine's Day? That'd be sweet and cute =P
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Feb 8 2006, 11:17 PM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
Just tell him. There's no other way to do it.
And if you don't get the reception that you want, just remember that it was blatantly obvious that he was giving you all sorts of signals, so don't feel embarassed about it. |
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Feb 9 2006, 01:37 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
Stop overanalyzing, pleaaaaaase! Let down your guard for one sec and forget all consequences and find out the truth once and for all. Way easier in the long run and It feels AWESOME to let go of your pride sometimes! Just tell him!
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Feb 9 2006, 01:44 AM
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 ksjchskjdahfkja Group: Member Posts: 958 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,175 |
start a rumor that you like him. it may be stupid. but it worked for my friend.
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Feb 10 2006, 04:21 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
Just think "screw it" and tell him. Ask him out.
Take riscs in life. if you dont, and you really really like him, you WILL regret it. |
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Feb 10 2006, 03:22 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(Programmer @ Feb 7 2006, 7:15 PM) just do it and stop making a deal deal over it.... you'll always have that what if? question if you don't...  roger that. lols...the easiest way to let someone know you like them without any kind of confusions or misinterpretations or anything of that nature, is to just do it. i mean i know you don't want to tell him because you're embarassed or whatever, but if you hint at it he might not get the whole ideal. i mean just do it, have some confidence in yourself! lols...like ^he said you don't want that "what if" question bothering you...
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Feb 10 2006, 05:10 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
Yeah, tell him. It's a real novel idea.
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Feb 10 2006, 06:37 PM
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 When the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 532 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,628 |
Just lyke hint it, lyke i used to have a crush on u and see if he says that he used to have a crush on u too! then if he says really? i did too or a good awnser then be lyke..actually i still do.
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Feb 11 2006, 12:19 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 320,404 |
if you're sure about your feelings and his feelings, then why should you worry about it?
"i dont want him to think im not interested n move on " take the chance while you have it, like go... "hey you wanna know something... i like you" or just whateverr feels right for you :) |
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Feb 11 2006, 02:07 PM
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 jkjkllm Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 375,759 |
I know that it's hard telling a guy that you like him. Believe me... I know. I'm still working up the courage to tell a guy that I like him and he has no clue. On the other hand you are in an easier situation. He hinted you that he like you. So go ahead. Tell him.
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Feb 11 2006, 11:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,549 |
btw...i m way to scared to tel lhim i like him but we ended up kissing :-D and we cuddled lol it was fun hehe but then the next day he was a TOTAL BITCH to me EVERY time we were in fornt of other ppl.......i think he doesnt want pl to know he likes me maybe? thats rly anoying
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