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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
 Feb 6 2006, 10:15 PM
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A kid in my town named Evan was playing the choking game and failed to untie the rope when he was about to pass out therefore suffocated his way to death. I knew him but I wasn't close. It was still sad since he was a pretty cool guy.
Out of privacy and respect, the local newspeople decided not to write about it in the newspapers. (but there was a report about it in our local town channel). I was disappointed. He was a smart kid. He knew better than to choke himself. I can't believe a kid who always told me that he will never risk his life ended it with a stupid game. I feel depressed and a little angry, but I feel like I shouldn't be. The people that were closer friends with him are being extremely depressed about it and i don't know how to console them because at this point of time I am confused. |
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| *Programmer* |
Feb 6 2006, 10:16 PM
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wow that's deep...we all make stupied decesions at one point in our lives...
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Feb 6 2006, 10:19 PM
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QUOTE(Programmer @ Feb 6 2006, 11:16 PM) wow that's deep...we all make stupied decesions at one point in our lives...  I guess when he got to that point it ended without giving him a chance  . The mother was stupid. I heard his mother found him writhing on the floor trying to pull the rope out. After she called 911, all she could do was cry and watch and scream. Could've untied it for him.
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| *nightmare4taki* |
Feb 6 2006, 10:20 PM
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Everyone makes costly decisions, some more costly than others, although he died what he did can be a life lesson to others the consequences of something so dangerous.
I just hope you feel better. -PTC |
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| *lil_chubby_cheeks2* |
Feb 6 2006, 10:23 PM
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 RIP Evan i'm sorry yen, i hope you feel better 
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Feb 6 2006, 10:29 PM
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Thanks guys. I just can't believe I won't see him in school anymore. I feel like he's going to pop out of nowhere and say this was all a joke.
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Feb 6 2006, 10:37 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about this. I just don't understand what would motivate someone to play any type of choking game. Such a sad ending.
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Feb 6 2006, 10:56 PM
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 L!ckitySplit  Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
im really sorry to hear that yen
 i dont understand why people keep playing that stupid game.this is kinda creeping me out, seeing who died, and it says....Evan (which is my name) |
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Feb 6 2006, 10:57 PM
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Thanks you guys. I miss playing dodgeball with him
QUOTE(L!ckitySplit @ Feb 6 2006, 11:56 PM) this is kinda creeping me out, seeing who died, and it says....Evan (which is my name) This may sound pretty cruel but that lessened the depression. |
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Feb 6 2006, 11:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
Sorry about the kid dying. I've had my share of losses too, but I've never heard of a choking game.
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Feb 7 2006, 01:42 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Yen, I know how you feel, and even more so, I know how angry and sad you are over the choking game. But like nightmare4taki said, hes a lesson to be learned, by everyone who he reaches through his demise. I hope your feeling better. And I know what you mean about thinking he'll just pop up in the courtyard, and I know what you mean about the dodgeball ( Just replace it with basketball and a boy named Terrence ) .
If you want to talk, Im the person. You have my sn (: |
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Feb 7 2006, 01:48 AM
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I'm sorry. It really hurts when you lose a friend whether it be your best or someone you saw in the halls. I know how you feel because about a month ago two of my friends passed away within a day of each other and a month or two before them another one of my friends had died from being shot. It hurts when you lose someone and it's weird/awkward to know that you can't see them or won't see them/ be able to hang out with them anymore.
Anyway, I hope things get better for you. Time really does heal everything. |
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Feb 7 2006, 03:14 AM
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losing people you know really hurts, especially when it's unexpected. my great-grandmother committed suicide a few years ago, and it still hurts. but as chrissy said, as time goes by, the hurt does fade, but remember, the memories will remain.
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Feb 7 2006, 02:27 PM
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Wow. I'm terribly sorry. That sounds like a mistake that happened to be his last. The only thing you can do for his friends are just be there when they need to talk or something.
I would say the confusion is normal, since it sounds like a pretty big freak accident. I don't think you'll ever have a true answer to understand why he did that. You're just going to have to accept what happened and not worry about it. |
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Feb 7 2006, 04:43 PM
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whats the choking game? ive heard of it before and i probably know but forgot?
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Feb 7 2006, 04:59 PM
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i'm so sorry for your loss.
i do know a bit of what you mean. in september, a freshman at my highschool, played the same game and lost. people said that he was happy, that he never would kill himself. (i didn't know him personally). but our newspaper didn't say anything about it either. it def. seemed surreal. |
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Feb 7 2006, 05:41 PM
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RIP Evan
i hope you feel better. i don't know why people still want to play that game after hearing of so many tragedies 
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Feb 7 2006, 08:11 PM
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That's really sad. I'm sorry for the loss.
I don't understand why people want to play games like that... RIP Evan. |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Feb 7 2006, 09:11 PM
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Thanks you guys
 . I went to his funeral today. QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Feb 7 2006, 5:43 PM) whats the choking game? ive heard of it before and i probably know but forgot? The choking game is when you choke yourself until you pass out..and when you're about to pass out, you're supposed to untie or let go of your throat... |
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Feb 7 2006, 09:35 PM
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 It eats you, starting with your bottom. Group: Member Posts: 1,999 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,674 |
OH YEN!
That's horrible. I've experienced people commiting suicide, but not anyone dieing because of an accident they've caused themselves. I don't know what to say really. If you ever need an outlet hun, I'm only a click away.  <333333333333 |
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Feb 7 2006, 10:05 PM
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Oh, I'm so sorry. This was on the news tonight.
Eh, that is a stupid game, but hopefully people will learn to not play it anymore. RIP Evan. |
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Feb 7 2006, 10:06 PM
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i thiink i just heard about this on the news...in connecticut? evan oconnor? thats soo sad! wow im rly sry
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Feb 7 2006, 10:07 PM
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^yeah his real name T_T
Now I get the feeling that I'm lucky I wasn't too close with him. If we had a close relationship, it would be way more devastating.... |
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Feb 7 2006, 10:33 PM
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last yr in my school i came in in the morning (my school prays first thing) and all i saw was everyon was crying and i had no idea wat was going on. at the end of prayer time my principal came downstairs (which is rare) and shes like we all know this is very devastating and were gonna be visiting her house and i was like WHAT IS GOING ON?! it turned out a girl who left the school the previous year...there was a fire in her house n 4/7 of the kids in her family died n 2 of them were burnt n here mom was burnt n her dad doesnt live there and she wasnt home... n everyone in my school was friends with her n her siblings how saddd?!
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Feb 8 2006, 12:14 AM
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QUOTE(blurrr @ Feb 7 2006, 8:33 PM) last yr in my school i came in in the morning (my school prays first thing) and all i saw was everyon was crying and i had no idea wat was going on. at the end of prayer time my principal came downstairs (which is rare) and shes like we all know this is very devastating and were gonna be visiting her house and i was like WHAT IS GOING ON?! it turned out a girl who left the school the previous year...there was a fire in her house n 4/7 of the kids in her family died n 2 of them were burnt n here mom was burnt n her dad doesnt live there and she wasnt home... n everyone in my school was friends with her n her siblings how saddd?! Ow, that's just...I'm speechless. I are sorry about these two incidents. |
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