wow I'm lucky to be in a beautiful family Options

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Hm my boyfriend of 5 weeks dumped me because he said he grew a crush for my sister and he didn't want to hurt me by dating me just to get with her and he said he feels that if he just stays away from me or my family, he'll forget about her. I feel depressed. VERY. but a little "happy" that he actually cared enough not to use me to get with my sister. (though I'm not so happy). I don't blame my sister in any way. She doesn't like him. Never flirted with him. The first they met was when I introduced him to our family and thats when the 3 of us hung out for 2 hours. It's amazing what can happen but arg.

Anyone feel like sharing a situation somewhat similar?


Oyeah and if there's already a topic like this. I'm sorry.

[Shahin]

Yeah this happened to me too, but I guess I wasn't on the hurtful side (ish?).

My brother had a thing for this girl. I was all for him going out with her, cuhz my brother has never had a girlfriend before. This girl, I won't hesitate to say was beautiful, so I was amped for him to be going out with her. So I met her, I noticed that my brother was very quiet around her, so I was always talking to him urging him on. I was just myself around this girl, and soon enough she had stopped liking my brother. My immediate thought was ''uh, oh.'' My brother had stopped liking her too though.

Two days later I get the cheery news that she likes me *sarcasm*. Obviously, I can't go out with the girl, that'd betray my brothers trust and I wouldn't do that. But yeah, it was a whole bad situation. He still makes fun of me for ''stealing his girl,'' but it's all good, he's got a girlfriend now, and this one is lasting, going on 10 monthes. I don't think the other girl and him would have lasted.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^oh I see. Well I'm glad everything is going well with you. It just sucks because that dude is in my class and sits next to me (due to our last names). And I don't even want to look at that son of a bitch.

[Shahin]

^I'm sure that's normal. I'm also sure that's what my brother felt at the time too. Everything'll get better, and if it works out the way my lil issue did, you'll find someone better, too.

It was a bad situation for the girl that liked my brother too, cuhz I wouldn't go out with her and chose a different girl, who I'm still goin out with 11 monthes later :). But hey, that's what she gets.

[creamyxlicious]

Hmmm never had a experince like that before..

But I remember hearing a story from my friend.
She's quite an attraction, not sure why,
maybe the whole I'm a 5''0 asian yet white looking girl
with b-cups and dyed hair just appeals to guys..

Anywho, her sister went out with this guy..
They broke up, and the guy started
looking at my friend up and down.
And thought "hey she isn't that bad either.."

luckily he asked for his ex's permission to date my friend.
Good heavens she rejected his idea, that would have been kinda odd..

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Well the fact that I was left for my sister really upsets me.

I'll be honest. I'm jealous... Though I know it's not her fault, I'm extremely upset and jealous. My sister and I don't even get along so it just makes it worse. I just sometimes wonder what I didn't have that couldn't satisfy him. It annoys me and it taunts me though I try to avoid it.

[Chii]

Hmmm never had a experince like that before..

But I remember hearing a story from my friend.
She's quite an attraction, not sure why,
maybe the whole I'm a 5''0 asian yet white looking girl
with b-cups and dyed hair just appeals to guys..

what a great not jealous at all friend you are

i have never been in this situation because i am the only daughter...if some guy left me to try to get with my brother i would understand...however my brother already has a girlfriend.

[dorkk-ie]

hm .. never had that happen to me ..

boy, am i lucky to have a brother.. wow.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^hm, I have two older brothers and two older sisters. I hate that mix.

[NgocQuyen]

awwh im sorry buddy. well, to be honest i've never had that experience before so i can't really say i know how you feel. i guess it's good that he didn't use you to get to her? i mean i guess you can't really blame your sister. i guess that guy was just a weirdo? does he even know your sister like that to like her?

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^No, he was just attracted to her physical beauty. There isn't much beauty inside of her anyways.

[WHOngos144]

hm .. never had that happen to me ..

boy, am i lucky to have a brother.. wow.

[NgocQuyen]

^No, he was just attracted to her physical beauty. There isn't much beauty inside of her anyways.

lols ahhh i see...well then, he isn't really worth your time...ughhs..i hate guys like that you know, the ones that care so much about whats on the outside...

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^Yeah...assholes T_T

He really broke my heart ya' know? I'm drinking 10 bottles of mocca frup just to get me into a good mood (since I don't want to get all emotional). He was my first boyfriend and I've written many songs for him and he wrote many songs for me. He bought me my frist skateboard and now look what shallow-ness can do.

[FoxBandCutie08]

Well, I had a boyfriend date my sister after I broke up with him, she's two years younger than me. It was a little akward but it got better, they're not dating anymore though. I've never had someone just ignore people, trying to forget them. I don't think it works like that, he needs to grow up.

[Rachel]

^Yeah...assholes T_T

He really broke my heart ya' know? I'm drinking 10 bottles of mocca frup just to get me into a good mood (since I don't want to get all emotional). He was my first boyfriend and I've written many songs for him and he wrote many songs for me. He bought me my frist skateboard and now look what shallow-ness can do.

It obviously wasn't meant to be. Any boy that just suddenly stops caring about you isn't worth your time. Everyone is somewhat shallow, don't blame him for liking her. She obviously had something you don't. Maybe he could talk to her and not you. Don't assume that it was her "beauty" that won him over. Maybe you just weren't good enough. Sorry to be harsh, but boys suck.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^Well considering they only met once really annoys me. Unless they secretly met again...

[Rachel]

^Well considering they only met once really annoys me. Unless they secretly met again...

Well because they only met once, it seems to me that he just didn't want to be with you. It sounds like he just needed an excuse to break up with youl. Don't get too heartbroken, it was 5 weeks, not months or years.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^You have a point. But I don't know... I'm being a little too emotional.