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he likes me. i like him. we talk a lot.. i can tell he cares about me. and i care about him too.. and we do most of the things couples do. butt...
he hasn't asked me "to be his gf" yet. .. so techically we're not "official" rite? the question is.. what shoulld i do? wait, or ask hiim (but i am SUCH a chicken) lol. 
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Jan 27 2006, 08:37 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
pluck up the courage and ask him out.
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Jan 27 2006, 08:39 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 27 2006, 6:37 PM) pluck up the courage and ask him out.  Yes. You cant wait around forever for the boy to take the lead. Girls shouldnt expect boys to always be the ones who have to muster up the courage and talk to you. You should ask him out. |
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Jan 27 2006, 08:46 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
TALK TALK TALK!
Honey, if he doesn't have the guts, then YOU DO IT YOURSELF. In other words, ASK HIM!! |
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Jan 27 2006, 09:42 PM
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thanks for the advice..
well.. yesterday, i went over to his house and we just cuddled/talked and stuff.. i dont knoe.. it doesnt feel "official" if he doesn't SAY IT .. |
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Jan 27 2006, 10:18 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 27 2006, 8:37 PM) pluck up the courage and ask him out. Yeah I would say the same thing. |
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Jan 27 2006, 10:36 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Ask him about it. Say something like "what do you think about us?"
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Jan 28 2006, 10:24 AM
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I've never seen the big deal about making the relationship "official" in relationships. The way I see it, two people meet each other. They start to date. Then things become more seriously. They're together all the time. They have a deeper relationship. And then they're together. No one needs to come out and say, "Hey, we've been together for a long time. Let's call each other girlfriend and boyfriend." You just do after a while.
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Jan 28 2006, 05:32 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jan 28 2006, 8:24 AM) I've never seen the big deal about making the relationship "official" in relationships. The way I see it, two people meet each other. They start to date. Then things become more seriously. They're together all the time. They have a deeper relationship. And then they're together. No one needs to come out and say, "Hey, we've been together for a long time. Let's call each other girlfriend and boyfriend." You just do after a while. yeah, i guess you're right  thanks ..i guess i was just wanting the lil anniversaries.. =/ |
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Jan 28 2006, 05:43 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE wait, or ask hiim (but i am SUCH a chicken) lol Alright, well with my currentl bf, our situation was like urs in the beginning. I waited...for 2 MONTHS! so I just asked him out cause i was impatient. I say just ask him it, it aint gon hurt no one. |
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Jan 28 2006, 05:59 PM
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QUOTE(dorkk-ie @ Jan 27 2006, 9:42 PM) thanks for the advice.. well.. yesterday, i went over to his house and we just cuddled/talked and stuff.. i dont knoe.. it doesnt feel "official" if he doesn't SAY IT .. lols...MAKE him say it! just ask him...you'll feel a lot better if you do. i mean you don't want to throw away this opportunity because of your shyness right? 
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Jan 28 2006, 06:43 PM
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ASK HIM! Lol, obviously he's not making the first move so do it for him! Come on already!
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Jan 28 2006, 06:54 PM
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PSSH he obviously likes you
he CUDDLED?!?! ask him out. in the name of all things good. no question. |
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Jan 28 2006, 08:39 PM
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Yeah... same with me and my current boyfriend. He never asked but we were hanging out all the time. So I just asked him where we were with this and after that he started telling people I was his girlfriend.
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Jan 28 2006, 09:53 PM
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QUOTE(jennypie @ Jan 28 2006, 6:39 PM) Yeah... same with me and my current boyfriend. He never asked but we were hanging out all the time. So I just asked him where we were with this and after that he started telling people I was his girlfriend. hehehe. what exactly did you say ? i want that too!! LOLs |
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Jan 29 2006, 01:35 AM
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QUOTE(jennypie @ Jan 28 2006, 8:39 PM) Yeah... same with me and my current boyfriend. He never asked but we were hanging out all the time. So I just asked him where we were with this and after that he started telling people I was his girlfriend. *sigh* lucky pigg.. have the courage to ask him out ;] .... i shouldnt even be saying it because i dont have enough courage myself. i dont have the courage to ask this guy out that i like .. but ask him out ! =] |
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