How Do iTell My Mom I lost my VIRGINITY?, Please comment..... |
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 Dec 13 2005, 10:13 PM
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 To love or not to love  Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 182,782  |
are u pregant if not than say nothing unless she finds out
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Dec 14 2005, 10:47 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
You want to...WHAT?!
Tell her on February 30th A.K.A. Never. |
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Jan 22 2006, 04:40 PM
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uhhh u don't
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Jan 22 2006, 04:52 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Dec 11 2005, 2:44 PM) I bet there's a Hallmark card for this sort of thing.  Unfortunately those were boycotted for parental units found them disturbing. by the way SSJ Kenshin, February 30th can happen at that..um what's it called, that 4th year happening...lunar....activity... Anyways if you want to tell your mom just because you feel like it's a last minute choice to improve your relationship with her, I suggest you go shopping in Victoria's Secret with her instead. |
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| *Zatanna* |
Jan 22 2006, 05:07 PM
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Well, how does your mom react? Ok, that was badly phrased. Is your mom liberal? Really conservative? I think it depends. I don't personally like keeping secrets - even one as huge as this. I certainly hope someday my son will feel comfortable speaking to me about things likes this. We are out of the age where you have to hang your soiled sheets to prove your chastity.
There's no guarantee either way. If you decide to tell her, just spit it out. Speak in bullets. |
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| *Programmer* |
Jan 22 2006, 05:10 PM
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--...you are not to bright...
"what people don't know.... will not hurt them" and by posting it here...makes it seem like you want everyone to know... 
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Jan 22 2006, 05:13 PM
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now where's the fun in telling her?! if she ever asks if you're a virgin though, feel free to stammer a little so she gets the idea or you can just straight out confess.
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Jan 22 2006, 05:14 PM
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 I'm happy, are you? Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 345,268 |
I agree with everyone else. Just don't tell her. Unless you were raped or you're pregnant I wouldn't tell her. Most parents don't know how to deal with that type of information. Usually its because they don't want to think about their child losing their virginity. Also, if your mom might get angry because of it that could really ruin your social life. I mean I know if you're feeling guilty about this you might think its right to tell her. But as long as you're practicing safe sex and don't have any STDs or you're being raped, then its really none of her business.
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Jan 22 2006, 05:30 PM
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 can't touch this Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,184 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 22 2006, 4:52 PM) Unfortunately those were boycotted for parental units found them disturbing. by the way SSJ Kenshin, February 30th can happen at that..um what's it called, that 4th year happening...lunar....activity... Anyways if you want to tell your mom just because you feel like it's a last minute choice to improve your relationship with her, I suggest you go shopping in Victoria's Secret with her instead. ..uh there can only be 29 days in february on leap year. duh. yea, dont. XD |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Jan 22 2006, 05:46 PM
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^Oh really? My science teacher sux
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Jan 24 2006, 05:27 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
A girl from school told her mom she lost her virginity by being raped. The parents pressed charges on the guy that "raped her." Here's an example of what NOT to do.
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Jan 24 2006, 07:17 PM
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does swtcherri not read her own topics?
....maybe she's dead, because she didnt read our advice quick enough 
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Jan 24 2006, 08:37 PM
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omg............. u should never tell ur mum that!!
Just leave it till when ur married, she'll be expecting that u would lose ur virginity not long after u got married, THEN its ok!!! Infact, u would'nt have to tell her!!! But anytime before that, heck no! She'd kill u! |
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| *chaneun* |
Jan 24 2006, 09:31 PM
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"Hey mom, I did it!"
She might think it was something else.. |
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Jan 24 2006, 09:56 PM
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lets see...don't? why do you need to anyway? Unless you're pregnant or something like that. It's not really needed to ever tell her...the only time appropriate (in most mom's views) for losing your virginity is after gettign married, but really once you start having babies and stuff? I think that would be kinda obvious
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| *Zatanna* |
Jan 24 2006, 10:17 PM
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 Before anyone throws tomatos at me - All the "don't tell her" responses make me a little sad. I realize I'm one of the elders here, but is there really that much fear or distrust (and I'm sure plenty of other emotions I'm neglecting to mention) between your parents and yourselves? I guess I just always imagined my son being able to tell me these things. (I do realize that I'm considered a liberal parent).Ok, sorry for the off topic. 
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Jan 26 2006, 09:27 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
when you fell comfortable. tell her quickly if your like pregnant or if you think you have a STD.
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Jan 26 2006, 10:29 PM
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wait until she thinks ur the right age to lose it. & then be like... yadaaa
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Jan 26 2006, 11:23 PM
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QUOTE(chaneun @ Jan 24 2006, 10:31 PM) "Hey mom, I did it!" She might think it was something else.. haha and she'll be like "good job honey  "
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Jan 26 2006, 11:28 PM
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u can tell this to muun after u are an adult...or ur mun will kill you.(just i guess dun worry:])
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Jan 26 2006, 11:34 PM
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i think that when every girl starts to have sex should go see a gyno!!!!! if you are uncomfortable about telling your mom im sure a friends mom would be more understanding. but i cannot stress the gyno factor enuff. so many young girls start to have sex and get pregnant and keep it from their mothers and never go to the doctors and that is so dangerous. i never told my mom, she just kinda figured out on her own. me and my bf have been together for 5 years. but yeah, like everyone else said, if you dont feel the need to dont tell her. BUT GOSH DARNIT GO TO THE DOCTORS!!!!
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Jan 27 2006, 10:19 PM
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is it necessary? do you have to?
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Jan 28 2006, 10:23 PM
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For everybody it's different. It depends how close and comforatble you are with your mom. I have friends whos parents know. But personally. I'm 19 years old and my mom still doesnt know that Im not a virgin, and I wouldnt dare tell her. If you are concerned for any reason, you should go to planned parenthood. www.plannedparenthood.org they are very helpful and everything is confidential. They are really nice really helpful, they do all kinds of testing and its pretty reasonable, if not free depending on your financial situation.
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Jan 28 2006, 10:35 PM
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dont tell her.
like everyone else said, unless you got pregnant or something. =/ |
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Jan 29 2006, 01:32 AM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
i mean - to the point that you got pregnant ? yeah- you should tell her.
but ... i wouldnt ... |
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