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 Jan 25 2006, 06:22 PM
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 Oh Goddamnit.  Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884  |
I've liked this guy named Eric for the last like 2 years of my life. He's my first real love. Don't laugh and say you're much too young because I know how I feel. But anyways, he still likes his ex, Brittny. But he likes me too. But both me and brittny have gone out with him twice before and pretty much sworn we'd never go out with him again. So he says he doesn't wanna go out with either one of us because he doesn't want to hurt us or himself and he doesnt want to be hated (people would be mad). But I freaking love this kid. I dream about him every night. I want to call him to find out whats going on and maybe work something out but I'm not very good on the phone and I think it'd be awkward. I hate awkward.
I have no clue what to do and any input would be greatly appreciated. |
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Jan 25 2006, 06:34 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
Sounds like limerent infatuation. You said you dated him twice before? What happened there? The chances of it working out a third time are very slim.
Remember and think about why it didn't work out before. Realize that the object of your interest probably isn't that great in the first place. Let go; forget about it. Move on. |
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Jan 25 2006, 06:47 PM
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Oh Goddamnit. Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884 |
I've tried to get over him and I just can't seem to.
It didn't work because I didn't trust him. I was annoying and immature. *Sings* Because you're always on my minddddd |
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Jan 25 2006, 06:52 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(misskentucky @ Jan 25 2006, 6:47 PM) I've tried to get over him and I just can't seem to. It didn't work because I didn't trust him. I was annoying and immature. *Sings* Because you're always on my minddddd  1. Why is he so great? 2. Why didn't you trust him? 3. How were you annoying and immature? 4. Do you think it is normal to constantly think of someone when you are truly in love with them? 5. How old are you? 6. Have you asked him out recently? |
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Jan 25 2006, 06:52 PM
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Why did you and brit girl swear that you'll never go out with him again?
I don't get 13 yr old relationships.. |
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Jan 25 2006, 07:07 PM
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Perhaps you should keep in mind why you guys swore you'd never go out with him ever again. Maybe you just miss his memory. It's nothing you should hold on to if you regret going out with him. I say move on; finding some eye candy is a good start.
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Jan 25 2006, 07:36 PM
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Oh Goddamnit. Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884 |
1. He's the boy version of me! Just kidding, but like he's just. Awesome. He's hot *In my eyes* funny, incredibly smart, informed, just an all round great guy.
2. Because I have trust issues. I don't really trust anyone. I've been hurt before. 3. I just constantly asked him, "Do you still even like me at all?" And he got pissed... 4. No. This is I guess more lust than love. But I still have very strong feelings for him. 5. 13 but don't judge me by my age. 6. Not recently, no. Steven: Oh because we both got hurt (its our faults...) and he's pretty much in my circle of friends, he's the pimp lol. Inycxshort: Maybe I do just miss someone loving me in return. Hmm. |
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Jan 25 2006, 07:50 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(misskentucky @ Jan 25 2006, 7:36 PM) 1. He's the boy version of me! Just kidding, but like he's just. Awesome. He's hot *In my eyes* funny, incredibly smart, informed, just an all round great guy. 2. Because I have trust issues. I don't really trust anyone. I've been hurt before. 3. I just constantly asked him, "Do you still even like me at all?" And he got pissed... 4. No. This is I guess more lust than love. But I still have very strong feelings for him. 5. 13 but don't judge me by my age. 6. Not recently, no. 1. Alright. And, why can't you two just be friends? 2. Had he done anything that would make you not trust him? 3. Sounds like you're a bit insecure. Don't try to solve that by chasing after a guy. Take some time finding yourself before you go out looking for another relationship. 4. It would be best for both him and yourself if you just moved on. 5. I'm not judging you by your age. Don't worry. I know how much that sucks. The issue here is that you really don't need a romantic relationship right now. It won't likely go anywhere. It will end up hurting you, and maybe even your friends. You have all of your life for that, and there are plenty of fish in the sea. 6. Ask him. If he decides he wants to date at that point, great. Otherwise, take it as a final word. Move on. |
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Jan 25 2006, 07:52 PM
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QUOTE(misskentucky @ Jan 25 2006, 6:47 PM) It didn't work because I didn't trust him. I was annoying and immature. you couldn't trust him what makes you think that you can trust him the third time? what did he do that made you not trust him? besides you guys went out TWICE before, and it failed... maybe this one might not work as well. besides didn't he tell you that he doesn't want to go out with you again, just in case? |
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Jan 26 2006, 05:00 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ agree
I think you just miss someone loving you and giving you attention. We all do after break-ups. |
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Jan 26 2006, 05:37 AM
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QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 26 2006, 8:52 AM) you couldn't trust him what makes you think that you can trust him the third time? what did he do that made you not trust him? besides you guys went out TWICE before, and it failed... maybe this one might not work as well. besides didn't he tell you that he doesn't want to go out with you again, just in case? well said. you said yourself, it's lust, not love. so move on. go do other things, get new hobbies. |
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Jan 26 2006, 05:58 PM
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first one's the worst
second one's the best third one's the one with the hairy chest and fourth one's the one with the polka dot dress i dont know.. all i can say is, if you want to deal with hairy chest this time, go for it and if it doesn't want to work out and decide to give it a fourth try.. ummm.. no comment 
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Jan 26 2006, 07:30 PM
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If you love him then why did you agree to not go out with him? I think you should tell him how you feel, and it depends on why you guys broke up and how that situation stands.
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Jan 26 2006, 11:36 PM
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You're so young... I mean It's not in my place to say it isn't love, but I'm serious, just let it go and don't do anything about it any more. Let yourself dream about him and in 3 years I guarantee you'll look back on this and laugh. You'll also be happier with yourself for not giving in... he already screwed up twice, why try again? As "amazing" as he is.. those things will always stick out to you and once you get him back again, it won't be long before you get sick of his immature ways again.
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