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 Jan 17 2006, 07:26 AM
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I have a frd who told me he's really depressed because he got dumped. He cried too....
The girl told him that she never had feelings towards him at all...... how slack is that? And I don't really know what to do.... He wants me to come out, its been 1 yr since we've seen each other but we still talk online. Even if I do meet up with him, I would'nt know what to do..... what to say..... Please help. |
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Jan 17 2006, 07:35 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
well..you could meet up with him just to see how he is.
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Jan 17 2006, 01:20 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you could just start out as being all friendly with the whole "hi, how are you" greeting thing. then have small talk then gradually ease the conversation about the situation.
i think you should have it over a little meal, or coffee or something. so you can focus on the talking. plus, if you get uncomfortable or need a minute, you can eat or drink something and get a few seconds to think. |
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Jan 17 2006, 03:40 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
you just have to let him deal with it. be sympathetic and listen to him, and let him know that it's just one girl and there are tons out there. just be friendly and all that good stuff.
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Jan 17 2006, 04:47 PM
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if you do meet up have fun and try to help him take his mind off of things.
 i hate people who date a person out of pity...it's just wrong
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Jan 17 2006, 05:53 PM
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he wants to have sex with you, obviously.
bring a condom incase he forgets. |
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Jan 17 2006, 06:35 PM
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i was sort of in the same position as you before. there's nothing wrong with meeting up with him to just listen to him. he needs you there as friend to help him through this slump and yes, go prove to him that not all girls are like that. you can spend the time going over good ol' memories or you can just let him spill his heart out to you. better yet, you guys could go somewhere fun to just forget about that terrible terrible girl.
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Jan 18 2006, 12:37 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
just hang out with him and have fun, make him forget everything about his break up. if he wants to talk about it, let him
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Jan 19 2006, 10:36 PM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
QUOTE(i_liek_sushi @ Jan 17 2006, 5:53 PM) he wants to have sex with you, obviously. bring a condom incase he forgets.  alright first off lets not come to that conclusion.^ Well right now he just needs to talk to a reliable source. Get some emotions out...Tell him to let it all out. Let him scream to the top of his lungs about how much she hurt him. It feels unbelievably good to let it all out :3 But if it somewhat comes to THAT ending...which i hope it doesn't then tell him off haha |
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Jan 19 2006, 10:39 PM
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QUOTE(mzbbc @ Jan 17 2006, 4:40 PM) . be sympathetic and listen to him I agreee with the rest but I'd rather be empathetic than sympathetic if i were u |
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