A freind who got a girlfriend and... |
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 Jan 6 2006, 08:49 AM
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umm..
my friend got a girlfriend.. they will be spead up in the following year.. said to me that he loves 2 gals at the same time.. one of the gals would never fall in love with him.. and the other is me..o god.. i don't know what should i do..becuz his giralfriend is also my friend.... Can u juz give me advices?? |
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Jan 6 2006, 10:06 AM
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frienship first. defintely. Is he worth losing your friend over? Besides, you don't deserve to be #2. Even if there's only a slim chance of the other girl liking him, he still likes her. He's definitely off limits. DOn't let his words sweep you away...step back and look at what your situation really is. He's a player and cheating on your friend. If the other girl wasn't you, would you root for the other girl and NOT your friend?
 YOu are in the wrong here. Wake up! he's not worth it.
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Jan 6 2006, 10:22 AM
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I know he's not worth it..and I don't want to lose my freind..
I just want to help him as a friend I think.. He said I make him like me for I treated him like this.. But I treat everyone as this.. I want to be his friend only.. How can I ignore him?? Thz a lot. |
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Jan 6 2006, 11:00 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Maybe you have to view him in a different perspective now. Not as a friend but as a player who's hurting your friend.
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Jan 6 2006, 11:10 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
tell him you're not interested and just want to be friends
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Jan 15 2006, 08:38 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
If he's going to be a cheater and hurt people just for himself, then I would tell him you're not interested and just remain friends.
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Jan 16 2006, 12:55 AM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
reject him. and sugar-coat your words to make him feel special.
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Jan 16 2006, 02:01 AM
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have a 3 some
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Jan 16 2006, 10:59 AM
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 Diana =] Group: Member Posts: 1,318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,147 |
^ LOL
Just tell him you want to be friends. |
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Jan 16 2006, 11:02 AM
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 =] Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
tell him its better off to be just friends
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Jan 18 2006, 01:21 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
he has a girlfriend. that kind of makes him off limits to you since you're not the one who got the girlfriend label.
this is the real story. he's like in love with your friend but it's not real love and she doesn't feel the same way towards him. so, he decides to settle for the next best thing which is you. is this what you want? to be a filler? i'd hope not. just leave him be, you treat everyone the same so you did not do anything wrong. just be friends if anything at all. |
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