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 Jan 6 2006, 01:59 AM
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my best friend is lets say VERY flirtatious and a huge tease. she told me about one of our friends liking this one guy and my friend was asked to try and hook them up. well she tells the guy (i was there when she did so) and he says he doesnt know he wants to get to know her friend. and i dont know what happened afterwards. but one day we were walking home from school and she tells me that she thinks the guy likes her. and I always see her flirting with him non stop at school although she knows that our friend likes him. I dont know if she doesnt realize what she is doing or if she knows and just likes the attention. I am very sure that she doesnt like the guy (100% sure) but thats how she is with all guys... i dont know should i tell her what shes doing is wrong?
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Jan 6 2006, 02:04 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
If you really think she is doing something wrong then as her friend, you have the responsibility of telling her so. If you are friends, you should be able to tell her that without her getting mad too.
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Jan 6 2006, 11:07 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
From my experience, "once flirtatious, always flirtatous". Some people are just born that way. You can tell her to stop but most likely it won't happen.
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Jan 6 2006, 01:39 PM
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QUOTE(K!$$ @ Jan 6 2006, 11:07 AM) From my experience, "once flirtatious, always flirtatous". Some people are just born that way. You can tell her to stop but most likely it won't happen.  yes i know. because I had confronted her with this a while back. and she tells me no she doesnt but the very next day shes back to doing the same thing so I'm sure she wont so anything about it but if she wont stop flirting with every guy she sees (attractive or not) the least she could do is stop flirting with the guy our friend likes. I guess Ill just go aead and tell her then but I already know the conversation will go. she'll deny it. no she wont get mad though she just doesnt get mad too easily. |
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Jan 15 2006, 08:36 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Let her know that she is acting like she is attracted to him, and it might offend her friend because she really does like him. Just let her know, and give her specific examples of conversations and things. Just tell her.
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Jan 15 2006, 08:40 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 154,242 |
yep. im in a similar situation, and i dont know...
my friend has a boyfriend, but he lives in another state, but is coming back to our school next year. he went back home after break and my friend almost instantly started flirting with everyone. even her ex, who treated her really badly.. so i know how youre feeling |
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Jan 16 2006, 02:00 AM
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i think your best friend is stupid
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