Dances, school dance.. Options

[xox_starz_xox]

okay so my schools winter dance is coming up..and the girls ask the guys. I want to ask my crush in a really creative and cute way...any ideas??

by the way, its a type of dance during the year, that the best way to ask is creative and fun..most ppl dont do plain out no creativiy asking.

[ilauqh]

personally, i'd just ask him flat out if he wanted to go with me. but umm if u wanna get creative.. write a note and say like meet me here at whatever time.. and think of a special way to say it? i'm not sure. don't get upset about people not responding. happens to me all the time.

[Looow]

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[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Hmm...creative way? Well is he in your class? or is he in one of your classes? For example; if you and him share drama class together, you can always make scene and get on one knee and ask him if he'd like to go to the ball with you, then you say you're acting. BUT at the end of the class, you can say that you weren't acting and that you'd like him to go to the dance with you. Be creative.

[*mipadi*]

Don't be "creative". It's cheesy. Just ask him if he wants to go to the dance.

[_sarcastic_]

maybe you should just ask him without doing anything creative.
but yeah if you really wanted to then leave him a note to meet you somewhere and then ask him there like what ilauqh says

[seremela_culnamo]

It depends on how creative you want to get. I agree with everyone else who said that you should leave him a note or something. That way, you don't have to worry about messing up when you ask him. But do remember that if you leave him a note, you can't be too sure if he will get it. & if he does, but doesn't want to go with you, he might pretend that he never got it. I hope you get what you mean. So if you do give him a note, give it to him personally. Don't freak out. I gave a letter to my crush (for personal reasons) and I freaked out and got my best friend to give it to him once I ditched the class. That can work, too. This way, you can know for sure that he got the note and if he doesn't answer, your friend can always ask him what the note is about (pretending that he/she doesnt know) or something.

Then again, you can save yourself the trouble and ask him straight out. No need to worry while you wait for his answer that way. It would put him on the spot and although he might not give you an answer straight away, you know he would have to because all he can do is say that he will think about it, right?

But if you go with the creative thing, don't do anything too creative that might freak him out since it's too gushy or whatever, you know?

I hope my advice helps. I'm just trying to think it logically through what my friends experiences, since I have never asked a guy out myself and such..

[WHOngos144]

Just ask him. No need to be creative.

[mouse_3k]

wow u guys r helpful..

be patient damn. Not most of us spend our entire life and time on CB.

NE wayz, this is how I asked my boyfriend to Homecoming.

I got three bundles of roses, send each bundle in each of his class. And with each bundle, was a line from a poem i made myself. The last bundle finally said *Homecoming date with me?* after something tht rhymed with me. idk, it worked but then again he was already my boyfriend and expected to go with me NE wayz

[jennyjenny]

um um um,

when's your dance?

if it's after valentine's day, ask him on valentine's day. you could of asked him at the stroke of New Years or Christmas or something, but too late now. Ask him in school and drop a rose in his locker or something.

[FoxBandCutie08]

I think that you should just ask him. Most people are very scared of confronting people face-to-face, and normally ask people on the internet or in a note. It would be unique in itself to just go up to him and ask. Just go for it, they will admire the courage you have to go up and ask.

[mzbbc]

write him a cute note.

[LiLCUTiEFR0MDAYA...]

okay so my schools winter dance is coming up..and the girls ask the guys.  I want to ask my crush in a really creative and cute way...any ideas??

2 hours later..

wow u guys r helpful..

HONEY I AM THE QUEEN OF CREATIVITY. MESSAGE ME, MAYBE WE CAN WORK SOMETHIN OUT.

[Gigi]

Just ask him, plainly and with confidence. Showing that you have enough guts to do that will earn your admiration. =]

[topsyturvy]

^ agree

Hide a sweet note in his bag or something.

[NgocQuyen]

buy him one of those cookie cake things...you know...those giant cookies at the mall and such and such...and customize it...hahah yeahhh....thats what i would do

[aznxdreamer]

stand outside of his driveway and sing him a song asking im to go the dance with you.

[*digital.fragrance*]

Ask him straight out and/or make him something he can eat... cookies, or just random food. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach!

[*not_your_average*]

Do what Michael said. DO NOT BE CREATIVE. I learned the hard way that being creative will get you nowhere. Just be straight up and ask him.

[AnnahhbeL]

Hmm...creative way? Well is he in your class? or is he in one of your classes? For example; if you and him share drama class together, you can always make scene and get on one knee and ask him if he'd like to go to the ball with you, then you say you're acting. BUT at the end of the class, you can say that you weren't acting and that you'd like him to go to the dance with you. Be creative.

i agree with her.

[ikayto]

just be real sweet about it when you ask her out

no need to be creative, dont have to buy her GEEZ

[xox_starz_xox]

any more ideas?

[Anime_gurl_4eva]

i think, you shud get a bunch of balloons, and put a note in one that says "will you go to the dance with me?". give him the balloons, and tell him to pop them all. PUT CONFETTI IN THE OTHER ONES! wooooo hoooo! its lots of fun! <33