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how do you know if you are a bisexual? cuz i`m VERY attracted to guys but then i think i have a crush on aundrea fimbres from making the band 3. i'm confused O....O
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Jan 2 2006, 12:27 AM
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it depends on how big/deep the crush is. why do you like her? simply because of her beauty and personality? if so then most likely not.
if you'd actually like to do her (wink, wink) then maybe you are. |
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Jan 2 2006, 12:29 AM
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i don't wanna do her but like she's HECKA pretty & i wanna be just like herr so is that like lesbo?
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Jan 2 2006, 12:31 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
If you think celebrity females are hot, beautiful,cute,pretty,gorgeous,sexy then I think most of the time you are not bi. In my area, some girls run around saying they are confused about their sexuality and cry themselves up over it because they think Jessica Alba is hot.
Unless you really feel for a girl, the same way you could for a guy, then you are bi. If you are attracted sexually , as well as intellectually for a woman the way you could for a man, you are bi. Edit - If you just think shes pretty and want to be just like her, youre not lesbian or bi. Dont get all that twisted. |
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Jan 2 2006, 12:31 AM
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Maybe shes just a role model. ;]
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Jan 2 2006, 12:32 AM
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ooooh.
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Jan 2 2006, 01:04 AM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
You're not bi if you look up to her or think she's pretty. I know a couple of people that think/thought they were bisexual and they aren't really. And this one girl, I swear she says shes bi for attention. So don't do that, it's really annoying.
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Jan 2 2006, 01:19 AM
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just because u think a girl is hot and want to be like her that doesn't mean ur bi. or else everybody who hav similar style, taste, looks will be all considered a bi. so... no. unless like Chii said u want to "do" her.
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Jan 2 2006, 08:00 AM
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QUOTE(laydiieChiink @ Jan 2 2006, 12:25 AM) how do you know if you are a bisexual? cuz i`m VERY attracted to guys but then i think i have a crush on aundrea fimbres from making the band 3. i'm confused O....O  I think this would be better in relationships. -MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS- It sounds like you are straight. I mean heck, I had a crush on Aundrea from Making the Band 3 lol. and I'm very straight. Just because you find a woman attractive and stuff doesn't mean your bi. I mean if you are thinking about her and you in sexual scenarios then that is different. But aundrea is gorgeous model type, and she can dance like there is no tomorrow. Any girl would want to be her, she is more of a role model type, you know. Don't be confused, I don't think you are bisexual at all. I mean, do you feel for girls the same way as you do for guys? It doesn't sound like it. It just sounds like you found a girl on TV really attractive and all. Don't worry :) |
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Jan 2 2006, 10:24 AM
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I don't think that means your bisexual. You probably just admire the girl in making the band 3 for her personality/looks.
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Jan 2 2006, 11:29 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^agreed. you're just looking up to that girl.
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Jan 2 2006, 01:14 PM
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*sigh* This is a classic reason why a lot of people don't believe those who actually are bisexual.
Thinking another girl is hot DOES NOT make you bisexual or a lesbian. You just have good taste. You are not bisexual just because of this "crush". If you happened to actually know Andreauh and actually like her then you maaay be bi, but please don't go around saying you think you are. |
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Jan 2 2006, 03:55 PM
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 Diana =] Group: Member Posts: 1,318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,147 |
If you want to be like someone then.. that's not bisexual.
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Jan 2 2006, 05:34 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
well shes practically a celebrity so idk.
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Jan 2 2006, 05:36 PM
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 IMPOSTA! Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 339,764 |
Watch lesbian porn. If it sparks your arousal, then you can begin to explore other realms of your sexuality.
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Jan 2 2006, 09:13 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Well, like most people are saying, if you actually would want to touch or fele her in inappropriate ways, being straight, then I would say that you were bisexual. If it's just because she's pretty, and funny, or something, then probably not, you're just attracted to that type of personality, and should try to find a guy with the same kind of personality. Good luck! I hope you find out which sexual orientation suits you.
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Jan 3 2006, 12:39 AM
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QUOTE(robb0 @ Jan 2 2006, 12:21 AM) Hey, I wanna "do" Angelina Jolie, I'm no lesbian. hahaha, ditto  except for me it's jessica alba. whoamg she's sexxy. but i don't feel any inclination to be attracted to other girls.. i'm pretty confident in my heterosexuality. 
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May 1 2006, 06:06 AM
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so heres my story:
Aundrea is a sexy, foxxy, hot, and dont forget pretty AND tanned. I used to have a crush on her... a BIG crush on her... But then I told myself, ' is she bisexual???' and thats what got me off her... I still like her, but now, a bit less than before... ask urself these questions: 1. have you met her, or in the near future going to? 2. If you had a llotta love for her would you think shed like that from a GIRL? 3.Is she single? would she fall in love with a GIRL? |
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May 1 2006, 07:06 AM
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@ngel_Lynn Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 205,612 |
i always think gurls are hot but me im not bisexual. i think its perfectly normal to think gurls are hot.
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May 1 2006, 01:18 PM
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Do your undies get wet?
Do your nipples get erected? |
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May 1 2006, 08:44 PM
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i dont think so.
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May 1 2006, 10:06 PM
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QUOTE(laydiieChiink @ Jan 2 2006, 1:29 AM) i don't wanna do her but like she's HECKA pretty & i wanna be just like herr so is that like lesbo? no it just sounds like you have a idol |
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May 2 2006, 04:16 PM
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QUOTE(laydiieChiink @ Jan 2 2006, 1:29 AM) i don't wanna do her but like she's HECKA pretty & i wanna be just like herr so is that like lesbo? I call that having a role model. 
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May 2 2006, 08:28 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I don`t think your a bi.I think female celebrities,musicians,etc are hot and I`m sure not a bi.I think you just look up to people.(like said above)
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May 2 2006, 10:49 PM
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sarcatic piont of view: welll, if you guys made out alot of people would like it, so i vote lesbo... even tho i dont agree with homosexuality
serious: chill out, your just lookin up to that chick |
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