Girls, Please Help, Girlfriend is angry at me |
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 Dec 31 2005, 07:24 PM
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My girlfriend just got her drivers license and is now driving. She is very sensitive and easily scared so I told her that if something happened while she was driving, that she could call me and that i would come and pick her up. So...Today, it started to snow and she left her house to go to another party. At the same time, my phone ran out of batteries so it was turned off and i had to charge it. While it was off, she called me cause she was scared due to the fact that her car was sliding but since i didn't answer, she left a voicemail. When i turned on my phone and as soon as i got the voicemail, i called her. But, she told me that she soooo angry at me cause everyone made sure that she was ok...except me. Then she went on to tell me that she didn't want to talk to me and hung up. Now she's angry and crying at home and i dont know what to do. I miss her..
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| *lil_chubby_cheeks2* |
Dec 31 2005, 07:26 PM
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you should tell her why you didnt answer. and like go to her. talk to her, try to make things better, becuase if you dont do something now she'll start thinking again 'he doesnt care about me...' and stuff like that
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Dec 31 2005, 07:28 PM
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 i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,825 |
The sooner you talk to her, the better, especially for a sensitive girl. Are you sure she knows why you couldn't call her right then and there?
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Dec 31 2005, 08:12 PM
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 sandra <3 chris Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 338,520 |
It's okay...feel better. as long as you know it wasn't your fault you can stop blaming your self for now and explain to her that it was only a mistunderstanding.
Call her and make sure she knows that you care about her and really like her as your freiend. I wanna say taht sometimes people cant be perfect, If you were my friend, I would be proud to have such a nice person caring about me even before i got into any trouble driving. -I hope i helped you. |
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Dec 31 2005, 08:19 PM
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 Dragonfly_babe Group: Member Posts: 274 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 337,380 |
 Was she almost in a car accident or something?! You should just tell her the reason y u didn't pick up your phone and give her a hug or something. The fact that u say u miss her and r writing this shows that u care 
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Dec 31 2005, 09:10 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Dump her it's not worth it.
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Dec 31 2005, 09:38 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Its not your fault. Your batteries ran out. Explain that to her. Bring her a big teddy bear and some hugs and kisses (: If shes reasonable she'll see that it wasnt your fault you were unable to answer the phonecall you didnt even know she sent.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jan 1 2006, 12:36 AM
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QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Dec 31 2005, 9:38 PM) Its not your fault. Your batteries ran out. Explain that to her. Bring her a big teddy bear and some hugs and kisses (: If shes reasonable she'll see that it wasnt your fault you were unable to answer the phonecall you didnt even know she sent.  ^ That's a great idea Bella, I would melt if my boyfriend brought me a big teddy bear as a token of apology. Make sure you tell her the reason why you couldn't pick up your phone, she'll understand. |
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Jan 1 2006, 11:56 AM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
aww it's not your fault, so you have to LET HER KNOW. be really sweet and apologetic and explain everything exactly as it went. like bella said, definetly bring chocolate or roses or a teddy bear and be like OMG I'M SO SORRY AND SO GLAD YOU'RE OKAY. be romantic and sweet and she'll forgive you.
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Jan 1 2006, 12:00 PM
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go over to her place and see how she's doing, tell her what happened, she should understand that it wasn't your fault.
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Jan 1 2006, 02:24 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
Like everyone bascially said except from the stupid person that said to dump her, which obviously don't. Make sure she knows why you didn't answer and do some sweet stuff for her.
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| *mipadi* |
Jan 1 2006, 02:58 PM
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Let her simmer. Give her time to realize how ridiculous she sounds. Then talk to her.
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Jan 1 2006, 03:09 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
methinks all the guys here agree that she's being unreasonable.
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Jan 1 2006, 03:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,746 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,125 |
^ Actually, I think she's paranoid and unreasonable. She wasn't in a car accident or anything, was she? She was just driving, and got scared because of brake-lockage. How did everyone ask her if she was okay if she was just driving somewhere? Its not often that people call to ask if you're in a dangerous situation. Obviously, she called everyone in the world to tell them.
You need to explain the issue to her. Either way, I don't think she'll be mad when she's done crying or whatever. She overreacted, and she'll 'forgive' you soon. |
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Jan 1 2006, 03:19 PM
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 dismantled desire Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 339,497 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 1 2006, 11:00 AM) go over to her place and see how she's doing, tell her what happened, she should understand that it wasn't your fault. Exactly. 
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Jan 1 2006, 04:28 PM
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 can't touch this Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,184 |
Well, she's got a fear. First thing you do is comfort her: tell her "Hey ____, I know I told you if you needed a ride I would give you one, but last night I wasn't able to. I apologize, and I hope you can forgive me. My batteries were dead and by the time they were charged you were mad at me. What can I do to make it up to you? I would never not answer the phone when you called on purpose, and I hope you trust me enough to know that." then give her a teddy bear or something.
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Jan 1 2006, 05:08 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Let her cry. if shes not going to listen to you, then dont bother listening to her crap. tell her next time to understand why u didnt pick up because its a good reason and if shes still mad, then tell her she shouldnt be driving if she was so paranoid NE wayz.
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Jan 1 2006, 05:27 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
well its technically not your fault that your cell was out of batteries. so maybe after she calms down you can explain to her what happened and that you're really sorry.
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Jan 1 2006, 08:50 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jan 1 2006, 12:08 PM) Let her cry. if shes not going to listen to you, then dont bother listening to her crap. tell her next time to understand why u didnt pick up because its a good reason and if shes still mad, then tell her she shouldnt be driving if she was so paranoid NE wayz. I agree.. Its not your fault that your phone's battery went dead. Give her time to cool down. Try and talk to her and explain how it isn't your fault. If she doesn't listen to you, then its not worth it. |
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Jan 2 2006, 06:14 PM
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i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,825 |
Now that I'm reading replies such as the above... I'm beginning to think she is a bit over-paranoid.
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Jan 2 2006, 07:50 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
^ she obviously is..if she cant take the fact that shes going to be driving without NE one helping, then she shouldnt be driving at all
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Jan 2 2006, 08:59 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
OK, that is definitely not your fault, at all. She's overreacting, I mean you would've answered the phone if it wasn't dead, right? She shouldn't hold that against you, since you didn't know what was going on. I'm sorry she's holding that against you. I hope you get to explain to her what happened. I think she will understand and forgive you when she knows about your phone.
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Jan 3 2006, 03:52 AM
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HIS PRINCESS & HIS BABYGURL Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,547 |
QUOTE(xaNgrr @ Dec 31 2005, 4:24 PM) My girlfriend just got her drivers license and is now driving. She is very sensitive and easily scared so I told her that if something happened while she was driving, that she could call me and that i would come and pick her up. So...Today, it started to snow and she left her house to go to another party. At the same time, my phone ran out of batteries so it was turned off and i had to charge it. While it was off, she called me cause she was scared due to the fact that her car was sliding but since i didn't answer, she left a voicemail. When i turned on my phone and as soon as i got the voicemail, i called her. But, she told me that she soooo angry at me cause everyone made sure that she was ok...except me. Then she went on to tell me that she didn't want to talk to me and hung up. Now she's angry and crying at home and i dont know what to do. I miss her.. do what i would do IF i was a guy. Say sorry 100x's tell her u love her, surprise her with flowers, and hope she forgives u . 
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Jan 3 2006, 04:38 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jan 2 2006, 7:50 PM) ^ she obviously is..if she cant take the fact that shes going to be driving without NE one helping, then she shouldnt be driving at all ^That is a really good point. I know she just got her drivers license and stuff, but if she isn't confident about driving or whatever and has to have everyone hold her hand basically then she shouldn't be driving in the snow. She was over reacting, it's not your fault. If your phone was charging then obviously you couldn't talk to her. It's not like you could do anything about it. That girl needs to toughen up or something. When she calms down, call her and tell her what happened and everything, and tell her that you were worried about her. BUt that your phone was charging. Man, alive. If I were her friend I would tell her to stop being annoying and worried about herself driving and talking on the phone, and just drive to wherever she needs to be, and chill out. No offense to your girl or anything, but you didn't do anything wrong |
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Jan 3 2006, 01:28 PM
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QUOTE(LiLCUTiEFR0MDAYAY @ Jan 3 2006, 3:52 AM) do what i would do IF i was a guy. Say sorry 100x's tell her u love her, surprise her with flowers, and hope she forgives u . Why does he need to apologize? He's not the one being absolutely insane. |
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