has this happened to you?, didn't know where to put this topic.. |
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 Dec 27 2005, 12:49 PM
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 facedown  Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 276,252  |
At your school, your not seen as pretty or hott. But when your out in public with guys that you don't know - they honk their horns, say unappropriate things (sex related), stare, smile, etc?
I don't get it at all! What's the difference? --- But sometimes when I get hit on, I feel dirty and like I want to go back to being seen as unpretty...yet I have no clue why. =[ |
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Dec 27 2005, 12:54 PM
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 YEA? ILL EAT YOUR FACE OFF =] Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,087 |
pshh, yea. im not considered preppy/ hot or a geek/ugly at my school but ive never dated anyone and no one has asked me to the school dance but when im outside, people touch me or honk their horns. its kinda annoying actually.
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Dec 27 2005, 12:56 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,329 |
yes i do. Im seen as a ugly person to guys in school, but then all the ugly doodes stare at me while im with my mom and for some reason it makes me feel uglier
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Dec 27 2005, 01:07 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Your standards start decreasing once you leave the idyllic little world of high school, believe me.
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Dec 27 2005, 01:08 PM
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HIS PRINCESS & HIS BABYGURL Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,547 |
all tha tyme. the only reason people dont do it at skool is cuz my bf is always with me and we been goin out for a year already. but when me & him are walking home sooo many beanerz [dun trip i AM mexican] check me out and all that crap or when im with mah sister..
but i dont think im ugly? |
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Dec 27 2005, 04:47 PM
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Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Being ugly and being beautiful isn't black or white--it's a sliding scale. As you get older, your standards decrease because reality crowds out your optimistic naivete. As your standards decrease, more women who would otherwise be below the benchmark are above the benchmark. As more women meet you requirements, you stare at and hit on more women. Not suprisingly, more women are then stared at by you.
People outside high school generlaly have lower standards--so they're probably more likely to think you're pretty if you're on the fence. |
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Dec 27 2005, 04:48 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
yeah. because at school, people have known you for a couple of years now, and people that you know really well dont think you're hot or ugly, just another person. and it also kinda depends on your reputation at school.
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Dec 27 2005, 09:16 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
ugly men would stare at me and wink and all that nasty stuff, even when i'm with my bf.
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Dec 27 2005, 09:19 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
yeah i get that. mainly cause my schools punk-rockers so they go for they`re own 'type' haha but when im out on the street its like buddiee... haha.. oh well. i`m used to it by now. but it does get on my nerves. its like find something better to do.
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Dec 27 2005, 09:28 PM
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 ^ignore. read> Maria. Group: Member Posts: 710 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,799 |
nope. good thing i liv in a country (sorta?)
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Dec 27 2005, 09:30 PM
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 Milo Kamalani Group: Human Posts: 954 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 274,798 |
I think it's all about reputation.
There are girls at my school that are ugly as hell, but they're very outgoing therefore a lot of guys at my school like them;; But If you see them at the mall no one even gives them a glance. I'm really not outgoing at all and I hang out with the computer/gamer geeks so I really don't get much notice at school;; But when I'm in public I get much more attention. But thats ok, because I'd rather go out with a guy who can pwn me in World Of Warcraft;; than some blonde jock that I'm just going to call a fag repeatedly. Xp |
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Dec 27 2005, 09:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,055 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,796 |
Hmm...well adults say that I'm pretty (I don't mean to be arrogant) but at my school, it's not pretty people like it's "hot" and you have to be "hot by wearing brand nem clothes and having blonde hair, which I have but I don't have brand name clothes.
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Dec 27 2005, 11:53 PM
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Your mom goes to college.. Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,541 |
I am the SAME way!
It stinks because in a small way... don't u wanna be seen as a hottie in school? But when guys start touching my backside it gets out of hand |
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Dec 28 2005, 12:08 AM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
QUOTE(celticsluvr @ Dec 27 2005, 10:19 PM) yeah i get that. mainly cause my schools punk-rockers so they go for they`re own 'type' haha but when im out on the street its like buddiee... haha.. oh well. i`m used to it by now. but it does get on my nerves. its like find something better to do.  ^haha thats wut im sayin. my schools mainly preppy kids and emo kids soo they also just go for there types, but down here where i live, when u go to tha malls there's guys (old guys) thats have massive staring problems. its gross, i remember once i was at tha mall wit my friend and these guys were walking towards us, and they were like "aye shawty, aye shawty" then he started to follow us, i was like ooh hell no. it was kinda creepy. 
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Dec 28 2005, 01:50 AM
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"my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
QUOTE(jEllyBeaNs @ Dec 28 2005, 12:08 AM) ^haha thats wut im sayin. my schools mainly preppy kids and emo kids soo they also just go for there types, but down here where i live, when u go to tha malls there's guys (old guys) thats have massive staring problems. its gross, i remember once i was at tha mall wit my friend and these guys were walking towards us, and they were like "aye shawty, aye shawty" then he started to follow us, i was like ooh hell no. it was kinda creepy. ahaha.. thats what happens too. shoot. once i was walking with my 'big sistar' and then this guy [kinda old] was like singing HEY YOUNGG GIRL.. haha... it was creepy. but he could sing!! haha. |
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Dec 28 2005, 10:55 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Because you're judged and cliqued at school and a lot of them guys probably think you're pretty, but they're afraid what their friends might say about them.
And the guys who honk at you don't know about your personality and they just judge you on looks. |
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Dec 28 2005, 02:23 PM
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Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
QUOTE(celticsluvr @ Dec 28 2005, 2:50 AM) ahaha.. thats what happens too. shoot. once i was walking with my 'big sistar' and then this guy [kinda old] was like singing HEY YOUNGG GIRL.. haha... it was creepy. but he could sing!! haha. haha well at least he sould sinG lol 
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Dec 28 2005, 04:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 127 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 324,352 |
its mainly them "mexican ppl", you noe what im talkin bout?
they seem to think any girl is HOT i guess, cus they obviously honks at any chick that they see. |
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Dec 28 2005, 05:06 PM
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 im NO ordinary! akO ay taO! Group: Member Posts: 385 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 314,294 |
maybe the reason is "you dont look good in school uniforms..." haha
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Dec 28 2005, 05:21 PM
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 Diana =] Group: Member Posts: 1,318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,147 |
Yeah, that's happened to me. When I'm in school the guys in my class like the blonde bitchy type and that's not me. But when I'm out in public guys staring at me.
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Dec 29 2005, 07:11 PM
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 team late night queen Group: Member Posts: 1,602 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,861 |
some guys just hits on anythin that walks, has a junk in the trunk, or has some pretty nice melons.
ohh boys boys boys. yay for a non poll topic |
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Dec 29 2005, 07:15 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
QUOTE(jEllyBeaNs @ Dec 28 2005, 3:23 PM) haha well at least he sould sinG lol haha i agree. it could have been worse. 
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Dec 29 2005, 07:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 27 2005, 1:07 PM) Your standards start decreasing once you leave the idyllic little world of high school, believe me. I believe! Amen. Ive seen the low... |
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Dec 29 2005, 09:20 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
Yeah....I mean some guys like me at school & stuff, but most of the attention comes from total strangers.
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Dec 29 2005, 09:22 PM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
QUOTE(wishonthestars @ Dec 27 2005, 12:49 PM) At your school, your not seen as pretty or hott. But when your out in public with guys that you don't know - they honk their horns, say unappropriate things (sex related), stare, smile, etc? I don't get it at all! What's the difference? --- But sometimes when I get hit on, I feel dirty and like I want to go back to being seen as unpretty...yet I have no clue why. =[ well at least u do get noticed...
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