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i like this guy alot and he's leaving in 3 weeks bcuz he's leaving to go to a new place veryvery far and he's not coming back. he likes me too but the only thing i have a problem with is how i should get together with him. he's pretty shy to do that and i really wanna be together with him. well should i? everyone says that i should. but the only reason is how?
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Nov 29 2005, 09:35 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
just get over it and let him go. it's very difficult to have a long distance relationship, save yourself and him trouble by getting with someone who lives around you or something.
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Nov 29 2005, 09:37 PM
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depends.
do u think it'll last and become a very good relationship with the two of you flying back and forth to each other on monthly/yearly visits, or will it be a three week fling and then it'll die off? while in general, long distance relationships are very difficult, if u seriously like the guy, and he seriously cares about you, simply talk to him about it and discuss it. and basically ask him out, seeing as how there are mutual feelings. just be careful: is it that u really like him, or that everyone's been telling u to get together with him? don't let others influence ur thoughts. meh. that's all i gotta say about that. i think. |
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Nov 29 2005, 09:46 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
awwh if he's moving FAR away and he's not coming back then i personally don't think it's worth it...i think you should just let him go and get over it. i mean theres plenty of guys around. but if you feel that you REALLY like him...just give him your number/email/etc. and tell him to contact you whenever he's settled in or ready. lols just let it flow. like talk to him and work it in there...and then make your move...get it?
 blehh thats just what i would do... 
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Nov 29 2005, 10:02 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
i think you should just let him go. long-distance relationships rarely make it, unless the couple is really strong from the start.
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Nov 30 2005, 06:20 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i'm in a long distance relationship, and it's hard, it's best if you just let him go since he's leaving in 3 weeks. besides there are so many other guys around you.. if you really want to get together with him and you both are crazy for each other then talk about it
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Nov 30 2005, 04:51 PM
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you dont love him.
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Dec 2 2005, 11:53 AM
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what she said ^
but i mean u could just go for it anyway. at least u wont have the regrets of not trying (if u like him, that is) |
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Dec 2 2005, 12:56 PM
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 Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
you guys should kiss before he moves lol. it would so nice and romantic though cuz he moving and you wont see him for awhile
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Dec 2 2005, 10:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 102 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 288,931 |
keep in touch with him but don't rush into a romantic relaitonaship just yet. Be friends for awhile and if you guysl are still crazy for each other, then definietly give it a shot. If its meant to be you'll know.
 and as said above, its much better to at least see how things go than to give up rihgt away adn regret it later.
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Dec 19 2005, 09:04 PM
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maybe its just not meant to be than?
long distance relations isnt that easy as u think it is. its harder than it loOks. im experincin it rite now, n it just sucks! but than in my situation, hes cumin back in a year, n i love him lots so its worth the wait. |
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Dec 27 2005, 01:03 AM
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I gave you everything ... Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,433 |
no need getting together if he's going to leave , its going to be harder for u wen ur together and u guys break apart
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Dec 27 2005, 01:18 AM
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 Infinite's End Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 193,597 |
yeah, dont try to hold onto something that will so soon go away.
long distance relationships generally dont work. |
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Dec 27 2005, 02:25 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
You never know if you're meant to be until you try it out. I think you should give it a try. Even if it turns out to be only a three-week fling, you have no regrets since he's moving far away anyway. If it lasts, then you'll have a long distance relationship.
They're hard. Really hard. But you can try. |
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Dec 27 2005, 02:48 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
if you really want to work at it... you can keep in touch by phone, IM or email. and visit occasionally, if you have the $ for that. but if not... just try to find someone new
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