Do Your Parents Know?, Do they know and/or care that you have a boyfriend? |
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Do Your Parents Know?, Do they know and/or care that you have a boyfriend? |
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#276
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![]() All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 ![]() |
My dad NEVER knows.
Frankly because he wouldn't let me out of the house. But whenever I've got a b/f my mother knows. (: |
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#277
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one time at band camp (oh shut up) everyone in my hall was gone, so i wandered down the other way and found everyone in someone's room discussing their fathers' responces to bringing guys home, but it was such bullshit because i know for a fact a lot of people in there have never gone out with anyone
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#278
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![]() worship me or i'll stab you ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,634 ![]() |
my mom does not care. she knew i went out with this 18-year-old. she did not care.
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#279
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![]() mon cheri amour x ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,349 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,530 ![]() |
i go behind their backs because they just won't let me have one `till i graduate high school.. yeah.. and i'm just STARTING high school.. so yeah..
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#280
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![]() My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 ![]() |
QUOTE(wonders79 @ Aug 15 2005, 12:58 AM) What is all this GREEN TEAM, RED TEAM stuff? Anyway, yes, they do. It's most responsible to tell them what's going on in your social lives. Otherwise you'll be having a burden of a secret on you all the time. I always communicate with my parents. If you're not telling them about your relationships, maybe you're not at the age or ready to have a bf or gf.. |
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#281
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![]() I love you more than sex appeal. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 ![]() |
I'm not sure if they let me but yeah, I be having boyfriends behind their backs. Who's knows if they ask why or what they're gonna say.
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#282
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![]() viva la Dior! ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,732 ![]() |
I try not to let my mom know cause once anything goes wrong - ie my grades start falling a little - I know she's soo going to be blaming it on him and stressing that I shouldn't have one until college and yadeeyah. =p
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#283
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 ![]() |
yes but they dont care ... there just glad i told them ... but now we broke up oo well ..
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#284
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wow! ur lucky ur parents are like that. my parents are selfish. well...not selfish selfish. just selfish wen it comes to me. yano? like they don't want to share me to another person but themselves. id die if they found out im with a guy coz they'd kill me. even talking or hanging with a dude is prohibited. HANGING OUT even with friends is prohibited, thats y i don't hang out much. im like a friggin prisoner! i hate it! but- i do understand their concerns...but they're tackling the issue all wrong.
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#285
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my parents would ground me for life if they ever found out i hada boyfriend
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#286
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![]() boo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 ![]() |
I don't have a bf. But trust me, they do care who it is.
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#287
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,476 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,305 ![]() |
my parents dont want me to have until i work
but it's many years later ![]() so i have a secret boyfriend ![]() |
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#288
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 310,648 ![]() |
OH HELL NO! My parents are the last people who would ever say yes for me to have a bf. They are soooo... idk about my dad i think he'd tease me about it cuz i always used to say when i was little "i'm not going to fall in love and i;m never gonna get married" my mom on the other hand would hands down say no to bfs. shes way too grade crazy and she would think i would just fool around and not study and get bad grades which she already bugs me about B;s... My mom said her first bf was when she was 21 and it was my dad... so really not a good idea.. i;'d sneak it behind their backs
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#289
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![]() "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 ![]() |
if i did have a boyfriend right now, my parents would be ok about it and would care.. hahah thank goodness i only have a 'husband'.. haha... its a long story.
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#290
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![]() thanhnie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 ![]() |
My parents [I don't think] didn't know about my ex. I'm pretty sure they had an idea, but they like had like no confirmation of it. So yeah.. I guess you could say I got away with it. My relationship with him was like around 2 years so I think they pretty much got used to it.
My mom knows about the guy that I have a crush on right now. I'm not sure if she had forgotten or anything, but she can never keep a secret. I think she told my dad and when me and him went to the movies yesterday, my dad was all like, 'Oh who are you going with, huh? A boyfriend or a girlfriend?' and I just sat there and stared at him. =P hehe.. If we do end up going out though, I don't plan on telling my parents. I might, but I'll have like this doubt in my head about what they'll make me do and not do. He's a really good kid though so I don't know. I probably won't though. =P LoL.. |
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#291
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my parents said not until i'm 18..asian parents are so strict -.-;; well atleast mine are....
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#292
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![]() banana ham! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,050 ![]() |
nope i would never tell my parent. haha they would start trippen soo much .. but ey, im good at keeping it away from them
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#293
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![]() ...who created this mess...? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 451 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,244 ![]() |
I'm actually not allowed to have one. XD So, yes they care, and no, I don't have a BF.
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#294
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 950 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,808 ![]() |
My mum has REALLY REALLY good intuition. I've been hiding the fact that I've had past relationships but this time she found out. Well, she didn't seem to care, and just laughed. O_O
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#295
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![]() damn, right! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547 ![]() |
i don't have one... cuz i'm not allowed to have one. i'm part of the NBSB society (no boyfriend since birth) and yes, they do care...
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#296
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![]() yan lin♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 ![]() |
first of all, if i had a bf, i wouldn't tell them and yes they would care
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#297
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 329,442 ![]() |
my parents are great, they let me see my bf and they appreciate him
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#298
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![]() Pretty Rad ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 202,955 ![]() |
that kinda sounds like my mom, just a little bit. If i come home from hanging out with friends or a dance or something. She'll be like 'what happened? who were you with? what were they wearing? what did you do?' its so annoying.
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#299
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![]() Food. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 667 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,545 ![]() |
When I did have a boyfriend, I was behind their backs.
I'm too afraid to tell/ask about it; there is a 50% chance that they will not allow it and a 50% chance they would. I'd rather not take the chance. I kind-of thought that they had a sense of me having a boyfriend when I did. |
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#300
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![]() Hey People ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 199 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,295 ![]() |
don't have a bf but i don't think i would tell
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