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AFRAID OF HER BOYFRIEND, && what should she do?
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post Dec 10 2005, 02:15 PM
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okay, my boyfriend Mike seemed perfect when I met him and all, but now he's just annoying. he's my best friend's brother, so I slept over her house last night and he practically raped me (my friend beat him up later though mellow.gif ). He does other things too, but It'd take too long to type up. I talked to my friend zbout it and she dosn't know what to do either because I still love him, he's just changed a lot. Meep, I sound like a loser, but any advice? I'll love you forever <3
 
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post Dec 10 2005, 02:17 PM
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well im kinda confused on what ur saying. are you saying he is beating you up, and u dont know wut to do, or is he just annoying and you dont want to be with him anymore?
 
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post Dec 10 2005, 02:19 PM
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QUOTE(jEllyBeaNs @ Dec 10 2005, 3:17 PM)
well im kinda confused on what ur saying.  are you saying he is beating you up, and u dont know wut to do, or is he just annoying and you dont want to be with him anymore?
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he dosn't abuse me or anything, but i mean, he's too...arg, what;s the word...ummm, over-controlling. The whole thing last night just made me so pissed off at him
 
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post Dec 10 2005, 04:57 PM
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break it off with him, if you think he's not giving you space. you better do something before he starts to physically abuse you
 
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post Dec 10 2005, 05:56 PM
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What do you mean by pratically raped you. He actually attempted or he just tried to do a little more than kising ?

If hes being "over controlling" as you said, and trying to make you do things youre not ready for then either you break up with him if youre not ready for that kind of relationship, or you talk to him about How youre not ready for the next level in a sexually active way.
 
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post Dec 10 2005, 08:03 PM
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tell your best friend about it and she could confront him about it.
 
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post Dec 19 2005, 08:42 PM
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just 4get it n move on.
hes a loser.
 
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post Dec 20 2005, 12:49 PM
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what does practically rape mean? i'm sorry but i get a little annoyed at people who say things like that when basically nothing happened.

rape is penetration and molestation is touching, all against your will of course.


if you're freaking afraid of your boyfriend, LEAVE HIM. my god, don't let it escalate into something more. i can tell you what "practically rape" is when you try to leave someone and you keep putting it off until it got crazy stubborn.gif
 
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post Dec 20 2005, 01:04 PM
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what do you mean by "practically raped you?" if he just tried to persuade you to have sex with him that doesn't count. he probably assumed because you were sleeping over you were asking for it. mellow.gif not that it's your fault.

anyway, if he really did physically force himself on you against your will LEAVE HIM.
 
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post Dec 20 2005, 05:28 PM
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Wait, WHAT?
He RAPED YOU, and your asking for advice?
He hurt you, terribly.
If he cared for you, that would not have happened.
There is no exscuse for raping someone
NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION
HE'S A CREEP
LOVE DOES NOT INVOLVE VIOLENCE
 
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post Dec 20 2005, 05:58 PM
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You shouldn't stay with a guy who's like that.....It usually just gets worse over time. I think you should break it off because relationships like that are very unhealthy.
 
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post Dec 20 2005, 06:09 PM
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break up with this person... damn ihate boyfriends who are controling; my bestfriend is going through that & she still want him.. bu anyways, dump his ass... hes not worth worrying about
 
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post Dec 20 2005, 06:17 PM
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you underestimate the powers you were born with. you are Female. you have the power to emberase men. you have the power of complete rejection, which sounds like this "I don think so". - harsh -

find these powers within yourself, get rid of this plague.

if all else fails... i will teach you a special power called the Drop Kick. Its my favorite, but its the last resort.
 
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post Dec 20 2005, 06:56 PM
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He shouldn't be forcing you to do anything. Maybe you should just break it off with him. He seems a little bit too demanding.
 
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post Dec 21 2005, 11:09 AM
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don't use around the word 'love' like that
 
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post Dec 23 2005, 07:40 PM
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^^ agree.
fcuk`n confsued. write your story again. did he acutally try to rape you.
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 09:16 AM
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this girl is confused just like most young girls in the same situation....she doesn't know what she wants....let her figure it out....she doesn't need our advice _dry.gif
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 10:41 AM
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QUOTE(Dec 21 2005 @ 6:17 AM)
you underestimate the powers you were born with.  you are Female.  you have the power to emberase men.  you have the power of complete rejection, which sounds like this "I don think so".  -  harsh -

if all else fails... i will teach you a special power called the Drop Kick.  Its my favorite, but its the last resort.
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^ hahahaha

If he didn't "practically rape you", then get over it. If he really did, get over HIM.
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 11:20 AM
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What do you mean by "practically raped me"?
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 08:22 PM
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He actually raped her, as opposed to theoretically raping her.
 
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