How Do iTell My Mom I lost my VIRGINITY?, Please comment..... |
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 Dec 11 2005, 02:29 AM
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 banangst ♥  Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399  |
you just... don't.
it's kinda disturbing if the mom starts to picture things.. =\ |
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Dec 11 2005, 10:16 AM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
" Mother I participated in sexual relations with the opposite gender ".
.... 0__o Just dont , like everyone else said unless your pregnant. |
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Dec 11 2005, 11:34 AM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(ceara cecilyrose @ Dec 10 2005, 9:05 PM) I have a younger sister about your age though and I think it'd really worry my mum if she lost her virginity. She's too young to fall in love and teenage lust makes people do silly things.  Argh, I hate it when people say that. I know that I am in love and I had sex with my boyfriend because we are in true love, not lust. Why would I stay with him for over a year if it is just lust. Rawr. [/endrant] |
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Dec 11 2005, 11:58 AM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
don't tell her. she would be really really mad/disapointed, and it's not worth it. besides even though she is your mom, i don't think it's other people's buisness if you have sex.
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Dec 11 2005, 01:44 PM
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I bet there's a Hallmark card for this sort of thing.
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Dec 11 2005, 01:49 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
if ur mom is the type of person who doesnt get ferious about such things then just go ....
"hey mom i need to talk to you" and then be like me and blah...had sex ... blah blah...." other wise.... they dont need to know! i bet u she'll find out on her own later....they always find out...... *shakes fist* |
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Dec 11 2005, 03:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 254 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,811 |
QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Dec 11 2005, 9:34 AM) Argh, I hate it when people say that. I know that I am in love and I had sex with my boyfriend because we are in true love, not lust. Why would I stay with him for over a year if it is just lust. Rawr. [/endrant] One year might not be love. xP I know this couple who's been together for two years, but they don't love each other. He cheats on her and stuff. And yes, he did stay with her for two years because of lust =P But hey, I'm not trying to attack you or anything. Just saying its possible. QUOTE My mother told me to tell her when I'm ready to have sex LMAO but why would your mom want to know that you're having sex? Just a question......unless it's one of those really freak ove rprotective mom's that need to know their kid' every moment but if it's one of those moms whose suppppper crazy like poke you in the eye with a fork crazy i'd beware and not say anything. Actually I know some moms like that, and it's to give them protection lol. They are more open about sex xP I think they had sex at a younger age too. |
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Dec 11 2005, 04:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 |
QUOTE I bet there's a Hallmark card for this sort of thing. Haha. "Dear ____, Congratulations on losing your virginity! May your sex life be pleasurable and fulfilling. Love, _____" Don't tell your mom until you are an adult, unless you were raped, are pregnant, and/or have a STD. |
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Dec 11 2005, 05:22 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(sociallydsoryntd @ Dec 11 2005, 2:55 PM) One year might not be love. xP I know this couple who's been together for two years, but they don't love each other. He cheats on her and stuff. And yes, he did stay with her for two years because of lust =P But hey, I'm not trying to attack you or anything. Just saying its possible. Well it has been longer than one year and we don't cheat on eachother. He said I love you first so I am guessing it is not lust. Anyways, I am just tired of people saying that teenagers can't fall in love. Yes they can. Besides, I am an adult now, I know what I am in lust and love. |
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Dec 11 2005, 11:18 PM
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 Oh the insanity! Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,302 |
QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Dec 12 2005, 3:04 AM) Argh, I hate it when people say that. I know that I am in love and I had sex with my boyfriend because we are in true love, not lust. Why would I stay with him for over a year if it is just lust. Rawr. [/endrant] Only a teenager would say that :P Its not all teens, not by a long shot. But then there are people who are young and people who are _young_ Its a simple developmental fact that peoples emotional makeup takes a while to develop and their brains aren't fully formed during most of adolescence. This doesn't mean that you can't fall in love, but it does mean that its less likely. Even the simple fact that a lot of younger people have no idea where their lives are going yet means that it can be really hard for some to know how they can share their lives with someone. This isn't always the case. I have a brother who has been with his girlfriend for about 4 years now and it started in high school. But... I don't think that is always the case. I still stand by my statement that some young people are too young to fall in love. Or do you really think that all the teens who get into a new relationship every few weeks and have sex with each guy before dropping them because they're too emo or whatever... Is that love? Some teens will swear black and blue that it is, they'll say how much they LOVE their boyfriend and then within a couple of weeks have decided that they LOVE someone else. It's bullshit. |
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Dec 12 2005, 12:37 AM
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QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Dec 10 2005, 4:37 PM) don't. Wait till you are like 20 yeah um... im 20... wait till your 25. cause man, your mom will become an ultimate UFC fighter on you. |
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Dec 12 2005, 12:38 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Why dont you just procrastinate on it until you are pregnant, sounds good eh ?
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Dec 12 2005, 12:52 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
It really depends what kind of person you are.
Although I COMPLETELY agree with others in saying that you shouldn't tell her, you should think about her reaction. Also, ask yourself these questions: 1. Are you close with her? 2. Has she every talked about other people losing their virginity? 3. If so, how has she reacted? Okay, if you answered yes to the first two, then focus on #3. If she's reacted negatively (which in all honestly, I would too, if I was her!), then perhaps you shouldn't. Just know that you have to be careful. But if you're really close to her and you're scared she'll find out, maybe it's better to tell her? It really depends on the situation.. |
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Dec 12 2005, 12:53 AM
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 wut wut in the butt? Group: Human Posts: 2,108 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,723 |
you could spend a couple nights at a friend's house and send ur mom a letter sayin "i lost my virginity, write back when it's safe to come home"
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Dec 12 2005, 07:22 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
"mom, did u get some last night?"
"er.......no?" "well, I DID." what the deuce. if ur very comfortable with ur mother and u know she won't explode in a fiery mass, then go ahead. otherwise, follow rachel's advice and mums the word. |
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Dec 12 2005, 12:27 PM
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 Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
you: remember when you told me to have safe sex?
mom: yeah? you: ummm uhhhh... i see your dilemma, hope everything works out. |
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Dec 12 2005, 12:30 PM
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QUOTE(sociallydsoryntd @ Dec 11 2005, 10:55 PM) One year might not be love. xP I know this couple who's been together for two years, but they don't love each other. He cheats on her and stuff. And yes, he did stay with her for two years because of lust =P But hey, I'm not trying to attack you or anything. Just saying its possible. Actually I know some moms like that, and it's to give them protection lol. They are more open about sex xP I think they had sex at a younger age too. What do you mean by one year might not be love? That's bullshit. You know ONE couple. ONE in a million...don't go assuming if you don't know that much. Sorry...someone told me the exact same thing today and it pissed me off... EDIT// I don't think you should tell her. |
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Dec 12 2005, 01:08 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Dec 10 2005, 1:56 PM) Umm...don't? My mom doesn't know and thats how I'd like to keep it for a few years. i agree. why would you need to tell your mom anyway? unless she's one of those cool moms. mine would most likely kill me if i told her i had any relations with the opposite sex. |
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Dec 12 2005, 02:04 PM
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 what do you think it says....if so obvious. Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
dont ....its just better that way .
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Dec 13 2005, 07:43 PM
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 hulagurlie413 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 259,963 |
that's an easy one...DON'T![B]
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Dec 13 2005, 07:50 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
this is an interesting topic.. i have no suggestions though. im sorry. wait till your older maybe? wayyyy older?
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Dec 13 2005, 08:22 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(Weird addiction @ Dec 12 2005, 11:30 AM) What do you mean by one year might not be love? That's bullshit. You know ONE couple. ONE in a million...don't go assuming if you don't know that much. Sorry...someone told me the exact same thing today and it pissed me off... EDIT// I don't think you should tell her.    Anyways, to the topic starter, can we get an update or a reason why you must tell your mother? |
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Dec 13 2005, 08:36 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
"hey mom, i had sex"
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Dec 13 2005, 09:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 254 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,811 |
QUOTE(Weird addiction @ Dec 12 2005, 10:30 AM) What do you mean by one year might not be love? That's bullshit. You know ONE couple. ONE in a million...don't go assuming if you don't know that much. Sorry...someone told me the exact same thing today and it pissed me off... EDIT// I don't think you should tell her. I just said one couple as an example =P Duh. Why argue with no examples? Want another? I for one, am another example. I felt strong emotions, a bit of love but more of infatuation and lust. I know, because I've experienced it, so YOU don't assume that I don't know =P. (And no, it's not one in a million. There are more.) Hold your tongue before you go off on others. Don't displace the anger you have on that someone else towards me  Btw, I wrote that not to attack her, just to address my opinion. If I attacked her, I would have used more derogatory terms and a bunch of cussing. |
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Dec 13 2005, 09:46 PM
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Is there a good reason why you should tell her? o_O Other than that; what your mother doesn't know can't hurt.
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