What if..., ur bf/gf cheated |
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 Nov 28 2005, 09:09 AM
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 Oh the insanity!  Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,302  |
Its happened to me, well, sort of.
Never talked to them again. |
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Dec 2 2005, 06:06 AM
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Break up with him. I've learnt my lesson.
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Dec 2 2005, 09:13 PM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
break up.
it's hard to trust him again if he's cheated before. but it really depends on the situation. |
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Dec 2 2005, 10:30 PM
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well..i wouldnt kill mi b/f..i would work it out wit him tho... XP
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Dec 3 2005, 02:14 AM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
My friend just got cheated on
aaah It still hurts i can tell Yeah, i think cheatin is rediculous You're so damn insecure you need too people telling you that they love you just so you can get by? Wow, you damn whore. Don't f**k with him, me, us. aaaah. |
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Dec 3 2005, 02:22 AM
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 Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
well i'd work it out with him. I'd see if he really did cheat on me. And asked him why. And if its b/c he doesn't feel the same for me as he did b4.. thne its over but if he just made a stupid mistake and still "likes" me then i'll maybe consider him back...
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Dec 3 2005, 02:25 AM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
mmm im married not going out. in my case we dont go out but we got very close benefits. so if my husband cheated on me, i would probably try to work it out. it would suck having to loose him.
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Dec 3 2005, 12:08 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(celticsluvr @ Dec 3 2005, 1:25 AM) mmm im married not going out. in my case we dont go out but we got very close benefits. so if my husband cheated on me, i would probably try to work it out. it would suck having to loose him.  You're like 13-14, how are you married? |
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Dec 3 2005, 01:30 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Dec 3 2005, 12:08 PM) You're like 13-14, how are you married? Well, maybe they're not really married and it's a pet name or something, because my boyfriend and I call each other "fiancee." But that's because he "proposed" to be before asking me out. |
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Dec 4 2005, 01:08 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Hahha married??
Okay, again people, you say NOW that you'd break up with them, kill them, whatever but honestly once you're put into that situation you never know. Things aren't always so absolute. You can't say that you'd act a certain way in a specific situation until that situation has come. There are plenty of things that we all say we're going to do or not going to do but when the time comes, that changes. And stop saying 'once a cheater, always a cheater' because it's NOT true in all cases. Once again, it's an absolute. I know people that have cheated and they don't cheat anymore. I don't care what you have to say, but people CAN change if they want to change and obviously they changed the fact that they cheated. |
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Dec 8 2005, 10:45 AM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols i really don't know what i would do. i guess it would depend...on what he did. i guess...i mean if he showed signs that he was truely sorry then i would think about taking him back, and if he did it again, i would just blow a gasket and kick his effing ash ^^ teehee...but that's only if i decide to take him back.
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Dec 9 2005, 12:51 AM
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 hulagurlie413 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 259,963 |
F*ck that shit! i'm sorry, but hell no. once a cheater, always a cheater.
 i'd never do that to anyone. it's better to just break up with the other person if you're thinking of cheating on them for sure. it won't hurt them as much if you did that rather than cheating on them and having them find out (most likely from other ppl). |
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Dec 9 2005, 10:22 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 200,365 |
If my boyfriend did that.
I would break up with him probably. Thats if I found out. But he would probably be so guilty that I would find out anyway. But he said that he never would do that. I don't really have to worry about that. |
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Dec 10 2005, 08:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
depends on if he admitted it that he did it and said sorry without me having to ask, then we might be able to work it out... but most likely i'd end up hurt, forgive him, but break it off.
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Dec 27 2005, 05:14 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
I've been cheated on. Break up; the best decision.
You're upset? Suck it up, stop crying like a bitch and get over it. You'll save yourself the future relationship insecurities. |
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| *Zatanna* |
Dec 27 2005, 10:48 PM
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Sadly, cheating happens.
 I'm not sure if I'd choose any one particular choice since everything is subjective. However, in my most recent (and horrific) experience in being cheating on I chose to not speak to him again. I think at this point in life, I'm too old for that crap.  (Besides, the girl is pregnant, which is the *only* reason he decided to tell me anyway). Um, I'm not bitter still. Nah. |
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Dec 27 2005, 10:52 PM
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 the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
It hurt like hell...man, the moment I found out it was just like something from a movie!
Him: Please, please, I'm so sorry, please... Me: Shawn, you make your decisions and I'll make mine! ...Broke up with him that night. 
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Dec 28 2005, 10:25 AM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Allright, a lot of you are saying you would end it right away...good lord, it is NOT that easy.
It hurts like more than anything you can imagine (well I suppose if you are in a serious relationship more so than a 1 monther) and it is the hardest thing to say that you want to end it. And to the once a cheater, always a cheater- please DON'T believe that. Most people have f**ked up once, does that mean they don't deserve a second chance? |
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Dec 28 2005, 08:38 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Dec 28 2005, 9:25 AM) Allright, a lot of you are saying you would end it right away...good lord, it is NOT that easy. It hurts like more than anything you can imagine (well I suppose if you are in a serious relationship more so than a 1 monther) and it is the hardest thing to say that you want to end it. And to the once a cheater, always a cheater- please DON'T believe that. Most people have f**ked up once, does that mean they don't deserve a second chance? Second chance? Yes. Third chance? Nuh-uh. |
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| *Azarel* |
Dec 28 2005, 09:12 PM
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I'd break up with 'em; the one thing I hate the most is cheaters.
I don't think that it's necessarily "the hardest thing to say you want to end it" because if you don't end it, you'll only be hurt more further along in the relationship. I'm a believer of the line, "Once a cheater, always a cheater," but only because it's been proven by the way guys in my life act, over and over again. I tried giving cheating guys a second chance, but it's never worked out--they do it again. In one recent case, my (ex)boyfriend cheated on me around seven months into the relationship. Did it hurt? Undoubtedly, but I gave him a second chance. Five months later, he did it again. I broke up with him. How was to know that he didn't cheat even more times that I didn't know about? He said he was sorry, that he didn't mean to hurt me, that he wouldn't do it again. And shit like that. You know. Now, he's in a relationship with a girl, and they've been going out for.. eight months now? Something like that. Anyway, last month, I went down to his college to check out the campus and even though he has a girlfriend, he was the one that started hitting on me and so on and so forth. He cheated on his current girlfriend. Surprising? Not in the least. |
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Dec 28 2005, 09:39 PM
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 Infinite's End Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 193,597 |
I'd dump him, why would I want a boyfriend who'd date another girl?
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Dec 28 2005, 09:40 PM
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 Beer, helping ugly people have sex since 1862! Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,574 |
id run into my room and cry T_T! no id kill them =]
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Dec 28 2005, 10:15 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
I'd brake up with him faster then he could say sorry.
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Dec 29 2005, 12:53 AM
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 Food. Group: Member Posts: 667 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,545 |
I would try to work it out and talk about it.
Or I'd maybe avoid him, see what he does.. and if he doesn't come back for me, it would show that I was nothing to him, I guess. 
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Dec 29 2005, 06:19 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
If he cheats, then man.
Our relationship is over. What sucks is that usually I really care for the guy, so I don't want it to end. But how could it be the same after him cheating on me? nah, I would dump him. I mean, alot of tears would be involved, but if he can't respect me, then he's gotta go. |
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