What can I do?, he's wants different things |
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 Nov 25 2005, 06:52 PM
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Ok. Here's this guy that I used to like, and still like him a LOT. So a long time ago he asked me who I like, and I told him. So he knew.
NOW, I found out that he used to like me...and it was probably the same time when he knew I like him. And well, back then he did nothing. The problem is, he tells everyone he doesn't like anyone now. I don't know if he's lying, and I don't know what I can do. I really really really like him. But all he does is wank over me in class. I'm not kidding. It sounds effing gay but it's true I've seen him doing it, and his bestfriend said he told him he wanks over me. He thinks of me as an object that turns him on for some reason. Do you think he likes me?? Or he just wants sex? I seriously need help  
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Nov 25 2005, 07:00 PM
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 Hello Group: Member Posts: 159 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 244,710 |
ask him if he still likes you, if he doesnt then forget about him there are other fish in the sea.
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Nov 25 2005, 07:22 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ Yes. Ask him. You seemed confident enough to tell him you liked him in the first place, so i think you wont have a problem asking him.
And if all he does is wank over you, and only sees you as a sexual stimulant or a sexual object, then hes not worth your time. |
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Nov 25 2005, 07:44 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
He's not worth it if all he thinks of you is as a sex object.
But, if you really like him, as him. Otherwise, there are better guys out there. |
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Nov 25 2005, 08:27 PM
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I agree with everyone else. You told him you liked him, why not go ahead and ask him if he feels the same. What do you have to lose?
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Nov 25 2005, 11:04 PM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
sounds like both. but wank? lmao thats a new word teehee. well maybe hes a little confused lol he may have liked you but doesnt know now...boys aer effen confusing. im glad we have threads like these :]
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Nov 26 2005, 09:07 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
ask him, that's the only way you're going to find out the truth.
but if he's only looking at you as a sexual stimulant then he's definately not worth your time |
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Nov 26 2005, 12:49 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
If you KNOW that he ummm wanks? over you in class...then the answer should be obvious...he seems to typical.
You need a guy that stands out to you most, and gives you comfort ; not a guy that leaves you in question, which is why you're making this post. LHHRS Kevyn @-)------ |
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Nov 27 2005, 12:30 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,446 |
^Damn right. If you're so confused about it, let it sit. Either he's not for you, or he'll mature and change... and then he'll make more sense.
I mean, if he's whackin off to ya in class, don't even try at all, back off this guy until he does something about his preteen hormones kicking in. =P |
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Nov 27 2005, 02:21 AM
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 what do you think it says....if so obvious. Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
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^ ^ it is the preteen hormoes kicking in. its all up to you really . if he really does like you i suggest to give him a year or 2 and when hes mature enough so he will be able to restrain himself . |
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Nov 27 2005, 02:24 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
he wanks over you IN CLASS? sorry, that disturbed me a bit.
it sounds like he just lusts over you. and if that's all it is? then i'm sorry, but he's definately not worth it. |
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