Dates, Which do you prefer? |
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 Nov 24 2005, 09:08 PM
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 tk prt yr hd  Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,330  |
Do you prefer a date where you go to the mall and movies or something similar, or a date where you guys hang around out and maybe just take a walk?
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Nov 24 2005, 09:14 PM
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I'm not a big fan of movie dates or anything - you can't really talk to the person, you're too focused on the movie. You don't really get to know them as well as you could on another date, like a long walk or something sweet like that.
Wow, those felt like really long sentences. 
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Nov 24 2005, 09:15 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
personally, i think that when you just go to the mall, that's not a real date...that's just going to buy something.
a date is something that should just be you and your date, unless it's a group date but then again that's not really a date. you should probably go see a movie and then take a walk around...but i'd prefer to just hang out, i like the alone thing. |
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Nov 24 2005, 09:48 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, I would rather prefer just hanging out with him, walking around and talking.
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Nov 24 2005, 10:22 PM
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 Oh the insanity! Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,302 |
Hmmmmmm. Personally, I don't like the artificiality of a 'date' much.
It depends on how well you know a person. With my boyfriend, an ideal date is just staying in and I cook him a delicious meal :) |
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Nov 25 2005, 01:30 AM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
QUOTE(cookieskater2 @ Nov 24 2005, 10:08 PM) Do you prefer a date where you go to the mall and movies or something similar, or a date where you guys hang around out and maybe just take a walk?  well isn't going to tha mall or movies tha same thing as hanging out and just taking a walk? cuz when ur at tha mall ur mostly walking around hanging out, and at tha movies, well...ur just i guess hangin out. but i'd rather prefer a date where we are just hanging out together and just having fUN! 
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Nov 25 2005, 01:48 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Walking and Talking. Or anything else that might happen. Lol Jk.
I would prefer that so i could actually get to know him as a person. Not as just my boyfriend who i go to the movies with. |
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Nov 25 2005, 07:52 AM
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watching a movie after that walk around, spend some alone time together
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Nov 25 2005, 10:47 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Dinner, movie, walk in the park?
Or go to a beach and stare at the sunset or something. That'd be nice. Kind of depends though. I wouldn't like to do it with someone boring and uptight with nothing to talk about. Maybe with someone funny and something to talk about. |
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Nov 25 2005, 11:03 AM
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 ][»hottiebheibi«][ Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 220,763 |
if i can do all of it in one dates.... i mean stroll at the mall, catch the latest movie, then walk some place quiet then talked... that would be a perfect date for me...
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Nov 25 2005, 11:05 AM
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][»hottiebheibi«][ Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 220,763 |
i mean date....
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Nov 25 2005, 11:23 AM
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I'd rather go for the kind where you just hang out. If you're too focused in the movie, then that's not really a date is it?
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Nov 25 2005, 11:49 AM
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i think its best, cause you cant miss what you forget Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 294,893 |
I think that just hanging out is a lot easier...theres not so much pressure on the date if you're nervous, and plus movie dates are not really that great if you want to talk and you're just getting to know each other. I wouldn't go to the movies with a guy until I was comfortable enough with him to do that.
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Nov 25 2005, 01:01 PM
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tk prt yr hd Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,330 |
Like, do you care if it's a date where he would spend money on you, or is his company enough :P
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Nov 25 2005, 02:29 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
Hmmm when I'm with my girlfriend we don't need to spend much money, our company together is enough. We spend when we absolutely NEED to, and I think it's dissapointing that a relationship has to have money involved.
We watch a movie when we need to, though we don't focus on the movie that much (If you get my drift...), everywhere we go we're in a spotlight, on stage. Everyone else is in the dark. (Except our closest friends of course.) Money issues are a teenage thing ; however girls are different. I test a girl to see if she can appreciate me for who I am rather than my wallet or the car I drive, looks, etc. etc. True love doesn't mean true spending. Some girls will appreciate you for you, while most will expect too much out of you. Those girls need to grow up. The greatest things that are spent in our dates / relationship is time, patience and love. LHHRS Kevyn @-)-------- |
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Nov 26 2005, 07:57 PM
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a little bit of both works for me
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Nov 26 2005, 08:13 PM
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 You'll find me in your dreams. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,536 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,010 |
A crappy movie. Oh man... Stealth was so much fun! =3
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Nov 26 2005, 11:12 PM
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 live life to the fullest <3 Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,474 |
I would watch a movie than walk around and talk and stuff
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Nov 26 2005, 11:13 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
i would just rather be hanging out in their room or something. it's more relaxed and more intimate, you know? actual dates can be fun when you're going as a couple, but before that it's nice just to hang out.
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Nov 26 2005, 11:47 PM
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I think the perfect date would be sitting on the couch at one of your house's and watching a movie, cuddling and such. Nothing extravagant. Curl up with a blanket and some mac 'n cheese.
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Nov 27 2005, 03:10 AM
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Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
QUOTE(disco infiltrator @ Nov 26 2005, 11:47 PM) I think the perfect date would be sitting on the couch at one of your house's and watching a movie, cuddling and such. Nothing extravagant. Curl up with a blanket and some mac 'n cheese. My girlfriends' words right there...kudos to you...that is my perfect date... ...though I don't know about Mac N' Cheese..my cooking is so horrible...especially for a mixed Japanese guy..O_O! I always ahve to tell her "I'm too lazy to cook Mac N' Cheese" or, "I'm an athlete not a damn chef!" *sigh* if only I could cook...O_O! I think the key word in that phrase was "Nothing extravagant..." if your partner can appreciate nothing extravagant, you have truly found someone special. Nothing extravagant are exactly how my dates are...well most of them at least. ^_____^. LHHRS Kevyn @-)------- |
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