What if..., ur bf/gf cheated |
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 Nov 24 2005, 01:31 AM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate  Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959  |
what would u do if ur bf/gf cheated or u caught them cheating, wut would u do?
if that happened to be...i would kILL EM' haha jk! but i really wouldn't kno wut i would do, i'd be heaRt broken, especially if i really caRed about them. soo i'd probably would brake up with hiM. |
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Nov 24 2005, 05:13 AM
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 Flirtation=Attention with Intention Group: Member Posts: 206 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 276,209 |
I would break up with him. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
I don't know if I would still be able to trust him. I wouldn't want to end up getting hurt if he cheated on me again  Knowing that your boyfriend has been with another girl, its like "what has she got that I haven't"?
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Nov 24 2005, 07:30 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i'd break it off with him right after i find out he cheated on me.
agreed. once a cheater always a cheater |
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Nov 24 2005, 09:17 AM
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 omgah_itsmaggiex=new username. Group: Member Posts: 785 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,467 |
id break up. i wouldnt exactly.."kill" him, haha. but id still talk to him after we worked out all our issues.
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Nov 24 2005, 09:33 AM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
i would take him back.
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Nov 24 2005, 09:34 AM
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kill them....in my mind.
break up with them, of course. |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Nov 24 2005, 10:56 AM
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Well, it depends what the cheaters reaction is. If he tells me, and he's crying, begging, in tears. I'll probably work it out with him. I have to admit, I'd probably lose a lot of trust in him. But not enough to not talk to him anymore.
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Nov 24 2005, 10:56 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
break up fo sho.
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Nov 24 2005, 12:30 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Nov 24 2005, 10:56 AM) Well, it depends what the cheaters reaction is. If he tells me, and he's crying, begging, in tears. I'll probably work it out with him. I have to admit, I'd probably lose a lot of trust in him. But not enough to not talk to him anymore.  i saw this talk show and this guy told his wife that he cheated on her like 20+ times and he was crying and begging her to take him back but then awhile later he took her back onto the show and admitted that he kept cheating with more women. i think he took her on like 3 times. i believe in "once a cheater always a cheater." if they did it once what's going to stop them from doing it again? after that, i get my answers and go. people like that aren't worth it. |
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Nov 24 2005, 12:44 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
ide be hurt , break up with them, and try not to talk to them as much as i can, and when im around that person ide act like "we" never happened, your pretty much erased from my memory.
If you got the nerve to cheat on me then ill be an even bigger ass and pretend i dont know you. ;] but im just saying that i think ide just dump em and ignore them for the longest time and end up having some friends with benafits thingy later on and then when i get bored ill just slowly not talk to them agian hehe |
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Nov 24 2005, 01:59 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
I really, really think it depends on the situation and the person whom you're dating. You might say now, "Oh, I'd break up with them and never talk to them again" but I'm guessing that once in that situation and it's like the love of your life, you might have a change of heart.
Once a cheater, always a cheater is not true. I know. At least not with everyone. You shouldn't make such an absolute statement. |
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Nov 24 2005, 02:01 PM
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 Resident Jerk. Is Wade. Respond to PM's! Group: Member Posts: 344 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,510 |
Break up with them and never speak to them again?
They're just a girlfriend. I can live without them if they want to find "love" elsewhere. |
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Nov 24 2005, 05:03 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(M1SSxCHR1SSY @ Nov 24 2005, 12:59 PM) I really, really think it depends on the situation and the person whom you're dating. You might say now, "Oh, I'd break up with them and never talk to them again" but I'm guessing that once in that situation and it's like the love of your life, you might have a change of heart. Once a cheater, always a cheater is not true. I know. At least not with everyone. You shouldn't make such an absolute statement. Agreed. My boyfriend cheated on me this summer and I always said "If you ever cheat, I will break up with you." Alas, 5 months later, I am still with him. I could not break up with him, I love him with all my heart and I know he completely regrets it. While it does take a lot of work to stay with the person and it takes a lot of strength to get your faith back in the person, it can be worth it. Ps- Learn how to type, please. |
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Nov 24 2005, 05:27 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
I think it depends on the situation and stuff and what he did by cheating and how he feels. If it's evident that he regrets cheating, then I would probably take him back. If he kiss another girl, then I would lose a lot of trust, but I would probably not be able to break it off since I love him so much. However, if he slept with another woman, then it'll probably be over for a couple of months so I can just analyze my feelings and stuff. And, what he does during those months will determine if we'll get back together or not...
But no matter what, I would definitely lose a lot of trust in him and wonder what about me caused him to stray. |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Nov 24 2005, 06:47 PM
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Break up.
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Nov 24 2005, 07:20 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Break up and stay friends.
Depending on the situation i would try to work it out and get back together. |
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Nov 25 2005, 01:08 AM
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break up with them on the spot + never talk to them. Cheating is the worst thing you can do in a relationship. The End
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| *stephinika* |
Nov 25 2005, 01:31 AM
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definitely break up with him. cheating is the worst thing you can do in a relationship.
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Nov 25 2005, 01:35 AM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
I'm gonna kill that son of a bitch! And yet everyone cheats on me.
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Nov 26 2005, 11:46 AM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Ya'll say that you would break up with them, but believe me, it is hard.
It really depends on the a)extent of the cheating and b)the intensity/realness/intimate-ness of your relationship. |
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Nov 26 2005, 12:40 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
Trust is such a big issue in my relationships (Infact it's what it strives on) and what not, so if she cheated.....she's out the door.
LHHRS Kevyn @-)------- |
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Nov 27 2005, 04:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
yea once a cheater always a cheater.. especially if they cheat in a really seroius relationships. especially a divorce. no excuses
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Nov 27 2005, 05:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
depends who he cheated with
but in general break up with them... or play some games of my own 
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Nov 27 2005, 05:25 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
if, by my definition of cheating, she cheats...
GRRRR. i'd be mad. i'd break up with her, probably. |
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Nov 27 2005, 07:09 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I would kick his ass, then I would find the *other b!tch* and kick her ass, then I would break up wit him and move on.
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