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 november 25th,, <3  Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226  |
well see, my boyfriend & i seem to have a perfect relationship its scarry. if i do something wrong, hes never ever mad at me but shouldnt i be happy that we`re so great? but i know nothings perfect and im scared somethings going to happen thats bad. is that just me being paranoid?
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Nov 22 2005, 06:04 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
I don't know, try not to do things that might make him mad or talk to him about it
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Nov 22 2005, 06:10 PM
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november 25th,, <3 Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226 |
QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Nov 22 2005, 6:04 PM) I don't know, try not to do things that might make him mad or talk to him about it  oh no i dont usually that was just an example.. |
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Nov 22 2005, 06:40 PM
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i use to feel like that
i don't mean to kill your mood but i didnt find out until later that my ex was just keeping it in all of the times i was being stupid. -__-" but hey, your guy might be different. i never got mad when he did stupid stuff. well only for a little but then i was fine. it's alright to be a little scared. just try your best to keep him happy ;] |
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Nov 22 2005, 06:44 PM
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it seems like he trusts you
you're afraid to lose this perfect relationship, so just.....don't do anythign stupid but since you have a great relationship....try not to take advantages |
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Nov 22 2005, 07:14 PM
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i think its best, cause you cant miss what you forget Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 294,893 |
i think you should just enjoy the moment while you're in it...relax. :)
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Nov 22 2005, 07:46 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, just enjoy it and try not to take advantage of it. Maybe, he's just storing his anger or whatever and if something huge happens, it'll all blow over.
I don't want to be mean or anything, but that doesn't exactly sound like a healthy relationship. Healthy relationships have fights and then build on the fights to make it better and improve. But then again, maybe you two just are really good at not getting angry at each other... |
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Nov 22 2005, 09:29 PM
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that's so sweet don't even worry about it. you guys just have a really good relationship...
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Nov 22 2005, 09:46 PM
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just let it flow.
a lot of people are self conscience about the future, but live in the here and now. itll make your relationship a lot stronger and youll be happier. |
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Nov 22 2005, 10:07 PM
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nah, hes probalby getting annoyed but is holding it in and bitchin to his friends about it. yeah ask around. if you've done a lot of things wrong, the soon is near.
btw i thought the topic title was " Perfect tits " |
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Nov 22 2005, 10:46 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I'm not sure how to answer your question, but I have a bit of advice: Don't take things too far. Just because he doesn't get angry with you when you do something he would consider wrong right now doesn't mean it won't happen in the future. I guess my point is to not take advantage of the peak in your relationship right now.
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Nov 22 2005, 11:26 PM
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i've given everything ... Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,912 |
maybe its because u have everything like perfect and ur afraid to lose it all ?
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Nov 23 2005, 06:27 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
don't take advantage of that, be happy that you have such a great bf.
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Nov 23 2005, 08:44 AM
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No problems doesn't really mean that the relationship is a good one. In a healthy relationship, you have to be able to talk to each other and tell one another what bothers you. Don't be scared though. Just make sure he knows that if he wants to talk to you about something that bothers/angers him with you or anthing that you'll be there to listen. That way it doesn't build up inside of him.
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Nov 23 2005, 03:42 PM
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november 25th,, <3 Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226 |
thankkk youu <3
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Nov 23 2005, 03:52 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
Yup you're being paranoid. Just relax and have fun.
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Nov 23 2005, 05:45 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Nov 23 2005, 3:52 PM) Yup you're being paranoid. Just relax and have fun. was going to say that...hahaha  don't worry so much...that just ruins it..try not to think about it 
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Nov 23 2005, 06:34 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Nov 23 2005, 5:45 PM) was going to say that...hahaha don't worry so much...that just ruins it..try not to think about it YEAH! wwearrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrd |
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Nov 23 2005, 06:38 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
this is called having doubts. you should really stop being paranoid and just love the way its going, things like this can kill a relationship, just stop thinking and experience it
p.s. and the only thing u can really do to f**k up a relationship is you can cheat on him or lie to him about something serious. if you do do one of those things u should be dumped, other than that...stop trippin ><; |
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Nov 23 2005, 07:05 PM
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Don't think so negative. You have to be positive about your relationship. That its perfect. Treat him like a king and nothing will go wrong.
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Nov 24 2005, 12:46 AM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
whoa whoa u cant spoil ur boyfriend are u nuts, they he will get all confortable, pay less attention to you and stop doing things because he knows he has u in a bag and that will be bad on ur end :O
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Nov 24 2005, 12:46 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
^totally agree
Doubting him...could lead to a breakup. I did that with my ex, and needless to say, he broke it off with me. It just seemed a bit too perfect you know? I liked him, he liked me back, we went out, never had a fight, he was always treating me like a princess, and although I absolutely ADORED the attention, I always doubted. Doubted his love for me, doubted whether or not he saw the relationship seriously, and forever asking these doubting questions to him. And after a month of going out, we broke it off. And we're not speaking now...even though it's been well over a year. Advice: just enjoy the ride. |
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Nov 24 2005, 09:27 AM
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 ][»hottiebheibi«][ Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 220,763 |
hmmnnn... why do you want him to get angry @ you??? lol... maybe he's hurt but he don't want you to see it and he have other ways to get over it.... a person doesn't have to get that "mad" over something just because his hurt... but still, don't take "he bein' silent and all" for granted for he might just explode... you know what i mean...
and stop trippin' |
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Dec 11 2005, 02:07 AM
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just be grateful that you're not crying your eyes out and he's not yelling or screaming at you.
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Dec 11 2005, 02:24 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
You know, healthy relationships always has some arguing and fights involved. Also, there should be emotional stuff.
It could be that he's bottling up his anger? I mean, there were times where it seemed like my boyfriend would drop things and not be angry, but then later it kinda blew up. I remember him yelling at me and I was reallllly depressed. Or if he's toooo easy going and lets things go, it might mean that he's too focused on having everything perfect that he doesn't realize that relationships need arguming because it will make the bond stronger. It's nice to have an easy-going guy, but then what if you really want his input? I know I got reallllly irritated when my boyfriend doesn't argue back or try to defend himself. Like I said, fighting/arguments have the potential to create a better relationship. That way, both of you can figure out the rights and wrongs, so that next time, you'll be able to do things better. :] Love is about acceptance, but not to the point where it might slip to carelessness. Do you get my point? The kinder he is, it's going to hurt 1000x more when he actually DOES get angry. It's because you won't be prepared for the controversy, thus causing you to potentially have a nervous breakdown. I know I did.. 
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