Love At Our Age?, Young love |
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Love At Our Age?, Young love |
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#51
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I don't think that you could be too young to fall in love, I think it is based on too young to handle love. Love is serious, it takes time, energy, work, dedication, etc. Love can hurt you just as bad as it feels good. It can emotionally break you down. and having love do that to you at a tender-age can be awkward and awful. You may develop self-esteem issues, trust issues, etc. Stay young, live life to the fullest and don't get wrinkles too early from worrying too much.
P.S. This is coming from a 24 yrs old. |
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#52
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QUOTE(kykip @ Nov 22 2005, 12:56 PM) Stay young, live life to the fullest and don't get wrinkles too early from worrying too much. ^ That made me laughP.S. This is coming from a 24 yrs old. QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Nov 22 2005, 10:42 AM) I'm sorry but that "mushy love crap" is what some people live for.
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#53
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i've given everything ... ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,912 ![]() |
im truly in love and im 13 but im really serious about it ...
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#54
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![]() november 25th,, <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226 ![]() |
love is possible for the old & young
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I don't think love should be determined by age. Some people are more mature than others. And I know true love is out there somewhere, despite the age.
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#56
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 ![]() |
People judge young kids' capability to fall in love. A lot of them said in this topic there should be no age limmit, but damn they're so hypocritical (i'm one of them)
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#57
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I think we all make up our own definition of love. Everyone is different so love is going to have different meaning to them. & don't rely on what the dictionary says b/c it's not like the dictionary has ever felt love. It can't relate to what your feeling. So I wrote a paper about love & guess what?. While I was writing it I kept thinking how many times people have told me I am to young to be in love. If I think my I'm in love I am in love there's no point to it it's not strong liking. I love them I can't get them out of my head. I will never forget them. I want to marry them. I would die if I had to live w/o them!. My world would be incomplete with out them. I'm jusst infatuated w/ there pressence, there smile, there eyes, there remarkable beauty!..& how every word he says seems to be the right ones!. Oh how I'm so deeply in love & how I lose my train of thought everytime I speak!.
Just like Ciara. & I think this might be love. this could be l.o.v.e |
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#58
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anyone can love, at any age... but the seriousness and matureness all vary 'cause usually the older you are, the more you understand and from this understanding, you can love harder.
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#59
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i think it has to DEPEND on what age you are.. i mean it matters on how mature & serious about loving somebody... people mistaken love for just being attracted to the person, or liking how they look [apperence wise] but its not ONLY that...
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#60
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i feel the same way.
just cus im young, doesnt mean that i cant fall in love n knowin the true meanin of it. |
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#61
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#62
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I gave you everything ... ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,433 ![]() |
im 12 people don't trust me at all its so gay, ive used my computer since i was 8 i can type the fastest in my family. and i do know about love/sex and i am in love =]
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#63
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I suppose its possible, but at that age its usually your firt crush and you know how that is, whn its you're first crush you don't just like them, you lo-ove them.
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#64
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CHYEAAHHH MAN ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 ![]() |
QUOTE(davexd @ Dec 27 2005, 2:06 AM) im 12 people don't trust me at all its so gay, ive used my computer since i was 8 i can type the fastest in my family. and i do know about love/sex and i am in love =] A situation cannot be homosexual, and I don't think your using it in terms of "happy". What does being able to type fast or you using the computer since you were 8 have to do with anything? |
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QUOTE(davexd @ Dec 27 2005, 12:06 AM) im 12 people don't trust me at all its so gay, ive used my computer since i was 8 i can type the fastest in my family. and i do know about love/sex and i am in love =] wow talk about irrelevant. you're not proving your point there--knowing about love--if you can't even adequately read & answer a thread. |
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#66
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I don't think it's a case of a thirteen year old being too 'dumb' to know what love is, simply that love is an emotion and one of the more complicated ones at that and I don't believe younger individuals have the emotional complexity to completely grasp the concept, let alone understand it. That isn't limiting love to an age, simply that a true realisation of love is more likely as one gets older, if only because love is life and life is love and one cannot know what love is without knowing what life is.
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#67
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i'm 13..and nothing is stupid or dumb to me. i can be truly in love..if i was that is.
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#68
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#69
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u can love young. Its just that young people tend to believe they are in love in about a week when they only like someone. Young people tend to be naive and believe anything is love but it is possible that youngNs can be in love.
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#70
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Nov 21 2005, 9:36 PM) Ok, I searched this and was just wondering people's opinion on this topic and I wasn't sure if this belonged in debate because this is more opinionated. Do you think that you can be young and still be truly in love or do they need age and experience to be in love? Some people think that just because someone is only 13 or something that what they feel isn't real love. I personally think that you can be young and in love because even though it is when hormones are developing and such, they still feel something and it is something. Just because they are young doesn't mean their feelings don't exist or they don't fully understand it because even old people don't understand it. haha, thats what i said when i was 13, then i turned 15, and said, man i was dumb when i was 13, then when i was 17, i thought, man i was dumb when i was 15, now im 20, and im thinking, damn, im gonna be stupid for the rest of my life. im not even gonna try. im not in love, that girl just really has an interesting personality. the end. when it happens, it happens, but dont go telling all your friends that your in love with him, cause then it just gets old when you fall in love with the next guy, yes it will happen. |
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#71
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ChiNk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 162,138 ![]() |
as said....love can't be determined by age....
My friend has been dating her boyfriend for like, 3 or 4 years, and she's only 13....and their 'love' story is so sad....and they've had TOO many ups and downs....but now they're dealing with a long-distance relationship right now.. |
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#72
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QUOTE(Chii @ Nov 21 2005, 7:22 PM) i think it's rare when someone young finds true love because usually they're just infatuated. you can truly be in love at any age, people mature at different times. I agree with that...there are some people I know that are clearly infatuated "OMGOMGOMG SO HOT AND NICE AND...." at 13 years old and those that aren't. |
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#73
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Nov 21 2005, 9:36 PM) Ok, I searched this and was just wondering people's opinion on this topic and I wasn't sure if this belonged in debate because this is more opinionated. Do you think that you can be young and still be truly in love or do they need age and experience to be in love? Some people think that just because someone is only 13 or something that what they feel isn't real love. I personally think that you can be young and in love because even though it is when hormones are developing and such, they still feel something and it is something. Just because they are young doesn't mean their feelings don't exist or they don't fully understand it because even old people don't understand it. I agree! Heck my mom met my dad at 8 and got married at 23...THIS COMING APRIL IS THEIR 29TH ANNIVERSARY! When I first saw this topic, I half expected it to be a pedophile-relationship-based-topic |
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#74
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This is my personal opinion on it, and even I too am learning how to apply this lesson to my life as I continue to age and grow. Looking back, I realize I was just like all those naive children who'd do anything to be "loved". Little did I know what love really was.
I don't know, but usually when I hear a young girl around the age of 12ish say they're madly in love with this guy who just said "Hi" to them for the first time, and now they feel some major butterflies floating around in their stomach, it makes me stop to wonder if they knew the correct meaning of love or not. Feel is the key word. There's a difference, I think, in saying "I feel like I'm in love with him/her" and saying "I love him/her". Feelings change apparently, so if you treat something as valuable as love like it's fickle, does that mean you only "love" that certain someone on select days? My point is, you're not always going to be happy. You won't always feel down and depressed. And (hopefully) you won't always feel like blowing up the world. I think love is more of a commitment. Dedication. It's a promise that you're going to take care of them when they are sick or hurt, or when they feel like no one listens to them and need someone to talk to. You may not "like" that person you choose to care for one day, or maybe a few days at most, but you'll always "love" them. |
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#75
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I feel in love at 14 (he was 15) and I'm still with my boyfriend. It's been 2 1/2 years now, and I can't picture my life without him. We talk about our future together, and it has always been just the two of us. We shared our first kiss together, and so many beautiful moments.
I don't think age has anything to do with love, but for most people it's the hormones...well, from what I have observed, LoL. |
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