Be my girlfriend please!, how do you like to be asked? Options

[Joss-eh-lime]

will you be my girlfriend gets to the point faster.
when a guy says will u go out with me does he mean on a date? i dunno i just like the first one better.

[Kneuklid Romance]

I was just wondering, because I tried asking all the girls in my school and most of them said that they rather be asked "Will you be my girlfriend"

A 20 year old guy's perspective on this.

Sounds like either middle school or high school talk right there...very juvenile and inexperienced.

I suppose we all have to start somewhere, right? ^______^.

You should have put an option on the poll for "none of the above" because that's not how I've asked my dates. In fact I didn't start dating until I was 17.

I never asked that question because I could simply tell by the way the girl was acting if she was into me that way or not...to use as a hook-up tool, or a serious relationship material.

But if I should ask someone I would ask her "are you as serious about this as I am?"

Ironically I never even asked that either because we both knew what we needed.

when a guy says will u go out with me does he mean on a date?

over half of the time yes ^_^. I've heard that line before from others.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)--------

[o0olaalaa]

its good to be straight forword =)

[Oranite]

"Will you go out with me?" Seems more like you're asking her on a date; not really you two exclusively together and such.
"Will you be my girlfriend?" Leaves no room for confusion on what you're asking; it's clear that you'd like her to be your girlfriend.

So if you would like a girl to be your girlfriend, I'd say ask "Will you be my girlfriend?" instead. If you're looking more for less attachment and labels and more for just dating, then ask, "Will you go out with me?"

Yea asking "will you go out with me?" sounds more like a date. Then then asking someone to be your girlfriend...

[RETROBLEND]

i like `Will you be my girlfriend?' better, because its more.. direct. it doesn`t keep me wondering. if some guy asked me out, it could mean he just wants to hang out, not to be my boyfriend.

[melomelo]

Be my girldfriend seems forward.
Will you go out with me is better.
But you should be specific.
Eg. "Oh would you like to go out with me on saturday night? [Movie name here] is playing at 7..?"

[Animeloverhk93]

none!! lol but if one asked me i would just like it if he just kissed me instead =P

[Just_Dream]

I like the second one better because it's no official. I agree, it's kind of like.. testing out the relationship. Plus, it's a more subtle way than the first. The first seems a little.. Bleh. Like "will you be my girlfriend?" like it's just a title. That's how I see it. Does that make any sense? =X

[xangelkissesx]

It depends on the situation. If we've only been dating for a while then "will you be my girlfriend?" sounds more appropiate. But if its the first time we're dating then "will you go out with me?" sounds better. I think dating should come before the girlfriend part. At least you know you're taking the relationship to a next level.

[*swtcherriipie*]

Hmmm.... very inresting question.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I don't really care how they ask....

Same with me.

[jeSs1cA]

aww.. "will you be my girlfriend?" is so cuutee

[mrcoolcat]

Think they mean different thing's

Personally I think "will you go out with me" sounds cooler

[lilnatcat]

My bf and I became official 2day after i finished my last exam........
I did wonder how he'd ask.
It turned out to be "will you go out with me?"....... eventhough I was hoping for "will you be my girlfriend?" oh well~ ^_^

[Aoiro]

I'd rather them say, "Will you go out with me?"
Seems less foward.
But depending on the moment, the tension, and all.
I migth accept the other way.

[hiiyas]

i like "will you be my girlfriend". i dont get the whole "will you go out with me".
its like...."okay dude. where we goin'?" although guys do like to beat around the bush.

[mzbbc]

"will you go out with me." as long as he has confidence then i will probably fall for that, especially if he's sweet about it.

"hey beautiful let's go out. go out with me. please?"
yeaaa i love it like that.

[coconutter]

I just liked to be asked out like will you go out with me. If someone asked me out that formally I would definitly say yes :)

[Soleil]

Oh gosh on the poll i clicked the second one but i didnt think about it...i think now id rather have the first one asked to me.

[sense.n.style]

I think "Will you be my girlfriend?" sounds a lot cuter, 'cause it's nice knowing that someone wants you to be their girlfriend.

definetly

[xhidethedetails]

I like "will you go out with me".

[mz sneaky]

people from my middle school used to say "wanna git wit me? " sounds soo dumb. ><

but will you be my girlfriend sounds soo cute! =]

[parallel]

I prefer "Will you be my girlfriend" because if the guy asked "will you go out with me?" I'd be all "OH. WHERE TO?!"
So yah.

[smearedmakeup]

well, depends, because if you're "going out", it's kind of like just seeing each other, but you're not in a serious relationship as in boyfriend/girlfriend. that kind of thing, but that's just the way i see it.
so i would have a guy ask me out, if i like him, then yeah, i'd move to the next step. (boyfriend/girlfriend)

[NgocQuyen]

i uhh..dont really know...lols i voted for will you go out with me... that way i don't get all freaked out because the word "girlfriend" makes me think of "relationship" then.."commitment" hahaha...yeah i'm weird... but to tell you the truth...i really don't like either of them...