A Bit of a Problem, Advice...please |
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 Nov 23 2005, 09:57 AM
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 b r o k e n ON t h e INSIDE  Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,500  |
Well there is this guy I met last year, I was in the 9th grade and he was in the 10th. We had first period together and we would talk afterwards and stuff, which was alright. And I liked him. So he doesn't know...I don't think. Anyway we're good friends this year but in the middle of last year he started talking to another girl, and I felt left behind but when he started his fall sport I would wait for him after school and he would walk me to the bus stop and stuff and we would talk and joke around. Now this year we still talk and do that same stuff now but it seems like the girl he talked to last year, well they're going out. But my friends think that he likes me...because sometimes he goes out of his way to do things for me and stuff.
I'm a bit confused and I know my story might sound a bit confusing as well. But if you have any advice can you please give me some. I'm so lost here and I need more than just my friends to help me out right now. |
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Nov 23 2005, 10:06 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
He might have some feelings for you, but he could be trying to work out his current relationship. Or he could just be being a really good friend. I wouldn't act on anything since he's going out with this girl though. But if something were to happen between them, you could be there in support and after he's had time to recover, you could tell him your feelings.
2 questions- how long have they been going out and in your opinion, how is their relationship? (ex.-strong, bumpy, distant, etc) |
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Nov 23 2005, 10:42 AM
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 ][»hottiebheibi«][ Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 220,763 |
hmmnnn... it's a tough one... yes, very confusing.... but eneweiz as i view it... i don't think he likes you more than friend... i think he only like you as a best friend or a 'lil sis... 'coz going out of his way and doing things for you doesn't mean he already love you...
honey, there are so many things a man need to prove to do or say he likes / love a certain girl.... sorry for bein so straight but you ask for help... and your still young... btw, what is the grade of the girl he's been goin' out with?? is she the same grade as you are?[COLOR=blue][SIZE=1] |
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Nov 23 2005, 10:42 AM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
it really sounds like the two of you are just close friends. he probably doesn't see it differently, because he is going out with somebody else.
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Nov 23 2005, 05:09 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
let him get though his current relationship first. maybe he sees you as a good friend and nothing more.
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Nov 23 2005, 05:34 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i think he might like you, but if i were you i wouldn't interfere with him and his current girlfriend. i would just remain friends with him. he might consider you an extremely good friend if his current relationship lasts...but if not...you guys might hit it off...ya never know..ya never know...
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Dec 11 2005, 02:38 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
since like he already asked the other girl out, he might not like you just as much... but maybe still likes to talk to you?
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