i like a boy, but... Options

[xMAXXxMAXXxBABYx]

so basicaly i like this boy. but i dont know if he knows i even EXIST. which is pretty sad. okay. i know its a crush. but he has to know i exist because i have every class with him. and i sit 5 people away from him at lunch. just we never talk. should i go up to talk to him or wait for him to talk o me. i dont want to feel like a complete loser. so what do i do?

[sheepy]

of course you randomly go up to him and start talking :]
just introduce yourself and say you're in my _____ class or bring a friend with you who you know knows him.

[_sarcastic_]

you should definately go up and talk to him, get to know him more than you do now.

[pinayprincess]

like this one girl on the message boards used to say ; COMMUNICATION lol

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Well if he doesn't know that you exist. Let him know, that you do. Go up to him, strike up a conversation or if not. Ask to borrow a pencil.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^2x.
Whatever happened to her ? Lol

I suggest you talk to him :D

[mzbbc]

talk to him. even start a joke argument if you're nervous. play fighting sometimes is easier than actual conversations.

[sprezzatura]

Strike a conversation and get acquainted with each other, then ask for his sn, phone number, etc.

[shesnothxc]

if you're really nervous you could just start with smiling when you see him or acting like your interested in talking before you actually talk. that way theres always a chance that he'll talk first.

[NgocQuyen]

lols awwhs!! how cutee...hehehe well i would extremely suggest just talking to him....talk about anything..lols...just be yourself, im sure you can do it

[sense.n.style]

start randomly saying hi to him or something n get closer i guess... dont wait for him, take action!

[coconutter]

Talk really loud around your friends. Always works for me :)

[xMAXXxMAXXxBABYx]

okay tommorow ill try talking to him and reply with what he says
and maybe ill go with asking for a pencil....
haha

<33Maxx
you guys are great

[*mipadi*]

Say hi.

[seremela_culnamo]

I was in a similiar situation as you earlier this year. My crush, I never talked to him and he was new to the school last year. Last year, his locker was only like 3 away from mines and he was in my chemistry class. But I didn't want to seem like a dumbass to go up to him and ask him for help (he was the smart one in the class).

So I guess you should strike up a conversation of any sort. Or like me, the first few times I started talking to my crush earlier this school year, I got the opportunity to do so by hanging around with the people he usually talks to in class. That way, when stupid things happen or whatsoever, it's just for fun and you wouldn't embarass yourself in any way. I still do this, even though we're friends and my friend and I moved to the back. So now he sits right beside the aisle from me. Lol. But yea. Don't worry to strike up any conversation and it's definately easier when there are people there (but not with those who know you like him! it's so embarrassing ). Or if you know something that he likes and you two are both interested in it, pretend that you don't know that he likes it and mention about it, loud enough or in front of him to a friend of yours. He will likely try to get involved in the conversation. My crush and I are totally like that. We have the same favourite television shows, the same colour, can understand each another about life at home with annoying younger siblings and et cetera. Just to give you a few ideas

& I'm pretty sure that he should know that you exist. But it all depends on how observant he is I guess. Like one of the twins at my school, I was in his chemistry class last year, too. Or was it his twin? I dunno. But yea, he thought I was new to the school this year because we never had classes, talked, or have the same group of friends. But for my crush, he actually knew I existed! Lol. I only knew because we were talking about something, and I mentioned about him being in my class last year. & he said he remembers me in the class, too. Haha. Kinda awkward when he said that he knew about when (which period and semester) I had parenting when we didn't even know each another and it wasn't the same semester we had chemistry last year! Meh. Either he heard me saying about the course or one of the dudes in the class told him, even though I didn't know any of the four dudes from that class except for one.

Hope my advices work!

[Shahin]

Don't feel weird. One thing some females gotta know is that guys LOVE it when random girls come up and start talking to us. Just go up and say hi, you've seen him around. He's bound to know who you are, I know everyone I hang around with, whether I talk to them or not. If you sit 5 people away from him, are in 5 of his classes, don't worry - he knows ya.

[topsyturvy]

Talk really loud around your friends.  Always works for me :)

^ HAHAHA. Works for me too ;] But you have to shoot occasional glances at him and grin.

Like seremela_culnamo said, he know's you're alive. I promise. How can someone possibly be in the same class as someone else and not know they exist? Maybe he just doesn't pay much attention to you, but he knows you're there. Now all you gotta do is GET the attention (refer to all posts up there ^ for advice on that)

[NyCaZnShOrtAii]

confront him before you lose him!

[Bluefuzzyelf]

you have like everyclass with him. ask for some homework help?

[sheddingtears]

since you have a lot of classes with him, he's bound to know your existence... and there's gonna be group projects, or there's a really lame teacher you guys have that you can talk about, and so forth. use these opportunities to yeah, get to know him :)

[d0t0rg]

Ask him for a paper or pencil. Or a, "(Giggle) Umm.. do you have a piece of gum? ^_^"