8 years gone Options

[DownerDog9955]

Just a random rant, I was with this woman for 8 years, I'm 23 and so is she. Now she left me for someone who see met online two months ago and will be moving in with him in time for christmas. Im torn with my feelings, I just want to confince her to stay with me, while I also never want to see her agian. Anyone else have these kind of stories?

[topsyturvy]

No, fortunately not. I'm sorry about your situation

It seems like she's been cheating on you for a long time if suddenly she leaves you to move in with someone else.

I think you should stick to not seeing her again. She's not worth your time and affection.

[ceara cecilyrose]

:(
I don't know either you or her to make value judgements but I do think that if she's moving in with someone else, it's definitely over between you two. If she does stay with you, you'll still know that she was looking elsewhere and there's no guarantee that she wouldn't agan.

Perhaps you both have changed a lot as people since you've been together. Fifteen is very young.

After being together for so long, I can only imagine the pain you must be in and only you can make the decision to either move on or continue to try to get her back.

How do you feel about wanting her back?
How do you feel about never seeing her again, or at least of distancing yourself?

[_sarcastic_]

she's definately not worth your time, you've been with her 8 years and now she's leaving you and moving in with someone she met 2 months ago.

[misoshiru]

^ exactly. or "supposedly" met 2 months ago.

if she did this to you once, and you took her back, she could do it again.

[Kneuklid Romance]

.....damn I don't have any tragic love stories to date.. O_O

But after reading that..

..here's my question, she's 23 and leaving you for someone she met online?? You could definitely do better than that, and find a 23 year old that's MATURE and will go for someone real and genuine. She's 23 and acting like a teenager ; you can do better ^_____^.

That's just moronic on her part.

Here's my advice to you to try to win fair ladies' heart. What I would do is reminisce about ALL of the good times you've had together (Pictures, dinners, parent meetings, etc. etc.) it will definitely rekindle memories and sometimes in the long run memories are all a relationship needs to get the old flame back.

Good luck..

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)-------

[quinntastic]

You can't beat yourself up over someone else's stupidity. Pining for her is not going to help you get over the relationship. Get back to doing your own thing, and the right person will come along when you lease expect it. Obviously she's not broken up over the break up, and you shouldn't be either because if she really cared she would not have treated you like that.

[seremela_culnamo]

First thing first, I'm really sorry to hear about this. It makes all my "love" problems (under Subliminal Messages topic), seem like nothing.

Anyway, I know it will be hard to just forget about her. So yea. I hope you will eventually do. & you know what? I'm proud of you =D No offense to guys, but not a lot of guys would be as loyal as you are. Just telling from those at my school and such, anyway. The only other person I could think of, a male, who reminds me the most of how loyal you are, would be my..ermm..mom's brother..I think..family tree is way too huge..only met like 5% of them. Well that will be him since he married the daughter who graduated from University and they had been going at it ever since first year of high school or something.

Don't give up hope. There's a lot of girls out there who are single, too. & you know what? I know it sounds mean, but I hope your ex-girlfriend realizes her mistake. As long as she doesn't try to come running back to you, that is.