theres the guy.., isn't there always Options

[dontwalkaway]

i've got a complicated problem.
god where do i start,well me and this guy met over the internet,we spoke over it for ages,he was still hung up on his ex and me on mine and we were there for eachother,then he started saying he liked me more than a friend and wanted to meet,i thought why not? so we did but i didnt really feel anything for him he said he only felt as friends aswell,i also liked this other guy andy so wasnt really concentrating on anything else,anyway so was the guy, he was almost getting back with his ex,but it didnt work out and neither did me and andy.
so we went back to talking alot over the internet,another girl liked him but he told her no because he said he liked me.I didnt know how i felt and was also trying to get over someone else. Anyway we met again and i realised i didnt feel anything more than friends for him, but maybe i didnt give it a chance,anyway i had to tell him and he took it quite badly,then he went back to the girl who like him before she still liked him they met for the first time and she stayed round his even though it was only the first time they met they even started going out straight away and did some stuff while she stayed round,but then he had to stop,he said because all he could think of was me. But she has no idea and he says hes hurt her once and wont break up with her,but now i think i have feelings for him and he says he wants me not her. But he wont break up with her.so we're being'friends' he rings me every night and tells me he loves me,he says as a friend though,and he asks me how i feel and i dont know enough to tell him,but what difference would it make anyway? if hes staying with her
its so messed up.
hope that made sense.
people opions and help would maybe be helpful
thanks ox