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Love At Our Age?, Young love
babycarrot
post May 30 2005, 08:12 PM
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aw im happy for ya =) yeah i wouldn't appreciate what i have going for me now if i didnt go through the past relatipnship myself either.. wish u a great future together! =)

QUOTE(strwbrysensatns @ May 30 2005, 6:32 PM)
wow the exact same thing to me. It was my freshman year and even thou i was older he was WAY more mature and into diffrent things and he manipulated me so much, i didnt think i could live with out him. He would manipulate me and decieve me to do what he wanted, then make it think it was my fault. It was horrible. It got so bad my parents had to step up and do something, and i fought against that but now im so thankful they did. Now im with a guy that i truly love and that truly loves me. Im so happy and couldnt ask for more. We want to get married after highschool. Its so awsome. and i think if i wouldnt have gone through that other relationship i might not appreciate what i have now as much.
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post May 30 2005, 08:15 PM
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i believe it. just because we're young doesn't mean we're at all deprived of feeling true love. most adults underestimate it because they've had more experience with this whole "love" thing.
 
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post May 30 2005, 09:53 PM
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I think it's possible, but in this century, it doesn't turn out to be that way. But I guess if your relationship is that strong, enjoy it while it lasts and hopefully nothing will come in your way. My sibling's friend's older brother is around 13 years of age. Now he's in grade 8, but he's been with the same girl ever since grade 6. Incredible, eh? But at the same time, it's scary because the girl would constantly call the boy, invite him everywhere with her. His mom has been going nuts about it for 2 years and warned the girl, but she wouldn't give up. So yea. If it's true love, make sure whoever he is, wouldn't be as crazy at that girl I mentioned =]
 
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post May 31 2005, 08:05 PM
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you still have a while to go. you still might have not met "the one". just wait and see.
 
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post May 31 2005, 09:14 PM
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Well my friend's parents met waay back in the day. Like around 15, and they ended up getting married. But see I'm sure there were a few break-ups in between. I saw the test of "true love" will come when the problems arise. And if you can get through that.. ALL of that. Then maybe it is love.
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 02:39 PM
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It depends, for all we know, love might not exist at all. lol But I guess, you can fall in love at any age. But there IS a difference between being IN love and just love. Its complicated.
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 05:00 PM
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one word. lust
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 07:06 PM
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i think it is possible..well for me....but high school is full of liars
 
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post Jun 2 2005, 11:16 AM
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Well ......Love I guess is what you make of it really. Really learning how to love is an experience all of us must go through ....adn the most important thing is though that we must first truly love ourselves before we can love other people. We have to love our flaws because believe it or not the one that truly loves us loves everything about us even our flaws. ^_^


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post Jun 2 2005, 11:24 AM
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It is possible, just not probable. A good 90% of the time, it is probably lust, but true love is possible at that age.
 
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post Jun 3 2005, 10:59 AM
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i think this has been said a few times already but i think you two still have a quite a bit more obstacles to conquer before you guys can say it is truly love.

in my eyes love isn't just one big heart filled with candy. it is layers upon layers of experiences and hardships, and at the very center of all these layers is the essence of love, true love. Few reach it and I hope you do. I believe everyone deserves to feel love from another in their lifespan..
 
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post Jun 3 2005, 03:59 PM
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I personally believe that love has absolutely nothing to do with age. I do believe that there are plenty of people "our age" that are incapable of love.

You simply have to be able to give love, in order to be in love. A little maturity helps, but I don't think it's totally necessary.
 
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post Jun 4 2005, 05:59 AM
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post Jun 4 2005, 07:28 AM
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QUOTE(yummy_delight @ May 31 2005, 9:15 AM)
i believe it. just because we're young doesn't mean we're at all deprived of feeling true love. most adults underestimate it because they've had more experience with this whole "love" thing.
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^ Agree.

If true love means you care 100% for them and would give your life for them -- doesn't that resemble the love we feel for our family and closest friends??

*rereads post*

....... okay, nevermind. blink.gif
 
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post Jun 5 2005, 07:44 PM
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i kno wwhat you mean. love is only for when your married or you would actally DIE for. i never use the word love for when i have to say "i love you" i always use " i heart you"
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 09:36 PM
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Ok, I searched this and was just wondering people's opinion on this topic and I wasn't sure if this belonged in debate because this is more opinionated. Do you think that you can be young and still be truly in love or do they need age and experience to be in love? Some people think that just because someone is only 13 or something that what they feel isn't real love.

I personally think that you can be young and in love because even though it is when hormones are developing and such, they still feel something and it is something. Just because they are young doesn't mean their feelings don't exist or they don't fully understand it because even old people don't understand it.
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 09:53 PM
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im 13 about to turn 14, and i agree wit u

our age may only be 13

but we arent dumb
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 10:09 PM
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i think you can still be in love at a young age. it's only that people who are young seem to mistake strong "liking" for love because they haven't really experienced much yet.

it's still possible, though.
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 10:22 PM
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i think it's rare when someone young finds true love because usually they're just infatuated.

you can truly be in love at any age, people mature at different times.
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 10:24 PM
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I think its possible , love is something u cant judge by age
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 10:30 PM
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^ Yes. Love shouldnt be determined by age. A man could be 50 and have had numerous girlfriends over the span of his lifetime and not know the wonders of love. A boy can be 13 and know all the wonders,pains,ups and downs, every side, story, and feeling of love.

I think its possible to love at any age.
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 10:42 PM
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why yes, it is of course possible. age is but a number. but the thing is...i've delt with so many people thinking they were in love. and then a few weeks later they break up with them or whatever. what kind of love is that? who DOES that? well, a lot of people actually. i mean suree its possible but whyyyyy?! why would you go waisting your young years looking for lovee...its just so lame...i want to have fun right now and just be free and me; i'll save all that mushy love crap for when im ready to get married thanks tongue.gif

oh and im not just saying only youngsters do that whole "throw love around thing" people of all ages do it..so yeahhh _smile.gif
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 10:48 PM
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i think you can find love at a young age but i don't think it will last...one may get mature while the other one hasn't even hit puberty yet
feeling change and apprearences change
 
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post Nov 22 2005, 12:46 AM
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I think before you can have a successful relationship, you have to know yourself. You have to know who you are, what you want, what your goals are, what you're looking for in life and in relationships. For the most part, most teenagers haven't really figured all that out yet. I don't mean that to be condescending, of course, but adolescence is a time of turmoil and change. It is a time when people are developing from a child into an adult, and in the process, figuring out--and more importantly, defining--who they are; which means that they're tastes, thoughts, and feelings are likely to change. Rushing into a relationship at such a chaotic age will likely not be successful, and may hindrance growth as a person. I look at adolescence at a time to date to see what you like and help to figure out who you are, and to practice the whole relationships thing, and, most importantly, to have fun.
 
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post Nov 22 2005, 12:51 AM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Nov 21 2005, 11:46 PM)
I think before you can have a successful relationship, you have to know yourself. You have to know who you are, what you want, what your goals are, what you're looking for in life and in relationships. For the most part, most teenagers haven't really figured all that out yet. I don't mean that to be condescending, of course, but adolescence is a time of turmoil and change. It is a time when people are developing from a child into an adult, and in the process, figuring out--and more importantly, defining--who they are; which means that they're tastes, thoughts, and feelings are likely to change. Rushing into a relationship at such a chaotic age will likely not be successful, and may hindrance growth as a person. I look at adolescence at a time to date to see what you like and help to figure out who you are, and to practice the whole relationships thing, and, most importantly, to have fun.
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Agreed.

Love is such a big, complex emotion and idea. It really depends on how you define love, if you distinguish between the types (aros, philia, etc) and if you you LOVE somone or if you are IN LOVE with someone. In my opinion all of those things must be taken into consideration before making such a big leap/commitment as to really truly being in love with someone.

Sure, there is this super small chance that some 12 year old is truly in love but honestly, I doubt that. Like I quoted, you need to be able to know yourself (and love yourself) because you can let anyone else get to fully know you or love you. It's difficult for things like that to happen at a young age because you haven't even fully developed yet or been out in the 'real world'.

It doesn't mean you're stupid and one isn't able to tell if they're in love or not because of their age. It only means that it's less likely you'll truly be in love at a young age because you probably don't even fully know yourself, haven't grown, changed, or experienced much. Love is a HUGE DEAL. Love, infatuation, crushes, liking someone, all of that has big differences. At young ages it's quite easy to confuse some of them and mistake infatuation for love.
 

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