Does sex strenghten or degrade a relationship? |
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| *mipadi* |
 Nov 20 2005, 09:30 PM
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The options for this poll are "yes" and "no", but the poll is not a yes-or-no question.
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Nov 20 2005, 09:35 PM
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both it just depends (there is no wrong answer to this one so just tell her what you truley think)
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Nov 20 2005, 09:36 PM
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both it just depends (there is no wrong answer to this one so just tell her what you truley think)
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Nov 20 2005, 10:17 PM
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QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Nov 20 2005, 8:24 PM) I don't believe it does anything.. Unless you're not married and have an un-planned pregnancy/ or STD then it's degrading I don't think it ever stregthens, though.  Hmm, so even if you are in a loving and strong relationship, getting pregnant degrades it? |
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Nov 22 2005, 08:10 AM
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It isn't even always about the whether they love each other or not. Everyone deals with something like sex in a different way. Suppose one partner is completely fine with the fact that they had sex and the other is a little upset in some aspects. You can see how that could lead to some tension between them.
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Nov 22 2005, 10:53 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Nov 20 2005, 8:30 PM) The options for this poll are "yes" and "no", but the poll is not a yes-or-no question. Yeah. I was wondering.  I think that sex makes no difference. It depends on the relationship situation. |
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| *tweeak* |
Nov 22 2005, 03:36 PM
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Poll choices edited to actually reflect the question being asked.
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Nov 22 2005, 03:46 PM
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the obvious answer is...
... it depends on the relationship and the reasons for having sex. asking thirteen year olds about this isnt really a smart idea, look at the results ffs. edit: the results reflect the truth now. whayhey |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Nov 25 2005, 08:25 PM
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It depends if the couple wants to focus more on the emotional part of the relationship first. But if they think they're ready to take the next step, I'd say it would strengthen.
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Nov 27 2005, 10:16 PM
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I didn't vote, because it can do both.
Having sex is supposed to be lovemaking, but since us humans are such horny idiots, it can also be a way of degrading a relationship. For example, if people have sex just for the pleasure and not because of any emotional bonds, or if someone uses another person just for the act of sex, then the relationship will either remain the same or weaken. If a pair decides to have sex because they care for each other and want to (this sounds so corny and lame) have sex as a sort of "union" or act of love, then it will strengthen a relationship. |
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| *stephinika* |
Nov 28 2005, 10:44 PM
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^^
quite well put i must say. it really depends on the specific couple and their relationship with each other. |
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Dec 8 2005, 04:07 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
mm, i said degrade. bcz well, it depends on how old you guys are.
if you guys are 7th grader. no way it's gnna strengthen. but if guys are plannig marriage or more seriously.. then i think it's gnna strengthen : ) |
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