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ok my mom has this serios no gf rule and Ive dated anyway foer a long time. but now me and my new gf are getting more serious and I want to tell my mom that we are dating but she would come after me with a brick what should I do?
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Nov 19 2005, 02:57 PM
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 Oh Goddamnit. Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884 |
QUOTE(drilotedahl @ Nov 19 2005, 2:54 PM) she would come after me with a brick what should I do?  That made me giggle. Anywho, I think you should maybe ask if you can invite your girlfriend over to dinner one time, have her make a good impression on your mom. |
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Nov 19 2005, 03:00 PM
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Ill get around to doing that.... Group: Member Posts: 518 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 275,913 |
QUOTE(misskentucky @ Nov 19 2005, 1:57 PM) That made me giggle. Anywho, I think you should maybe ask if you can invite your girlfriend over to dinner one time, have her make a good impression on your mom. yea but my mom wouldnt just let me have her over for dinner |
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Nov 19 2005, 03:07 PM
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 My name is really Matt... if you care. Group: Member Posts: 1,442 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 258,234 |
QUOTE(drilotedahl @ Nov 19 2005, 4:00 PM) yea but my mom wouldnt just let me have her over for dinner and there inlies the problem... well, you cant hide her forever, better late then never...  anyway, like, ask her (nonchalantly) if your still not allowed to have a gf, b/c theres this one girl who REALLY likes you and if she says no, then you wait... and try again if that doesnt work... i guess youll HAVE to hide her, lol sry |
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Nov 19 2005, 03:08 PM
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Ill get around to doing that.... Group: Member Posts: 518 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 275,913 |
QUOTE(add1cted2f1re @ Nov 19 2005, 2:07 PM) and there inlies the problem... well, you cant hide her forever, better late then never... anyway, like, ask her (nonchalantly) if your still not allowed to have a gf, b/c theres this one girl who REALLY likes you and if she says no, then you wait... and try again if that doesnt work... i guess youll HAVE to hide her, lol sry thats what I was hoping not do |
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Nov 19 2005, 03:22 PM
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Changa Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 177,785 |
OMGOSH
im in the same exact situation hang in there man, i kno how it feels |
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Nov 19 2005, 03:24 PM
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Changa Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 177,785 |
^...but her parents also dont allow it
so im more screwed than u r |
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Nov 19 2005, 03:58 PM
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Ill get around to doing that.... Group: Member Posts: 518 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 275,913 |
QUOTE(richc @ Nov 19 2005, 2:24 PM) ^...but her parents also dont allow it so im more screwed than u r yea her parents dont care at all |
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Nov 20 2005, 01:42 PM
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Just keep it secret they wouldn't know as long as you don't make things obvious.
My mother thinks me and my girlfriend are best friends. So yeah, she don't suspect anything from me and I go over my girlfriends house frequently. |
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Nov 20 2005, 02:18 PM
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 Proud to be an Anime Otaku Group: Member Posts: 667 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,004 |
I agree with the person before me.
Just say it's you newest bff. ^^ |
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Nov 20 2005, 02:32 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
just tell her, moms act like they will punish u to f**k or transfer u to a new country but when u actually tell them u got a girlfriend they wont care much and alot of times they'll say "i already know" lol...
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Nov 20 2005, 03:06 PM
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Moved to Relationships
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Nov 20 2005, 03:14 PM
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and you're how old?
usually its the girls parents who dont allow people to date, but ive never heard of a guy not being allowed. |
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Nov 20 2005, 08:12 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Well there's nothing wrong with that
 Ouch your situation really sucks. But you gotta talk to your parents unless you want to hide all your realtionships from them for the rest of your life. Imagine hiding your wife.  Tell them you're old enough to understand relationships and that this girl really means something to you. And that relationships doesn't always result in a baby (believe me, a lot of parents don't let their kids date because of this). Good luck 
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Nov 20 2005, 08:15 PM
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What she doesn't know can't hurt her.
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Nov 20 2005, 08:22 PM
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i gotta agree wit chika ^^
i be haven the same problem mahself. das why i don't get real serus though so...don't let her find out. cuz when she do yo ass is gon be in serus pain. believe me i know...(i still gotta a bruise mark from the slap on mah face and a scar on mah arm from the belt buckle) |
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Nov 20 2005, 08:29 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Just tell her. If youre getting serious, there comes a time you have to tell your parents. You cant hide her forever.
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Nov 21 2005, 11:44 AM
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Ill get around to doing that.... Group: Member Posts: 518 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 275,913 |
QUOTE(incoherent @ Nov 20 2005, 2:14 PM) and you're how old? usually its the girls parents who dont allow people to date, but ive never heard of a guy not being allowed. im 15 shes 15 my mom is a true ass |
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