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 Nov 18 2005, 08:14 PM
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ok ive posted before here. just continueing from where i left off.
-------------- in the last post there i finally got the courage to ask him if he likes me. he wouldnt tell me till 3 days after. his final answer was "yes" i was excited and stuff. he then sent me all these love smilies things. i thought it was cute. but he only acts like this online not in person. we're just friends. but ive always wanted to be more  how do i get his attention? 
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Nov 18 2005, 08:38 PM
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WONDERWOMAN? Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636 |
maybe he's a little shy. sometimes people might act a little more open when chatting at home than talking in person. he's probably more relaxed at home because its like his comfort zone type thing. so i say if he wont take action, why don't you change it up a little and try to get alone with him. youll probably get his attention one on one.
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Nov 18 2005, 09:27 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
If he likes you. You like him. Ask him out :D
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Nov 18 2005, 10:27 PM
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Hello Group: Member Posts: 159 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 244,710 |
i tried asking him out. i said you want to go to the mall? he said ok, lets invite niki(friend). i just wanted it to be us two. how do i give him the hint
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Nov 19 2005, 07:26 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
ask him if he wants to go to the mall with just the two of you
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Nov 19 2005, 09:59 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
^exactly. talk to him more in person.
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Nov 20 2005, 08:28 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Say something like "i saw this great CD i want, will you come with me to buy it?" or something sweet and twisted like that.
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Nov 20 2005, 08:31 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(xposure @ Nov 18 2005, 8:27 PM) i tried asking him out. i said you want to go to the mall? he said ok, lets invite niki(friend). i just wanted it to be us two. how do i give him the hint  Ask him out again. But this timesay " You want to go to the movies ? .. .Just the two of us " With a suggesting smile Lol. Or you could simply state " Do you want to go out with me" That might make the situation clearer than asking to go to the mvoies alone. |
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Nov 20 2005, 10:30 PM
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Hello Group: Member Posts: 159 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 244,710 |
ok i did, so we went to the movies together watching the new movie harrypotter. both our arms are rested on one arm rest. durning the movie he put his had over mines and cuffed them
 but after that hes been ignoring me. was it something i did?
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Nov 20 2005, 11:00 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Its nothing you did, you didnt do anything wrong.
Maybe hes just nervous about what you felt about it, and hes avoiding you because he thinks it would be awkward. Just try to get him alone and ask him why hes been avoiding you. Then if everything alright, proceed to A] ask him on another date or B] ask him out |
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Nov 20 2005, 11:03 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
If he acts different/completely ignores you around people, he just wants some ass. ;/
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Nov 21 2005, 12:15 AM
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Hello Group: Member Posts: 159 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 244,710 |
the weird thing is that we're still just friends. i dont know what to say to him anymore
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Nov 21 2005, 12:27 AM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
i don't think he really likes you.
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