Heartbroken, ever felt it? Options

[kantoaznboi]

its a dumbass question, but ever felt heartbroken? if u wanna tell ur story, go on ahead, dont be discouraged

my story, if u wanna read it, not not, its coo

ok, i've been friends wit dis gurl named jenn and we was coo. it all began frosh year when i started likin her, and i thought it was a crush and stuff, but as the year went by, it grew into soemthin more, cause i got 2 know her better. then by soph year she practically stole my hear but didnt have the guts 2 do anythin bout it. My homeboi warned me bout her, how she doenst really wanted a relationship in HS, but i didnt listen 2 him. so finally summer came and i finally summed up all my courage and decided 2 ask her out. i gave her roses and shit, but then she turned me down and wat my hb warned me bout is the same reason y she turned me down. it didnt hit me at 1st but later on it started hurting hella big time. even 2 dis day(i'm a jr now) i'm still not over her. everytime we pass each other, she smiles and it just tears my soul apart and just catching a glimpse of her hurts like a mother..................................... the way she acts is the one of the main reasons y my feelings began 2 grow. blahness...............

[whomps]

Yeah, I have..
I even made a blogring for it.

I was never with the guy, but yeahhh, we were cool with eachotherr.. I mean REAL cool with eachother =] We still are, but I know his heart belongs to someone else.

I got over it though.. Since we're still really good friends.

I was gonna explain, but I'd rather not now =)

Let's just pretend I didn't say anything.

[sweetlyz]

yeh .. definitly been heartbroken, but sorry i`d rather not explain

[photoboothromanc...]

Well since only kantoaznboi has really opened up, I'll share a story too.

So there's this guy. And we're good friends for about a year... better friends than I was with any girls. We both know that we were absolutely falling for each other, but for awhile we didn't officially "go out". But we acted as if we were. We may have even been in love.

Of course, the difficulty with not actually going out is that neither of us officially have to be "faithful" because the relationship is only implied. &so I suppose he wanted to get the best of two things. While we were having our little thing, I don't even know what to call it, he decided he was going to mess around with some girls at his cool. Not so cool. Well, I found out, and he apologized profusely and swore he'd never do it again.

&I fell right into his trap. Whether his intentions were good or not, I forgave him and we continued our relationship. Even though it doesn't sound like it really was much of a relationship, al contrare. We talked on the phone until midnight... We wrote each other love letters. We had "our songs". From my point of view, at least, I thought it was pretty intense.

He must have thought otherwise, because his little side projects didn't stop. When I confronted him about them, he'd always say, "I'm not good enough for you, Courtney. You deserve better than me."

Nyeh. &the story goes on. I'll save you some time: things don't get any better. They still haven't, in fact.

We haven't talked for awhile. He needs time to figure out his life.

&if you would ask me if I still loved him, I would automatically say no.

But if you turned on the Dashboard Confessional CD "A Mark, A Mission, A Brand, A Scar" (which was "our" CD, and I always listened to it while we were on the phone), I'd start crying.


...


fin.

[Winter]

Heartbroken... Way to many times. Rather not talk about it though.

[F_L_I_P]

I feel at a lot

[toki]

uh huh..

[Spirited Away]

everytime we pass each other, she smiles and it just tears my soul apart and just catching a glimpse of her hurts like a mother..................................... the way she acts is the one of the main reasons y my feelings began 2 grow. blahness...............

I think that girl is awesome. She knows her priorities and keep them in perspective. She's also very friendly, because that's what made you fall for her in the first place.

If you really love her, than you'd respect her wishes. Who knows, once she done with HS, she'd be wanting to get a boyfriend and you might be her first choice.

[chewyXD]

yep blahness.. that girl made a big mistake. you so cute!

I had my heartbroken by this guy. it hurts a lot. more than skinning ur knee hurt, but like pain in my heart hurt. it's bad. i wish no one could ever be hurt like that. But when you fall to the ground, you just gotta brush ur self off and keep walking.

~emily

[kantoaznboi]

yep blahness.. that girl made a big mistake. you so cute!

I had my heartbroken by this guy. it hurts a lot. more than skinning ur knee hurt, but like pain in my heart hurt. it's bad. i wish no one could ever be hurt like that. But when you fall to the ground, you just gotta brush ur self off and keep walking.

~emily

haha, thankx, but i aint cute. sorry bout ur heartbroken by dat guy. and ur rite, u ahve 2 get up and just keep walkin but its hard, ya kno? but we just gotta do it

If you really love her, than you'd respect her wishes. Who knows, once she done with HS, she'd be wanting to get a boyfriend and you might be her first choice

very tru, dats y iam willing 2 wait 4 enternity just 2 possible have that chance 2 be something, but i highly doubt i'd be her 1st choice......

thankx though

ur very wish and stuff. lol haha cant think of the word. lol

Well since only kantoaznboi has really opened up, I'll share a story too.

thankx 4 sharing ur story! woop woop *high five* 4 opening up, cause its hard 2 do!. i'm hella sorry buts a tard and he is rite, u do deserve better!!!!!!!

[tinababy143]

yeah..i've been heartbroken before..

i had a crush on this guy for 3 years..he went thru a couple girlfriends and i was never one of them..it didnt help the fact that they were all friends of mine.

One month we started getting close..we were hanging out more..of course the flirting was there..all the signs of us liking each other were definetely there. I switched high schools in the middle of this whole "we like each other" phase, but he still called me all the time.

After school we would take walks to the park and just sit and talk. I stayed out late nights to be with him. I got grounded for him. haha..sounds weird i know..but it was a night i wasnt supposed to go out and i was out till 1130. I did anything and everything i could to see him. Then finally one night..he kissed me!

It was the happiest day of my life..i was so excited. I didnt see him for the next two days. He didn't call me either. I called but his mom said he wasnt home each time, i then stopped calling that day because i didnt want to upset his mother. So i went online and was talking to a friend that we share. I was asking him if he had heard from my crush and going on and on about how much i like him then my friend said "uhhh i think...well it isnt my place to say..but i think he has a gf already" and of course i was SHOCKED I asked him why he thought that and he said "because i hold them holding hands the other day" I then asked another friend and she said "maybe..i think i saw them holding hands once..but im not shure if it was him" Then someone else told me it was a fact that they were going out.

I sat in my room and cried. I was crying for a whole week. Everytime I called him he wouldnt answer or "had just left." He never called me. We never took those walks to the park after school anymore. Then one day he came online and the first thing he said to me was "im sorry" i asked him how it happened and when it happened and why he led me on the way he did. then he said they kissed on the bus two days after we did and he had a crush on her since 1st grade and couldnt help but ask her out, but him leading me on wasnt in his intentions at all. I was heartbroken because of what he did. I was hurt because i found out from other ppl and not him..We lost complete contact for about 3 months.

One day he randomly called me and we would talk late hours of the night again..he was still with his gf. He kept telling me about all the problems they had been having and how she treated him like crap and how she made plans with ANOTHER GUY for prom..i was hurt to see him hurt the way he was. and like the quote says "the worst way to love someone is to be sitting right next to them knowing you cant have them"


i dunno if that was sad for you guys..but maybe it was one of those "you had to be there" stories because i know it was definetely heartbreaking for me..

[Mireh]

its a dumbass question, but ever felt heartbroken? if u wanna tell ur story, go on ahead, dont be discouraged

my story, if u wanna read it, not not, its coo

ok, i've been friends wit dis gurl named jenn and we was coo. it all began frosh year when i started likin her, and i thought it was a crush and stuff, but as the year went by, it grew into soemthin more, cause i got 2 know her better. then by soph year she practically stole my hear but didnt have the guts 2 do anythin bout it. My homeboi warned me bout her, how she doenst really wanted a relationship in HS, but i didnt listen 2 him. so finally summer came and i finally summed up all my courage and decided 2 ask her out. i gave her roses and shit, but then she turned me down and wat my hb warned me bout is the same reason y she turned me down. it didnt hit me at 1st but later on it started hurting hella big time. even 2 dis day(i'm a jr now) i'm still not over her. everytime we pass each other, she smiles and it just tears my soul apart and just catching a glimpse of her hurts like a mother..................................... the way she acts is the one of the main reasons y my feelings began 2 grow. blahness...............

Awww...You poor thing

Well, wait until college. Then she'll be outta hs.

I think everybody has to be heartbroken at least once in their life.

Theres this guy I met, and he always flirts with me when hes single, I start liking him, but then he asks a girl out and totally ignores me. When she finally dumps him, he starts flirting with me again...And the cycle goes on.

It hurts.

Good luck with your relation ship!

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[conster]

yea im heart broken.... me and my bf jus broke up (4months) i kno its nothing but its what happened in those 4months count rite..? well today is exactly a week since our break up and hes going out wit this girl that was his best friend.. probably still is... but.. i dunno... shes a two face and he doesnt knoe that... it hurts to see them two together cuz after we broke up shes been there for him and i kno her since 7th grade... she will never ever help me get bak wit him but maybe poke him at the weak spots and hate me more..

[wayne]

yeah, i have been, but i dun like talking about it anymore. i made a thread on it before.

[LiNHy POO]

i say i have...

when i was with my ex... back in december... things were suppose to get better for us... but it actually got worst.. a few weeks b4 christmas.. i noticed that he wasnt calling regularly like normal... i tried calling him alot... cell home... wherever i thought i could reach him.. and when i could reach him... there would be a hello... and then a click... for a whole week i didnt get to see or talk to him.. so when exams came up and i got home... he called me... first wi was happy... but he sounded soo drunk.. so i said wut was wrong... and he started to confess about EVERYTHING... all the lies he's been telling me... how he been a different person with me... back to doing drugs... after that i hung up... and cried...

wut hurt me the most was all the lying and being a whole different person with me...

[xtremeliquid]

I'm not exactly sure if I got heart-broken or not so you tell me.

I really like this one girl for a really long time and I really want to be with her. I have these feelings for her that really hurts inside. She knows I like her but I don't think she knows how much I do. Anyways, she got with someone else and that made me really sad and when she broke up with her bf, I didn't know what to think. Now she currently likes another guy and I feel real sad about it. I don't know if this is exactly heart-broken or not.

[NatoBoy]

ye ive been heart broken, its just this wierd feeling. it just feels wierd and it hurts...

[silver-rain]

I don't think that I've been heartbroken really. I mean my boyfriend and I broke up last week, and yeah it was all sad for me, but I don't really feel that sad- i mean i haven't even cried. i guess it was because our relationship wasn't really solid. but sometimes, when i think of the good times we had together, my heart aches.

[kantoaznboi]

"the worst way to love someone is to be sitting right next to them knowing you cant have them"

o man, that is so tru!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! o man so tru.. or like the worst pain is to love someone and sit next to them, knowing you cant have them

I'm not exactly sure if I got heart-broken or not so you tell me.

I really like this one girl for a really long time and I really want to be with her. I have these feelings for her that really hurts inside. She knows I like her but I don't think she knows how much I do. Anyways, she got with someone else and that made me really sad and when she broke up with her bf, I didn't know what to think. Now she currently likes another guy and I feel real sad about it. I don't know if this is exactly heart-broken or not.

yea i would say u got ur heart broken, sorry dude, bout ur gurl thing.

[pbear]

No, though there have been "heart pains".

...

See, I'm close to this guy and think I want to be more than just friends, but I know how he'd respond to that and...yeah.


I'm such a loser.

Good luck with all of you.

yup. dont really want to tell it though.........but now i no that as long as i belive, G-d will never break my heart.

[illushun_eyez]

awww dayum sry about that kantoaznboi.
wellz, yeah ill be honest im bi. so, yeah i waz just recently heartborken by my ex gf. it haz been umz... about 3 or 4 monthz ago b4 my sweet 16. she broked my heart so bad. any of you ever been in a relationship where you and your other say thingz like "whatever it it you and him.her will work it out and nothing can tear uz apart?" well something like that. wellz, yeah we said thingz like that. so, what happend waz that my ex bf waz making trouble and shit and it got to her and allz. so, she couldnt take it and she broke up with me like that! i dont know. i miss her but, i am currently happy with my bf now. so, yeah. she scar me so bad. itz hard to be friendz with her. anywayz.... yeah... *tearz running down my cheekz*

[SuPerSoPow1025]

HECK YEA!!!

[x0 sweetsorrow]

heh. yeah ive been heartbroken. in fact. me and my boyfriend of 11months jus broke up. ick. it sucks. i hurt. i dont even know what happened. he jus started pushing me outta his life and when i confronted him about it hes all like "nothings wrong just chill laura everythings fine" pshhh!! it was most certainly not fine!! ick. anyways. so we broke up. it was "for the best" but iunno. it still hurts because he was the first guy i ever really trully LOVED. and now i feel so empty. and yeah. i could go into more detail but im like falln asleep and it hurts to talk about it. so yeah.

i ranted..ish? yeah..

[kantoaznboi]

awww dayum sry about that kantoaznboi.
wellz, yeah ill be honest im bi. so, yeah i waz just recently heartborken by my ex gf. it haz been umz... about 3 or 4 monthz ago b4 my sweet 16. she broked my heart so bad. any of you ever been in a relationship where you and your other say thingz like "whatever it it you and him.her will work it out and nothing can tear uz apart?" well something like that. wellz, yeah we said thingz like that. so, what happend waz that my ex bf waz making trouble and shit and it got to her and allz. so, she couldnt take it and she broke up with me like that! i dont know. i miss her but, i am currently happy with my bf now. so, yeah. she scar me so bad. itz hard to be friendz with her. anywayz.... yeah... *tearz running down my cheekz*

i;m sorry dat she scared u, and wish u dah best wit ur bf!

heh. yeah ive been heartbroken. in fact. me and my boyfriend of 11months jus broke up. ick. it sucks. i hurt. i dont even know what happened. he jus started pushing me outta his life and when i confronted him about it hes all like "nothings wrong just chill laura everythings fine" pshhh!! it was most certainly not fine!! ick. anyways. so we broke up. it was "for the best" but iunno. it still hurts because he was the first guy i ever really trully LOVED. and now i feel so empty. and yeah. i could go into more detail but im like falln asleep and it hurts to talk about it. so yeah.

i ranted..ish? yeah..

sorry 2 hear bout u and ur bf. and i kno wat u feeelin...... things will eventually get better and stuff