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 Mar 18 2004, 11:14 AM
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 heart broken x  Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,259  |
online realationshipz hardly eva work out u neva knoe wah da otha personz doin wif who or what and if u think about it u cant kiss him/her or not even a hug from him/her
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Mar 18 2004, 11:22 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,823 |
i personally think online relationships are stupid
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Mar 18 2004, 02:20 PM
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 Moderator out of training... Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 322 |
QUOTE(Xia @ Feb 14 2004, 2:07 AM) But let's make a nifty list of all the pros and cons. You may think there's "pros" in an online relationship, but I can't see them being valid because it's based off a typical physically interactive (gesters, hugs, expressions, etc.) relationship. So an online relationship would be the same, just with holes. Usually each person creates their own images to fill those holes and show validity in their online relationship. If the people take an "online relationship" for what it is. Then I think it would be better to define that as a good friendship. |
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Mar 20 2004, 02:05 AM
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 jesus freak Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748 |
Hrm.. well.. I don't really have much time to read what dah others said buh... It's a 50-50 kinda thing.. If you're serious bout it then.. you really gotta exert a hell of a lota effort to make it work. Buh if you're just playin like most internet couples do then... no need to worry bout nefink I guess.
Mai baybee's overseas, so we usually talk either on the phone or through the internet.. it's fine so far. He's dat "loyal" kinda guy so yah. Depends on dah conditions~! and dah will to make it work o.o *iono wth I'm saying buh..yah  *
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Mar 21 2004, 08:08 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
ive had two online relationships...(fer fun only)
HORRID AND A BIG MISTAKE... one was ugly and looked like he was on crack and he was younger than me.. the other said that they were a lesbian pretending to be a guy calling ME the lesbian...plus he/SHE said that they couldnt contact me at all cuz they were GROUNDED... my friend had 3 online relationships.. first one got angry at her and started to ignore her... second one sounded gay on the phone and wouldnt stop bothering her... third one did it to make her feel like a fool sayin it was all a lie..cuz he was 16 and she was 13 and he was BEST friends wit a guy she knew but never saw dat 16 year old... so... yeah... and da guy i like who likes me too dosnt have online stuffs so its VERY much all good...talkin wit yur man online aint dat good...its betta on da phone 
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Mar 21 2004, 09:04 PM
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i think it totally depends on what kind of people you are for an online relationship to work. personally, i don't like them. but i have had friends who made them work really well. one of my friends met a guy and started dating him online, and soon after they met and they've been dating for almost 2 years now. they even talk about marriage sometimes. i think to have an online relationship u can't rely on all of the physical aspects of it and you have to have a LOT of trust.
i don't know.. i think it all depends on what kind of people they are |
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Apr 1 2004, 01:31 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i dont realli think online relationships would work.
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Apr 1 2004, 06:38 PM
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 kill is love... Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 84 |
online relationships did work when it first started, but then u get peverted men and child molesters tryin' to pick up kids online, that's just not kool. and as much as we'd like to say that "looks don't matter," it really does. itz just creepy that u can talk to a person online and not even know wha they look like... i just think itz a lil creepy.
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Apr 2 2004, 10:51 AM
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 I'm Too Hyper For School Group: Member Posts: 79 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 379 |
yeah i personally dislike online relationships...=\
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Apr 3 2004, 06:31 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
heh....... thats how i met my bf, justin! lol.... well actually... i was online chattin' and i was jus bored...so i went to da relationship place... hehe i was like........heehee...4th grade...HAHAHA... newais i neba tried it that time..so i wanted to check it out...newais lols someone IMed me... heh i was in yahoo.... heh and i said hi... and he said hi... lols he said he read my profile..... so yeah..and he start to speak korean to me...and start on cussin' at me.......................... i was so mad at him...so i logged off... cus i was scared...lols newais da otha day he mailed me... it was like he was stalkin me... lols in the mail, he said "u are reallie pretty in ur profile pictures...do u have more?" i send him my baby pictures...lols...he said i was still beautiful...... ay... so i was online in yahoo messenger...and someone added me...so i checked it out...and it was him again...lols i was scared and start on cussin in korean at him...but he ignored...then we start to have a conversation..and start to get to kno each other...he made me laugh a lot... we were crackin and laughin' our heads off...lols.... then he gib me his cellular phone.. so i called him.... i was scared at first, but i wanted to try......... and i called him and he said hey and wassup? i kinda liked him... cus we were kept talkin for like everyday...hehe but like 2 months later... my computer had a virus...and we didnt talk online for like a week...and i couldnt call him...cus i qot trouble by my dad...he found out i was talkin to a 3 year older than me...lols...haha... nd' then... i went to my hip hop dance club... heh where there is a lot of korean ppls and japanese ppls...hehe newais.. we were doing our dance routine that our leader told us to do... and so yeah newais our leaders told us to find some ppls to join us...so we can have more ppls^^;; nd' i had these papers with me...to pass them on...to azn kids... heh newais justin didnt send me pictures of him... so i didnt kno how he looked like to let u kno.. nd'...heh i walked pass by this guy...who was kept starin at me....then i smiled... i dont kno y...then he was following me... i was so scared... i ran...then he ran... lols... i qot to my skool... cus i thot it wuld be safe... and he still caught me... i screamed... and he asks me "can i have the paper u have to? cus i reallie luv hiphop and i wana join too" lols i felt very stupid... then he winked at me... i was very shyyyyyyyyyy at that moment... and then he said, "hey sung min (my korean name)... i missed u".... i was shock... i mean i dont kno this guy...lols hehe that time i didnt kno who he was...then he said "it's my kangsu or u can say Justin park... we used to talk a lot...we were doing online relationship...remember?" i was shock...cus he was soooooooooooooo cute! lols... hehe but too bad i had a bf that time HAHAHAA jp... hes not my bf... but we act like one...lols cus we hold hands many times....keke... yeah justin had a huge crush on me for like a year...then stopped...then he start to went out with michella my homie! and my otha homie, amiee^^;; heehee... then my otha friend... sehee... heh.... and now...................... we are officially qoin' out hahaha............. im very happy with him..... we went out on february 11, 2004!!^^;; so i have known him for like 6 years!! wow heehee
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Nov 11 2005, 12:22 AM
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 Chtaime Group: Member Posts: 609 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,918 |
You can have one...but i wouldnt want one.
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Nov 11 2005, 12:29 AM
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 Resident Jerk. Is Wade. Respond to PM's! Group: Member Posts: 344 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,510 |
Online relationships? They hardly exist, how can it even be feaseable to be loyal to someone who:
A: You've never Really seen, so you're just totally trusting images of them whether they be real or not. 2: You may never actually meet in real life, and if you do, then that's a REAL relationship, and if anything in that situation is even the slightest bit off for either party, it's over before it starts. #: You can't know through their words alone. There's alot of talking that can only be done with chemistry. Consider pr0n. |
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Nov 11 2005, 02:24 AM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols i can't make a list of pros and cons...but ill just type stuff how about that...
i think in online relationships you're able to explore the personality rather than actual physical attractions. i think its easier to communicate because perhaps you feel more comfortable typing rather than talking face to face. bad things are that if you wanted physical affection you wouldnt be able to get any of that very often...and its just online and you dont really have that person you want to hold you know?  hehe..thats all i have 
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Nov 12 2005, 12:54 PM
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 Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,064 |
im in a online relationship.. and its a long distance too.. and it sucks.. and 3-4 yrs age difference
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Nov 12 2005, 10:42 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Nov 11 2005, 2:24 AM) lols i can't make a list of pros and cons...but ill just type stuff how about that... i think in online relationships you're able to explore the personality rather than actual physical attractions. i think its easier to communicate because perhaps you feel more comfortable typing rather than talking face to face. bad things are that if you wanted physical affection you wouldnt be able to get any of that very often...and its just online and you dont really have that person you want to hold you know? hehe..thats all i have  yup exactly! another con is that who knows? You might be talking to a lecherous old man |
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Nov 12 2005, 10:47 PM
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Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,064 |
all true all true.. online relationships r also kinda dangerous.. or sumthing like tat.. tat person yu like. might lure yu into meeting him or her.. mostly likely him.. and den he might lure yu into doing "things"... and yu might get kidnapped.. or murdered..
tats wut mi mom said...
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Nov 12 2005, 10:50 PM
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I don't think it would work out at all. If you meet you boyfriend online and have never seen them in real life, who knows if their some 80 year old fat guy.
 but I think if you know them in real life and start to get to know them better by talking to them online, that's a different story. Just as long as you don't do everything online =\
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Nov 23 2005, 08:26 AM
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 ][»hottiebheibi«][ Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 220,763 |
bein' in a online relationship doesn't mean the relationship is stagnant or not working because you can't see each other.... im not biased 'coz im in one but come to think of it... it's easy to avoid temptations in physical contact such as *premarital sex* and you'll know the person more because you'll be able to talk about everything.... it's like bein' also in a ldr *long distance relationship*... if you really like each other, or serious on the relationship.. it will work... i knew someone who had an online relationship... guess what?!! there married now and living happily....
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Nov 23 2005, 03:51 PM
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 november 25th,, <3 Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226 |
oh my gahh.. i think they are awesome. becuase you not just like the person for what they look like, and you get to i unno talk to them more, and its just so much coolerr that way.. i so want a online relation, however we must meet up every so oftenn... =P
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Nov 23 2005, 10:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
Go for it. I've done it!. But guess what your missing!
-kissing -holding hands -touch -hugging -looking deeply at each other - & not being able to fill to each other desires!.. PLUS+ how would you know what each other are doing? exactly you wouldn't!. 
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Nov 24 2005, 09:06 PM
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Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,064 |
true true... oh yea.. i got dis problem.. how can yu tell if tat person (tat ur supposely going out with) is lying or not.. im having trouble
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Nov 24 2005, 10:14 PM
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 Oh the insanity! Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,302 |
Hehe
Do what I did - fall for the guy and then meet! Personally I don't think that relationships conducted entirely online work well in the long run but I also think that the net is an entirely valid place to meet people. I met my boyfriend over the internet although we weren't in an official relationship until after we met. I really think thats probably the best way to do things. You can show interest online but I don't think you can really know until you actually meet the person. When my boyfriend and I met, it was incredible and we've been together ever since, but not everyone will have an experience like that. Check out this thread if you want to know more about my experience with meeting my boyfriend online: http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=111582 |
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Nov 25 2005, 03:46 PM
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Well, it all really depends. Like everyone else said, there's no physical contact, so that's a big minus. Also, you don't know if you're really talking to the person you think they are. The biggest thing is meeting with the person. You'd have to take precautions before meeting up with them.
You wouldn't have those same problems IRL. |
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Dec 11 2005, 02:25 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
online relationships + long distance = doesn't seem as romantic or reliable to me.
"absence sharpens love presence strengthens it." |
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Dec 11 2005, 02:26 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I think they can work. I mean, it just trully comes down to trust, right?
All relationships are based on trust. Some people meet wonderful and incomparable people through the internet. Oh yea, and one of my half-sister's best friends married a guy that she met through the internet. :D |
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