mixed feelingss...-__-, ...behhh Options

[imhyper]

ok, here's how it goes...from the beginning(sorry if its long, i have to let it all out to feel better)

About a month or 2 after my school opened, my friend suddenly told a certain "guy" named Aaron likes me. He had short blonde hair, with these beutiful blue eyes with nice glasses...and- Well anyway I was like what?! "Nobody likes me! Noone my age ever likes me but annoying little kids!" My friends were so happy for me, rarely this ever hapened to me, so i was like I did not know what to do.When i met him he looked a little nervous but he was so sweet. My friend even handed me the notes he wrote to her about me- it was so touching with words that no one has described me with. I was touched, nearly in tears when i read it. Later he would see me and hug me for like 3 minutes, seemed like he would never let go...
i gave him my number and email adress. He never did called me or send an email... but he said "hi" to me now and then. Later it seemed like he was ignoring me. I got a little worried when my freind told me he was wasn't so sure that I liked him
OKKKK........I was absent for ONLY 2 days. I came back monday and found out that he asked a girl out that liked him for a time.... <I FELT LIKE SLAPPING HIM IN THE FACE. JUST FOR 2 DAYS he CHANGED!!! I havent been acting like myself ever since. I cried on the same night too, not knowing why, i dose off in class not knowing a thing whats happening, and sooner or later, when he passes by, my heart beats faster and faster, and i then i tremble.
That is when i found out, that i really do have feelings for him now.
He recently came up to me to see what was wrong. He explained saying he thought i didn't like him, so he dated someone else. But he really did have a crush on me, and said i was beautiful, bladee bladee bla. He apologised though,- and now he starts saying hi to me again. again Seeing how bubbly he is with his girlfrnd, i believe all things he said were LIESLIESLIES grrrrrrrrrrrr.
My emotions are now mixed. One minute i would want to see him DEAD,>:O and then the next minute i'd to hug'm to peices ^-^. I'm trembling right now just thinking about him. I don't know why i still feel this way after he's done all that...>.<
I have no clue what to do now, i'm a salty snail that's being salted..NOOOOOOOOOO...... ( i just noticed how much i typed, IM SO SRY!! i got carried away!! IM WORTHLESS!!*boohoohoo*)
YES! i removed the details and shortened it. it still looks long though -__-;

[HuGzNKissEs]

well I can only make a good helpful response to this if I know how old you are.. & i can prolly tell u all u need to know b/c i'm currently in a relationship that just made 3 years!
So if you kindly respond w/ ur age I will try to help you out

[imhyper]

oh! sure, im a freshman turning 15 this month. I'm so sorry, this topic is so stupid. No one wants to about my love life. *cough cough* But yeah, he's a stupid idiot, and yet i still like him But hey, it those beautiful blue eyes that i cant ignore, he looks finnne with or without his glasses.

[_sarcastic_]

he thought you didn't like him so he dated someone else? if he can go after someone else in 2 days, what makes you think that if he was with you he wouldn't lose interest in you after awhile. besides he has a gf now right?

tell him how you feel about it.

[NgocQuyen]

wow grr i hate guys like that!!! grr some guy did that to me before...it made me very angry! i got over it though...i mean if he really was into getting with you he should have atleast made the effort to talk to you more and get you interested even if you wasnt interested. but if you want to get him back...pssh you better talk to him about it...haha...ask him if he really like this girl or is he just doing it to make you jealous because i think he MIGHT be doing it to make you jealous...guys are stupid like that sometimes you know? hahaha...so yeah i would definately talk to him...ask him like a whole bunch of questions like did he really like you? is he even interested in that girl he's going with? etc. etc.

[imhyper]

Well she she did like him for a long time, and i guess he jumped into conclusions and so HE asked her. I'm hoping he's doing that to make me jealous- but it doesn't look that way. I've just seen them hug, and walk around with each other. Although i don't know how he really feels about her.
I think that speech about me beautiful was a bunch of OSCAR MAYER WEINERS.
I just hope he's not 2 timing...

[KissMe2408]

First of all, you are not worthless. Ok.
And yah those blue eyed-spiky blonde haired dudes can be very intriguing. lol i understand why you'd fall head over heels.
And oh man, so you are a freshman in highschool, so you are young and have time.... Things will change, this situation you are in now, will seem very petty over time.
As for this guy, i'm sure he just misunderstood you and thought you didn't care for him. But now that he knows that you do care for him, i don't think there is anything you can do about it since he has a girlfriend. (Which i do agree was pretty shallow of him to do, but hey it's one of those highschool boys. Most of them are like that. Not all of them, but most)
So just kinda be friends with him, and if you still like him by the time he and his girlfriend breaks up, then maybe consider turning it into something more. Personally i wouldn't go for him since he went for that other girl so quickly. But it's your decision =)

[aera]

if he hadnt gone out with the other girl, i would have told you to go for it. truthfully, i dont think he's worth your time because he went out with another girl that he doesnt even like just because he thought you didnt like him.

if he breaks up with his girlfriend and you still have feelings for him and vice versa, then ask him out...

[miss-_-guitar]

wow. the exact same thing happened to me. blonde hair blue eyes. cept he was a year older. on friday he was totally into me and kissed me outside one of my classes and then on monday he wouldent even talk to me. ): i liked him so much and i cant really understand him. about a week after he went to semi formal. with some other girl. so i dono what, he dosent even say hi to me in the halls anymore

[imhyper]

wow. the exact same thing happened to me. blonde hair blue eyes. cept he was a year older. on friday he was totally into me and kissed me outside one of my classes and then on monday he wouldent even talk to me. ): i liked him so much and i cant really understand him. about a week after he went to semi formal. with some other girl. so i dono what, he dosent even say hi to me in the halls anymore

I feel your painn But yes, when i try to forget about him, it hurts and he won't get out of my head!:wacko: So i going to try to be friends with him for the mean time and maybe things will work out...IF HE CALLED ME!!

[HuGzNKissEs]

Well I can definately NOT say your too young to be in love b/c i started dating my b/f at 13 & we're still together now at 16....so yeh....

Most boys get confused in high school with all the girlz and dont really know what they want. The way I got w/ my boyfriend was because he dated my friend & I was dating his & when we each broke up w/ our people ...we kinda clung to each other for a rebound sort of thing. & it worked out. so maybe you should try clinging to someone else & i'm not saying it will work out w/ that person but it might knock some sense into aaron & he'll realize he wants to be with you! I dunno...it sounds confusing but it JUST might work

Besides...guys have times where they are not acting themselves...& its not really their fault they just have issues ya know? he'll get over it eventually & if he really does like you a lot he will go back to you. & if not...then keep flirting & ENJOY the single life b/c i sure do miss it sometimes!

[imhyper]

^thankyou so much! That made me feel a alot better. But sadley, i don't know anyone else that likes me, other than him...
Sooooo, i started thinking of him as a friend, and it worked! ^-^ Great, now i don't have to tremble and wait for him to say hi to me anymore. I'm just going to casually talk to him straight up next time. Whoopie! ^____^
(since he's a dancer, i thought of him in tights twirlin around) haha, that put me in a whole different mood now.
I want to thank everyone else also for helping me.

[topsyturvy]

truthfully, i dont think he's worth your time because he went out with another girl that he doesnt even like just because he thought you didnt like him.

^ true true

(since he's a dancer, i thought of him in tights twirlin around) haha, that put me in a whole different mood now.
           I want to thank everyone else also for helping me.

^ Good for you, good for you.

I suppose that means this topic can be closed now?

[_suzie_]

'' That is when i found out, that i really do have feelings for him now. ''

hmm, this might just be because you dot have him. yes its true, this is how a lot of girls feel.

just try not to think of him , and get to know more guys etc then ask someone else out. its not hte end of the world

[seremela_culnamo]

I basically agree with what everyone said

Hmm, if he said that he still has feelings for you, you should ask him: "Then why are you going out with her?" & I guess you were really shocked about the news, right? It was totally wrong for him to just start dating some girl who was interested in him without giving you the chance to think about it.

I'm probably not making much sense because nothing like this has ever happened to me. But the closest thing would be the guilt of not giving my friend a chance at all. & ever since last year, he started going out with one of my closest friends. I can't believe that I felt a bit guilty or something when I found out. But meh. It was way last year & the only reason why I didn't give him a chance was because I was going through a hard time. He liked me, another friend liked me and there was this other dude (we both liked one another but we didn't do anything because i dumped him when I found out he wasn't all too great =P).

But really, I know it must be scary, but you really have to talk to him about this. If he doesn't tell you why he went out with her and if he's only using her or something, since he still likes you, then forget him.

Haha. My friend aka my crush, he has nice blue eyes, too. But light brownish hair & sometimes wear glasses. Haha. I got to say, he looks funny with glasses though. Lol. Whereas this really good looking guy that I used to know, he looked like a doctor with them. I dunno what it was about the previous dude, but it was something about him that made him so attractive to lots of girls.