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post Feb 5 2004, 06:23 PM
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What are the most common mistake(s) made in a relationship, often resulting in a break-up?
 
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post Feb 5 2004, 06:50 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ 02-5-2004, 06:23 PM)
What are the most common mistake(s) made in a relationship, often resulting in a break-up?

miscommunication. in my case, the lack of communication. oh yea...her parents have to like you too. lol.
 
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post Feb 5 2004, 06:51 PM
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QUOTE(mer @ 02-5-2004, 06:50 PM)
miscommunication. in my case, the lack of communication. oh yea...her parents have to like you too. lol.

Oh snap. That's the first thing I thought of. But wanted to see what you guys thought.
Mer, I think we're meant to be.
 
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post Feb 5 2004, 07:47 PM
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or if you flirt with another person then would probably be a cause
 
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Jealously.
Assumptions.
 
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post Feb 5 2004, 08:42 PM
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i would say 'forgetting an important event' .. but to be realistic.. you'd have to be really absent minded to forget a birthday or big annivarsary...

so i will say that a common mistake is not voicing your concerns... like keeping things that bother you bottled up til one day it just bursts and you give up on the relationship
 
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post Feb 5 2004, 09:53 PM
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not trutsing one another
disloyalty
miscommunication
some times different personalitties juss dont go together...
 
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post Feb 6 2004, 12:32 PM
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Oh snap. That's the first thing I thought of. But wanted to see what you guys thought.
Mer, I think we're meant to be.

haha. we are bros in mistakes. if that makes sense. actually, it wasnt even my mistake.
 
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post Feb 6 2004, 01:01 PM
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cheating...............
 
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post Feb 6 2004, 08:34 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ 02-5-2004, 06:23 PM)
What are the most common mistake(s) made in a relationship, often resulting in a break-up?

Criminy, everyone's said most of the ones I'd think of.
The only ..uh..uncommon ones I could think of were:
Lack of intimacy (not necessarily sexual) and not knowing the person terribly well before you started a relationship with them.
 
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post Feb 8 2004, 11:39 AM
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miscommunication. in my case, the lack of communication.


i think she is right because most of the time, when you get in fights, it`s because of assumptions, lack of communication and misunderstandings...

iph two people can communicate, understand each other, buh still get into fights, i think there is a problem _unsure.gif
 
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post Feb 8 2004, 01:02 PM
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QUOTE(mer @ Feb 5 2004, 6:50 PM)
miscommunication. in my case, the lack of communication. oh yea...her parents have to like you too. lol.

thats true
 
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post Feb 8 2004, 05:51 PM
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QUOTE(angelxsmile @ Feb 8 2004, 11:39 AM)
"i think she is right" because most of the time, when you get in fights, it`s because of assumptions, lack of communication and misunderstandings...

iph two people can communicate, understand each other, buh still get into fights, i think there is a problem _unsure.gif

im a guy! lol. genders are mistaken a lot here in these forums.
 
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post Feb 9 2004, 01:34 AM
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jealousy, lies, and assumptions. which are all due to lack of communication, no?
 
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post Feb 14 2004, 11:31 PM
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jealousy, cheating, misunderstanding/miscommunication, lose of interest...
 
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post Feb 15 2004, 12:59 AM
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...holding the relationship with closed hands (metaphor)

meaning... holding too tight unto the realtionship as tho it means everything to u. it may seem that this is good because it means that you love ur partner more, but it will only cause to jelousness wen he.she talks to someone else, or obsession. obession= not good in a way because you will lose interest faster and if something bad happenes, you will fall hard and sometimes get hurt really badly...

also, you could possibly annoy ur partner if your too overprotective. not a good sign... keeping the relationship loose and fun in the begining will always be the best. ^_^ or at least for me
 
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post Feb 15 2004, 01:20 AM
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Have room for rationality and understanding.

Assumptions. It only makes an ASS out of U and ME. hahHaAhAha stubborn.gif
Oh but it's quite true
 
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post Feb 15 2004, 02:05 AM
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--lack of communication
--not being honest
 
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post Feb 16 2004, 01:11 AM
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not having trust.. expecting too much.. stupidity!!
 
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post Feb 16 2004, 06:37 PM
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most common reasons:

jealousy
lack of trust, resulting in the jealousy to take control
miscommunication
differences in how people go about things, like arguing, one person might be loud wheree the other one gets very emotional with loudness etc then it just dont work out
too much time together
or not spending enough time together etc
oh yeah, and selfishness and not listening, lol
 
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post Feb 16 2004, 10:49 PM
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maswushot, you just summed it all up!! happy.gif not much more to say except,

thinking about yourself too much. thingking that your tears mean more than that someoone else's... thinking that your the only one hurting inside. thass one biggie as well... sad.gif
 
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post Feb 16 2004, 11:57 PM
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Lying..cheating. Cheating is the big thing. or maybe someone moving. or falling out of love..or assumption......
 
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post Feb 20 2004, 06:29 AM
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the biggest mistake is taking each other for granted, i think.
 
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post Feb 21 2004, 12:18 AM
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Breaking up over stupid reasons like mistrust or miscommunication [etc. etc. etc.]. Or maybe, just lack of commitment.
 
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post Feb 21 2004, 12:25 AM
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QUOTE(bdbuie @ Feb 20 2004, 6:29 AM)
the biggest mistake is taking each other for granted, i think.

I like that.
And realizing how much s/he meant to you, after the break up.
 
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