im trying to help a friend, get a message across to him |
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 Oct 31 2005, 10:14 PM
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He's goin through something saying he doenst have a reason to be here anymore n that he has nothing anymore n tellin me he dont know if he's gonna do anything stupid and that he has no feelings now about anything. He sent me a song telling be thats how he feels.
Does anyone know any really good songs that have a good message to like not give up on life or anything and to keep going n be strong. Im trying to get him to listen to sumthin that will help. |
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Oct 31 2005, 10:25 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
1. Here as in Cb or here as in life?
2. What song did he send you? 3. Josh Groban- You Raise Me Up ^ It makes me cry all the time. 
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Oct 31 2005, 10:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,827 |
In life
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Oct 31 2005, 10:28 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
^ isn't that like... a country song?
i'm not sure i know inspiriational songs... i mean, i usually listen to darker music... |
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Oct 31 2005, 10:30 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Josh Groban isn't country. It's more...erm..Classical/Opera-ish.
But Hmmm...Give me a min or 2 to think. Josh Groban - You Raise Me Up What song did he send to you though? |
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Oct 31 2005, 10:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,827 |
one i sent him was Crossfade- No Giving up
songs like that im makin a cd for him |
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Oct 31 2005, 10:42 PM
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this is a disney song but
Aly and Aj-Rush Chorus: Don't let nobody tell you, your life is over, Be every color that you are, Into the rush now, You don't have to know how, Know it all before you'll try. it's not a slow song..but i love teh chorus |
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Oct 31 2005, 10:55 PM
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dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
evanesence- october
or hello? hmm mayhaps. i'd start with melanchony and work up to happyish. |
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Oct 31 2005, 10:58 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Hello sounds soo suicidial which probably wouldn't help at the moment. Sry, but it does.
My Immortal doesn't sound so bad? |
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Oct 31 2005, 11:15 PM
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dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
well, depends on why he's sad.
and what kind of person he is. when i was suicidal (only briefly okay!) i listened to like, everybody's fool and going under... it was better for me to hear angry songs so i could convert my despair into anger... |
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Oct 31 2005, 11:22 PM
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So hes suicidal? Yeah, I think the right song is this one that was sang by Good Charlotte. It includes people who tried to commit suicide. But are still alive today, and regret doing it.
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Nov 1 2005, 12:09 AM
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dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
when you're contemplating suicide- you see life quite cynically.
and all logic at that point points to death as a release. so, screw logic. go after emotions. cus when you're staring death in the eye, your heart's the only one staring back. |
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Nov 1 2005, 12:19 AM
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QUOTE(Kristinaa @ Oct 31 2005, 10:25 PM) 3. Josh Groban- You Raise Me Up ^ It makes me cry all the time.  My boyfriend sang that song in chorus, and it's really beautiful. Hmm, the first song that comes to mind is, Rufio- Stop Whining. But, I'm not sure if you want to send that to him. Hmm, I'll edit this or add on if I think of more. |
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Nov 1 2005, 12:29 AM
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dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
need to know a bit more about his situation:
1. did he break up with his girlfriend? 2. does he feel worthless 3. is he suicidal for no apparent reason? |
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Nov 1 2005, 10:22 AM
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 Don't wake ghostie. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,546 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,405 |
I think music that pumps him up would be better. Have a good time with him, make him know life is worth living.
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Nov 1 2005, 06:30 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
He needs to realize there is more to life then whatever bad thing has happened to him.
I'm assuming something bad. Sum 41- Pieces...but I'm not sure that would actually work. |
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Nov 1 2005, 06:31 PM
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dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
we need to know more.
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Nov 1 2005, 09:57 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
'meant to live' by switchfoot
'who knows?' by avril lavigne possibly 'polaris' by jimmy eat world... hope everything goes ok
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Nov 1 2005, 10:01 PM
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mariah carey- through the rain.
it's the song i'm listening to right now. very emotional. |
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