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 Oct 25 2005, 04:07 PM
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if there is a board like this already, delete mine if you must
i had a question. i want to know how you asked your bf out. i have this crush and iv been wanting to ask him out. well you see, i dont want the simple 'do you want to go out with me' or 'will you be my bf' thing. i want something that means something to him. oh yeah..i forgot.. if you just asked your bf 'do you want to go out with me' that kind of stuff... can you give me an idea of what something speical is to say to him to ask him out other then that? iv been thinking on my own but i didnt seem to come up with anything. maybe you guys can.. thanks for helping =) |
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Oct 25 2005, 04:14 PM
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I never understood the whole "asking someone out" thing. I just thought that you ask someone on a date, start dating a lot, and then you just kind of ease into being a couple.
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Oct 25 2005, 04:18 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 25 2005, 5:14 PM) I never understood the whole "asking someone out" thing. I just thought that you ask someone on a date, start dating a lot, and then you just kind of ease into being a couple.  That's what happened to me, in my previous relationship. We just went out on a date, started seeing each other more, and it was known that we were a couple... Well, my boyfriend took me to this cliff area near our school and got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I said no, since I didn't know him too well, and then he said, "well, if you won't marry me, will you at least go out with me." And of course, I said yes. |
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Oct 25 2005, 09:40 PM
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your getting me confused...are you asking to ask your boyfriend on a date or you crush to be your bf?
if you are going to ask i crush out it htink it should be simple and just say will you go out with me? if you do somethign special..it makes it harder to say no |
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Oct 25 2005, 09:45 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Oct 25 2005, 9:40 PM) your getting me confused...are you asking to ask your boyfriend on a date or you crush to be your bf? if you are going to ask i crush out it htink it should be simple and just say will you go out with me? if you do somethign special..it makes it harder to say no good point... thanks. oh yeah btw..im asking out my crush 
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Oct 25 2005, 10:21 PM
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hm..yeah..im planning on asking out my crush too...at a halloween party..lol..hope hell be sober enough to know whats going on >.< eh..im just gonna say that i have a crush on him and see where it goes..
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Oct 26 2005, 12:58 AM
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 Heykidd. <3 Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701 |
UMMS. i dont really know what to say to the guy. i dont really ask guys out.
its just weird. its usually the guys who ask girls out isnt it? maybe you should just let him know that you like him and make sure he knows you're interested? ^___________^ flirt a little. thats what we're here for.. =] |
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Oct 26 2005, 05:52 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(silver rain @ Oct 26 2005, 4:18 AM) Well, my boyfriend took me to this cliff area near our school and got down on one knee and asked me out. I said no, since I didn't know him too well, and then he said, "well, if you won't marry me, will you at least go out with me." And of course, I said yes. Wow that's so sweet 
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Oct 26 2005, 10:40 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
well me and my bf went to see this school play West Side Story. at the end, everyone stood up and clapped except for me and him. we sat next to each other and I leaned over and asked him *will you go out with me* when we were the only two sitting. he said *are you serious?!* and all tht jinx. now we have been together for almost half a year.
yup thats my story |
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Oct 26 2005, 02:30 PM
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RJL<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,194 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,019 |
you could write a love note and put it in some food. lol. idk really. id see whats wrong w/ the straight forward approach
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Nov 1 2005, 10:29 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
ehh..you guys are right..i should just do the straight foward aproach thingy
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Nov 1 2005, 11:15 PM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 25 2005, 5:14 PM) I never understood the whole "asking someone out" thing. I just thought that you ask someone on a date, start dating a lot, and then you just kind of ease into being a couple. i think thats how it should be. i honestly think its stupid to just be like "will you be my girl /boy friend?" and its a tad immature, how many adults do you honestly see getting with a man/lady by saying "will you be my girl /boy friend!?" |
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