Should i or not...., Dateing |
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 Oct 23 2005, 09:23 AM
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 The confused one.  Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 274,237  |
I have no idea what to think... I like this girl, 7th grade, im 8th, and we really good friends.... I want to ask her out and im not sure about her feelings... I want her to be happy but i dont want to hide my true emotions...
I dont want to ruin our friendship but i also dont know whether to ask her out or not.... Sould i ask her out? Im confused  Please respond, im in great need of help... I got into my mind that i think i will ask her but now i need to decide when and where. Should i ask her at school or when we haging out after school? Also for you girls out there, is there a good way of asking? |
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| *Solipsist* |
Oct 23 2005, 02:14 PM
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Go for it. Chicks love guys who take the initiative.
Also, if she startsacting wierd, she's not cool and therefore not worth it. - Solipsist |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Oct 23 2005, 02:19 PM
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As my friend Jason would say "Stop being a little P**sy and ask her out!"
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Oct 23 2005, 02:19 PM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
well if your not sure if she has the same feelings that you do for her, i think you should wait and see if she really really feels the same way for you. but it wouldn't hurt to ask! so i would say go for it, wuts the worse that could happen?
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Oct 23 2005, 03:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,292 |
Ask yourself this question. "Is she worth asking out?" and by that I mean do you believe that its worth giving up everything (i.e. your current friendship with her) to achieve something more... if you believe that she is worth risking everything then go for it... but if you have any doubts any doubts whatsoever reconsider your thoughts...
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Oct 23 2005, 04:29 PM
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The confused one. Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 274,237 |
QUOTE(jEllyBeaNs @ Oct 23 2005, 3:19 PM) well if your not sure if she has the same feelings that you do for her, i think you should wait and see if she really really feels the same way for you. but it wouldn't hurt to ask! so i would say go for it, wuts the worse that could happen?  Ya, just thing is that this is my last year at this school and might be the last time i see her.... And im scared as hell of asking her out |
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| *mzkandi* |
Oct 23 2005, 04:33 PM
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Moved to Relationships
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Oct 23 2005, 05:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
QUOTE(Oranite @ Oct 23 2005, 3:36 PM) Ask yourself this question. "Is she worth asking out?" and by that I mean do you believe that its worth giving up everything (i.e. your current friendship with her) to achieve something more... if you believe that she is worth risking everything then go for it... but if you have any doubts any doubts whatsoever reconsider your thoughts... yeah i agree. its your choice. no1 can tell you if its the right thing to do or not. just think if its worth it. and there are ALOT of places you can go on a first date btw. if your not sure what to talk about then you could always try a movie. u dont have to talk during movies. if you WANT to talk then go to a park or the mall or play pool or something. |
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Oct 23 2005, 05:45 PM
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 Lurker. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 |
You're the only one that can answer that question.
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Oct 23 2005, 06:19 PM
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 Don't wake ghostie. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,546 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,405 |
Just ask her out. When you get older you wish you would have anyway.
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Oct 23 2005, 06:23 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well you're having doubts about it, so you probably should wait a while before asking her out.
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Oct 23 2005, 06:23 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
oops sorry double post
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Oct 23 2005, 06:27 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you started a topic on this
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=107176 |
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Oct 23 2005, 07:05 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
yayyy!! go for it!! lols..like it matters...take some chances! what are the odds that your middle school bf/gf is going to be the one you're going to spend the rest of your life with? what are the odds that the girl/boy that turns you down in middle school will be there when you're older?! lols..wow i just gave myself advice...hahahaha...anyways...take some chance...it couldn't be that bad...lols
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Oct 23 2005, 07:25 PM
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RJL<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,194 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,019 |
just go for it. if she says yes itll be great!! and knowing is better than wandering about it your whole life. also.. if she happens to reject you it might be hard to accept at first but you'll be alright. and you guys should still be friends if shed does.. unless shes not a very nice person and stops talking to you, which in that case she wasnt worth it anyway.
so just take a chance!
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Oct 23 2005, 07:49 PM
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The confused one. Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 274,237 |
Thanks every one, this is really great. Now i just need to think of the time and place for asking her....
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Oct 24 2005, 06:08 PM
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 GEt You DRUNK Group: Member Posts: 942 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,417 |
Ask her when you guys aren't around a lot of your friends because they'll just be all butting in and shit. lol
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Oct 24 2005, 07:28 PM
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The confused one. Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 274,237 |
QUOTE(rx_azngirl @ Oct 24 2005, 7:08 PM) Ask her when you guys aren't around a lot of your friends because they'll just be all butting in and shit. lol Ya, its the only thing i could think of. Though i wasnt sure if what i think was the right thing to think... |
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Oct 24 2005, 07:40 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
You should?
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Oct 25 2005, 05:27 PM
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Find out if she likes you =O and it depends on if you want to be her boyfriend or go on just ONE date. Be specific, "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" for if she likes you ALOT and 'do you want to go out with me?" for any occasion. Hmm...7th grade you say? I'm not sure she might not be as mature as an 8th grader would but go for it.
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