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 Oct 6 2005, 04:36 AM
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 Moonlight Dreams  Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 203,581  |
this guy i know for the past 3 years...(i had previously posted a problem which concerned him..leave that now)..he was really close to me..there was a time when he became really sentimental about me..and used to flirt a lot, constantly giving hints that he really really really likes me....
during our conversations,i used to tell him about my best friends who belong to his sect of religion.... he's in another city now, and as time flew, he's almost stopped mailing..if he's online, he just says he's busy in office..i've also given up that he'd ever say a hi when he's online.. the problem is..he's got my cozin's and friend's email ids, and now he chats with them when he's online..my best friend recently had a chat with him...he doesnt bother to IM if i go online and if i msg him..well..he's toooo busy!! What do i do with this guy??? I feel he's totally nuts!!! |
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Oct 6 2005, 10:42 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
ask him whats up! if he doesnt tell you he must be with another girl// or is not interested in you anymore; something like this is happening to me right now; but im pulling it through! take some time off; then get together again...you know?
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Oct 7 2005, 05:18 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
maybe he's just not interested anymore.
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Oct 7 2005, 05:42 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,746 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,125 |
^Yeah. Its kind of your fault you didn't ask him out when you had the chance.
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Oct 7 2005, 06:18 AM
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^agreed. just forget about him and move on
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Oct 8 2005, 01:22 AM
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Moonlight Dreams Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 203,581 |
yeah....but the problem is...this guy ignores me but at the same time misses me...the last time i called him up, he was excited when i told him i'll b making a trip to where he stays now!!!..he was like..when r u comin..and when i asked him out..he was more than eager......i really can't understand wat he's upto,..!!!
Anu |
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Oct 8 2005, 11:26 AM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Maybe hes just shy to ask you first. You should've asked him whats wrong and why isn't he talking to you.
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Oct 12 2005, 07:39 AM
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Moonlight Dreams Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 203,581 |
any more suggestions?..
he called me a couple of days ago, coz he had forgotten to wish me on my bday...he did sound a bit guilty...and kept saying he's sorry... whats he upto? |
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Oct 16 2005, 08:10 AM
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Moonlight Dreams Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 203,581 |
he's obsessed with his work...and keeps saying he's working all the time...!!!!
What do u think?.. |
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Oct 16 2005, 08:44 AM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
don't double post.
maybe he just thinks of you as a good friend. that's all. |
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Oct 16 2005, 09:10 AM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Maybe he's shy and doesn't like to talk to you because he's nervous..
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Oct 16 2005, 09:11 AM
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omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Sorry for double post.. internets screwy
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Oct 18 2005, 12:51 AM
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Moonlight Dreams Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 203,581 |
do u think i shud just give him a bit more time...?? and let him be..?
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Oct 18 2005, 11:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 374 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 196,246 |
QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Oct 7 2005, 4:42 AM) ^Yeah. Its kind of your fault you didn't ask him out when you had the chance.  i agree... you should have taking the chance when you had it |
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Oct 19 2005, 05:03 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
Yeah.. Just let it go... if you really want to talk to him then keep trying or wait.. but sometimes you might get the total opposite outcome.
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